After talking for a day, my father and grandson Guiyi felt a little tired, and decided to continue the discussion tomorrow.

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info Father's later experience Gongsun Guiyi is still relatively clear, but some specific details are still not very clear, and some still need to be verified, so the conversation continued the next day: because of this insistence, my father was admitted to the university in the first batch after the resumption of the college entrance examination, majoring in pediatrics, and after graduation, he stayed in the affiliated children's hospital to engage in pediatric medical research, and later carried out Tibetan medicine research, and made major achievements in many incurable and chronic diseases, and made unimaginable breakthroughs in many diseases. Many diseases can be reduced or cured from incurable, and some achievements are still unexplained by modern science, but Chinese and Tibetan medicine has been raised to a theory very early, and it is very clear, so my father believes that the theory of Chinese and Tibetan medicine should be promoted to the world, and should not use Western medicine theory to set Chinese and Tibetan medicine, which can only lead to a dead end, because this is two different cultural systems, which can only learn from each other, integrate with each other, and take their own strengths, but they cannot be replaced, the so-called "combination of Chinese and Western medicine"

Western medicine should be used in the examination methods, diagnosis and treatment of some acute diseases, but Chinese and Tibetan medicine should be used in the treatment of diseases, especially in the treatment and conditioning of chronic diseases, because in these aspects of Chinese and Tibetan medicine does have its uniqueness, which is impossible to replace Western medicine treatment, and it is also recognized by everyone.

My father made many explorations in this regard, created many miracles, saved many patients from death, and was honored by patients as "living bodhisattvas"

, so his prestige in the medical community is high.

Because medical research is objectively close to the leadership, and my father is unwilling to have too much contact with officialdom in order to protect himself, he is also in his 60s, and he also wants to make room for young people, so he repeatedly applied for retirement, and was approved in 2014 after repeated requests. The family's experiences and changes in recent decades are documented and studied.

Speaking of this, Gongsun Guiyi remembered the family tree that had just been published in recent years, and wanted to discuss the situation of the family with his father, and wanted to fill in the shortcomings, so his father looked at the time: "It's past midnight, let's continue tomorrow"

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The next day, after getting up and having dinner, Gongsun Guiyi twisted his father and began to discuss the family situation again.

According to genealogical records: our grandson is a very famous family in Chinese history, the distant ancestor began in Sichuan, and then gradually moved to the middle and lower reaches of the Yellow River, and gradually migrated for thousands of years, in the Tang Dynasty "Anshi Rebellion"

Later, he came to Gangnam.

At the beginning of the Ming Dynasty, the ancestor of the Gongsun family in the south of the Yangtze River was well versed in philosophy and sophistication because of his long-term study of feng shui geography, summed up the lessons of the family for three thousand years, and knew that in the feudal ruling officialdom, he was prosperous and prosperous, and even the family was ruined by defeat.

It is precisely because of the wise foresight of the ancestor that he resigned and stayed away from the officialdom to avoid the catastrophe of Zhu Yuanzhang's elimination of heroes, and passed on the network of the Jiangnan Gongsun family.

Adhere to the "accumulation of thick and thin"

"Hidden Virtue Beyao"

Under the influence of 3,000 years of family culture, family members have always put reading and learning in the first place, and have a strong Confucian style.

The ancestor wrote in "Noon Qinhuai Boat Trip": "......, who divides loyalty through the ages!" The belly of the river fish is not full, and the bite of the national dog is so strong! The danger is really huge, and the sad world is embarrassing, but the original five silks can continue the life of rice, and the old people are rewarded every year. ”

The ancestors of the Gongsun family experienced the transformation from nobles to commoners, from civil officials to ordinary people; The transformation from an aristocratic and bureaucratic clan system to a people-oriented clan system was completed.

Because of the summing up of the family's 3,000-year-old aristocratic bureaucratic historical experience and lessons, it has inherited the northern culture, the Yangtze River culture that has soaked in Qinbo, and integrated into the "grassroots" of more than 600 years of arduous work

experience, formed a family cultural tradition with its own characteristics, and successfully completed the transformation of the family.

The family members kept in mind the ancestral teachings: the adoptive parents were filial piety, the history of books was meticulous, the family was based on diligence and thrift, the sincerity of others, the stay away from officialdom and politics, and the persistence of "farming and reading" in the long and difficult struggle of more than 600 years

, there are those who show talents and people in the examination, and there are those who are staff members, but "there is no career path"

。

Breaking away from the patronage of the aristocracy and bureaucracy, he cultivated a basic family style of self-reliance, self-improvement, and emphasis on natural science.

Family members insist on "farming and reading"

After more than 600 years of arduous efforts to develop the deserted Wuxi West Gate into one of the richest places in modern Wuxi, Jiangnan and even China and even the world, he has made historic contributions, and the family members have also made achievements.

After a few days of conversation, Gongsun Guiyi had a relatively comprehensive understanding of the historical development of the family, and was ready for him to repay the family and help the family develop in the future.

The subtle education of the family style is very important, although the father's growth process, the childhood experience of Gongsun Guiyi is very miserable, have never received a good education, not even formal education, they are all through self-taught, they are all in the family culture and under the influence of the family style know how to learn, at any time, in any environment can consciously learn, serious and hard, and can not die to read, can flexibly use the knowledge learned, can observe carefully, Be good at constantly summarizing yourself and borrowing the successful experience and lessons of others, constantly moving forward and surpassing yourself, and these are things that cannot be learned, learning others can never surpass others, this is the key to whether a person can succeed, in fact, the inheritance of family genes is also an important factor, everyone has their own strengths, how to find and give full play to their strengths, which is also an important guarantee to ensure their success.

To be able to discover and grasp the opportunity in time or create opportunities for my use, the careers engaged in by the members of the Gongsun family are often undeveloped or rarely carried out or not valued, but in a word, the development is promising and its trend is bound to be very promising, because they have taken the first step and become successful.

The above points are the fundamental differences between a successful person and an ordinary person.

In a villa on the outskirts of Beijing, a person was giving an order, "We, the White Lotus Sect, have been waiting for more than 700 years, and we saw that the Nine Heavens Barrier of Shenzhou was about to fail, but it was completely repaired. You must find a way to repair the Nine Heavens Barrier of the Divine Prefecture and find a way to deal with him, so as to destroy the Nine Heavens Barrier of the Divine Prefecture, let the great Demon Lord enter and control the land of the Divine State, and make us the new masters of the land of the Divine State. ”