The wedding date was imminent, and both Mrs. Wu and Xu Ming received serious warnings from Grandma Xu. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 Info asked them to go back and try on the ordered dresses right away and familiarize themselves with the wedding process. Mrs. Wu really doesn't understand, what is the process of the wedding that she is familiar with, isn't it just a toast on stage? asked Xu Ming, Xu Ming was also confused. Among the brothers, Xu Lie is married, and Xu Lie's weddings are varied, and he doesn't remember what the process is.

"Why don't we get married." Xu Ming hugged Mrs. Wu, who was hot in the bed, and said with a smile.

"You run away, I don't dare, Grandma Xu won't peel my skin. Besides, I don't have to wait for Grandma Xu now, if my mother knew that I dared to release the old man's pigeons, she wouldn't crush me and feed the pigs. Mrs. Wu covered her eyes and said, that picture, it's bloody just think about it.

"Hey, what should I do?" Xu Ming said helplessly.

"Well, I think we'll rush back this afternoon, it's not a knot in the morning and in the evening. Now that we've got all the certificates, what are we afraid of, right? Mrs. Wu enlightened Xu Ming and said.

"Yes, I think we'll follow them. Now we are single-handed, and our power is thin. No resistance. Even Xu Lie, who used to help secretly, didn't care about himself this time, and didn't even call himself. and Lin Yue, when she called her, she directly stated her position: "What did grandma say you should do, who made you promise grandma that she would handle it with full authority." ”

"It's broken, what about the tickets of my mother and brother and sister-in-law?" Mrs. Wu was surprised, grandma said that the relatives here should go more to save face for the bride, but there are really not many relatives in his family, what should I do.

"It's easy, just make a phone call and book. Do you have anything else special to bring? Xu Ming said.

"No, no." Mrs. Wu sighed.

"Actually, I think we should come back here and have another wedding." Xu Ming said with a smile.

"You don't have a fever, are you?" Mrs. Wu was surprised.

Xu Ming was naturally afraid of trouble, but that day, Wang's mother called him to him and said such a thing to him.

"Xu Ming, you are a child from other places and don't understand the rules of our side. It stands to reason that the man's parents should meet when they get married. It also has to go through a small meeting, a big meeting, an engagement, a dowry, a return gift, and finally a marriage. I thought that the two families were too far apart, and that she was married for the second time, so I never gave an opinion on your marriage. I'll just tell you, be good to our daughter. ”

Xu Ming was very guilty when he heard this, at that time, he and Mrs. Wu were in a hurry to deal with Grandma Xu, but they didn't expect to ignore Wang's mother's request. But now, the certificates have been obtained, and the wedding is still five days away, so there is no time to go through these procedures. So Xu Ming asked the old man if there was any special procedure he wanted to go.

"I just think that no matter how big and luxurious you are doing over there, we can't see it here. I think since you will live here for a long time in the future, it is better to come here and hold another wedding according to the customs here. Wang's mother said unhurriedly.

Xu Ming agreed, but Wang's mother repented again: "Forget it, don't show off, if you follow the last one, it will be in vain." After speaking, he slapped his mouth a few times, and even said: "Bah, bah, stinky mouth!" Smelly mouth! What am I talking about, this mother, isn't this a curse on my daughter? Ming, you just didn't say anything, didn't say anything. ”

Xu Ming wanted to fulfill Wang's mother's wish, so he proposed this opinion to Mrs. Wu.

"Never, absolutely not, completely unnecessary, I don't have time to waste." Mrs. Wu emphasized.

"But will my mother be upset?" Xu Ming said uneasily.

"No, I'll go and tell her that when we come back, we'll give her a cup of tea alone."

Mrs. Wu naturally knew what Wang's mother was worried about, and she also knew why she was inconsistent. Don't hold a wedding here, I'm afraid that outsiders will say that my daughter-in-law is not treated by my mother-in-law's family at all, and who knows if I can do it over there. Let's hold a wedding, and I'm afraid that people will say that his daughter is swaggering. After all, on this side, Mrs. Wu is considered a divorced woman.

The second-married women in their hometown can't wear white wedding dresses, only pink. A second-married woman cannot enter her mother-in-law's house with her husband, but must enter first. In the past, women who married for the second time didn't even have a bride price. It's just that in recent years, there have been more and more divorces, more and more second marriages, and the ratio of men and women in rural areas has been seriously imbalanced, and there are more and more old singles who can't marry daughters-in-law, and some old customs have been slowly thrown away. Wang's mother told Mrs. Wu before that the old saying is that a woman who marries for the second time is cheap, and even if she marries, she will not be favored by her in-laws.

In fact, Mrs. Wu has always understood that a woman in a second marriage is cheap, and a man in a second marriage is noble? Everyone just starts a different life for various reasons and circumstances, and it is necessary to distinguish between the high and the low? Since you are willing to marry her and enter the door, why bother to belittle her?

"What do you think about a second marriage?" Mrs. Wu hugged Xu Ming tightly, wanting to draw some strength from him. She likes to talk to Xu Ming, big and small, she is willing to discuss with him and listen to his opinions. They also love to talk, and they spend more time talking than they do eating and sleeping. However, when it comes to some issues, it is inevitable that there will be concerns. The main fear is that if the two sides disagree to the left, it will be embarrassing.

"Why do you suddenly ask this?" Xu Ming was stunned, and then hugged her tightly and smiled: "It's nothing, everyone has a time when they make the wrong choice." Sometimes it's a friend, sometimes it's a partner, sometimes it's an object. Everyone has the right to make a new choice, if conditions permit. ”

"Wow, Boss Xu, I love you so much." Mrs. Wu listened to Xu Ming's words, and her mood suddenly brightened.

"Even now, do you still have concerns about our marriage?" Xu Ming asked.

"It's not about our marriage, it's about my own identity and status. I know that Grandma Xu accepted me in a considerable part because of your persistence. I'm afraid, I'm afraid that I won't be able to fulfill some of my grandmother's requirements after marriage, and I will make you embarrassed in the middle. You don't know, the status of the second-married woman on our side in the in-law's family was quite lowly at that time. But I'm not willing to be lowly, what will you do if you have a dispute with your grandmother? Mrs. Wu said worriedly.

"What? What kind of society is it now? Is this still the case? Xu Ming wondered, aren't the women now half the sky? .

"No, even if it's not a second marriage, a woman's status at home is not high. Didn't you see that my sister-in-law doesn't serve at the table every time she has a family dinner or when a relative comes? Wait for the men to finish eating before eating? Mrs. Wu said.

"Oh, I see, I thought it was because she didn't like to eat with everyone. I still wonder why my sister-in-law loves people so much, why is there a time when she doesn't like to be lively. ”

"Actually, it seems that some women now have an improved status and can control the economy at home. But that's all on the premise that the man is willing to spoil you and listen to you. If the man defects, the woman's position is lost. Because most of the women are taking care of the elderly and children at home, they have no financial resources at all. And even if some women can support themselves, they feel that the man is the pillar of the family and should be the main man in everything. Mrs. Wu said.

"However, things don't seem to be the same on our side." Xu Ming said: "I think that some women are too domineering nowadays, so that the man does not even have basic dignity at home. Resulting in a high divorce rate and infidelity rate. Speaking of equality between men and women, some women overkill and become women and men are inferior. It's not fair to men. ”

"Well, you blame women for saying that the divorce rate is high? It is impossible for men and women to be equal, and their biological conditions are different, so how can they be absolutely equal? Only relative, right? I also think that some women are excessive, and I see that there are still people on the Internet who make their husbands kneel down and admit their mistakes. It's horrible. However, in such a competitive living environment, many women not only bear heavy work but also bear more family pressure, men are better to women, and it is appropriate to give women more tolerance. yes, Boss Xu. Mrs. Wu said with some disgust.

"Oh? Did I say the wrong thing? But Grandma Xu is a feminist, and you don't have to worry about yourself being treated unfairly. Xu Ming said with a smile.

"Feminists can guarantee their rights, and they don't necessarily give the same rights to other women." Mrs. Wu pouted.

"Ah, my little lady, you are so sharp." Xu Ming teased.

"Under the oppression of all kinds of machismo, you can't live if you don't sharpen!" Mrs. Wu was proud.

"Haha, I promise, you'll definitely get justice. I swear! Xu Ming hugged Mrs. Wu with a smile and said, "Come, the seal will take effect." After speaking, he kissed Mrs. Wu on the forehead.

"Believe you for the time being, against Grandma Xu, I'm not a child, you have an advantage." Mrs. Wu said with a smile. "But to be fair, women are sometimes treated unfairly because some women simply don't play by the rules of competition. Just like those who rely on unspoken rules to get to the top, women themselves are also responsible! ”

"Men also have the possibility of being subject to unspoken rules, and in this regard, men and women are generally equal." Xu Ming said.

"Really? Mrs. Wu was surprised. And the unspoken rule of men? It was the first time she had heard of it, and she was so surprised that she couldn't close her mouth for a long time.

"No, I was almost caught by the unspoken rules before." Xu Ming said with a smile. At that time, he had just graduated and returned to China to start his own business, and a female boss of a state-owned enterprise hinted that if he was willing to be with him, he could hand over important channels to him to ensure that he made a lot of money. As a result, he gave up.

"Ah, who? Big woman? How to dive? What are the requirements? Diving? What about the conditions? I'm so curious, can you tell me about it? Mrs. Wu's curiosity was aroused, and she asked again and again.

"Well, this is a sad past, okay? Don't ask? Xu Ming pretended to be angry.

"Yes, hehe, but it's okay, I'll raise you in the future, whoever dares to sneak you and I'll beat her." Lin Yue taught me a lot of nirvana skills to win fights. Mrs. Wu smiled and comforted Xu Mingdao.

But to Xu Ming's ears, these words didn't seem so comforting. "I'll dive you first." Xu Ming said that, and then touched Mrs. Wu randomly. Mrs. Wu couldn't help but itch and laughed.

The two were thinking about having a good romantic and intimate relationship on this beautiful morning, when Wang's mother's voice sounded outside the door.

"Madam, aren't you going to the south today, the road is so far, why don't you hurry up? Your brother and sister-in-law and I are waiting downstairs. ”

Xu Ming and Mrs. Wu hurriedly got up, originally wanting to sleep a little more today. Usually I don't have time to laze in bed, and I can't take advantage of today's rest for a while. Why is it that they are obviously married, but the family is more anxious than them?

"It seems that it is wrong to open the store in the residence!" Xu Ming complained.

"There are pros and cons! In the future, it's good not to hand over the store key to Wang's mother! "Mrs. Wu is naughty.

"Do you dare to go, do you want the key back?" Xu Ming asked.

"I don't dare!" Mrs. Wu said.