My best friend Xiao Z's recent entanglement has been committed again, because the iPhone7 is on the market, and I can't persuade myself to take the iPhone7 with the old iphon5 in my hand, and I chattered with me in WeChat, and I was guilty of buying the iPhone5. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

I'm a little tired of it, not because he can't afford iphon7, but because he has made up his mind, but he still has to find a point of recognition in others.

When I went to college, in order to save money to buy an iPhone5, I wore many hats, distributed flyers, worked as a waiter, worked as a salesman, and endured all kinds of hardships, just to enjoy Jobs's humanistic care. It's not that you don't have money, it's that you don't have confidence

It stands to reason that the current situation is much better than when I went to school, I have a regular income every month, and I can get a month's salary. But why are you reluctant to cut meat and sell your kidneys in exchange for humanistic care now?

My best friend said sadly: After you graduate, the problems you encounter are no longer 100 or 200 yuan that can be solved. Now, despite my income, I often can't make ends meet, and I have to refrigerate myself to spend a month's salary on a mobile phone.

To tell the truth, the helplessness and complaints of girlfriends are not because they have no money, but because they have no confidence.

When I was a few years old, if I lost 5 yuan, I would sit on the ground and cry at a loss. Later, when I was a teenager, I was taken away by a thief for a week's pocket money, trembling and being blamed by my parents, and then scolding and stuffing the money into your hands. Now, if you lose your wallet, as long as your ID card is there, the hundreds of oceans in your bag will be used as a donation, and you won't be a little more anxious in your heart. Money is still money, people are still people. But the attitude towards money is very different. With confidence, our situation in the future will not be so embarrassing.

When I was a teenager, I felt naïve when I saw how many years I was crying because I lost money.

In your twenties, you were blamed by your parents for losing money in your teens, you are very wronged, the fault is not in yourself, but the fault is still borne by yourself, and you feel that you are cowardly.

Now, stand where you are, look at yourself, and suddenly you have no confidence.

I don't have the confidence to bravely pursue the person I like, but I can only watch him pass by again and again.

I don't have the confidence to take it off when I see a favorite outfit.

I don't have the confidence to change to a job I like more, and get rid of the constantly rushing *** on my head from time to time. Because you're not sure if the next job is going to be *** Pentium. Index comfortable was scolded.

I don't have the confidence to say to the people around me who have hurt themselves, let's break up. Because you're not sure if someone will take over after you leave them.

Such situations are not uncommon. is young, how can he suddenly live an old-fashioned life.

Some people say that money is very vulgar, and he believes that in this world, things that are within the scope of manpower, there is always money that cannot be done.

I asked him what it was?

He was speechless.

In this conversation, savor it carefully, there is always a taste of grapes that you can't eat and say that grapes are sour.

I saw such a scene in an interview before, and the host asked the guest, why do you care so much about money?

The male guest gave an example.

Your enemy is in love with your girlfriend, and you, as a third party, ask to quit. For the first time, I will give you 100,000. You refuse.

The second time you were given 500,000, you still refused. You believe that the spiritual world of love is greater than all material foundations.

The third time you will be given 5 million. What will happen to you?

From the perspective of human nature, this episode is too vulgar, the result is too realistic, and there is no point in judging. There is only one thing worth pondering, as the money goes up, there is always a number that will make you happy. Because you don't have the courage to resist a temptation that is great enough.

In fact, what he bought was not your love, but your ownership of your future life.

People's hearts are insufficient, with 100 want 1000, with 1000 think 10000. Hold on tightly to the only resources in your hand and don't let go. The tighter the grip, the faster it drains. You put all your energy on "thinking", not on "doing".

The so-called confidence is not the string of cold numbers, but the stubbornness in the face of solving things with money. That stubbornness is not an impulse, but a more rational view of the rational allocation of only resources.

If you have money to earn, you are afraid of spending money, because you know that it is extremely limited for you to earn thousands of dollars a month, so for the long-term plan, you brush Taobao over and over again, carefully compare, through sales, evaluation, credit, style, price, and finally select a good and inexpensive, fashionable, and fanny baby, in the end, whether it is clothes or daily necessities, his life span can not live more than a quarter. So you repeat the same action over and over again. What you think is saving money is based on spending a lot of energy, time and too much money, in exchange for defective products and dilapidated pots and pans. In fact, such an expense is not only not a saving of money, but a waste of money. Your so-called saving is only because you don't have the confidence to spend the money spent on three pieces of clothing on one dress.

The money is spent the same, but the mentality of rational treatment of money is very different. Only with confidence can flowers bloom on the ruins.

The older generation has endured hardship, hunger, and poverty. I know that only by constantly grasping what we have in our hands can we take more resources into our arms in the era of planned economy, and have the confidence to let ourselves and the next generation survive in troubled times. Therefore, if you can, you will be compromised, and if you can save, you will be saved. So in those days, good and cheap things did exist. Today, 40 years later, it is still a troubled era, but an economic troubled era, and there are countless people in any small industry who are vying for annexation to maximize the benefits of the only resources. In order to gain a foothold in the market seized by high quality and low price, it must be at the expense of product quality. Make it cheaper and cheaper with more cheap, harmful alternatives. And the resources in our hands are rapidly declining with the development of the economy unconsciously. He ceases to be eternal and does not become valuable.

The resources we can control are all fluid, it is not a pool of stagnant water, only in and out. Within the scope of one's own ability, the rational allocation of doing what is within one's ability is like a stone thrown in the middle of a pool of stagnant water, and the ripples of layers of fluctuations have a long history. Lap on the shore, constantly test the bottom line you carry, and then continue to strengthen and enrich through your own efforts, in order to throw into a bigger "stone" to test your higher bottom line.

Wang Jianlin's 100 million is a small goal, which is based on his worth of 100 billion. His confidence is his worth. And for all sivent beings like me, who are worth nothing, our confidence is how we can do our best to live a delicate and comfortable life within our own economic capacity. In the days when we were still able to eat, we should not think bitterly about the days when we gnawed on the bark of trees. Positive, optimistic and confident, he went to the chicken legs. There will be better tastes waiting for us to try in the future.