Chapter 144: Xu's Father's Phone Call
Mrs. Wu spent the full moon on the child at Grandma Xu's place, and then took the child back to the town with Xu Ming. Although the www.biquge.info of the pen "Fun" Pavilion have only been away for more than a month, when they came back, they had changed from a family of two to a family of three. Mrs. Wu also has an extra identity and has become a new mother. Although I was a little busy because I had no experience in taking care of my children as a mother for the first time, the joy of being a mother overshadowed all the hardships.
She looks at the baby's little face every day, and the more she looks at it, the more she looks at it, the more she likes it. Although she had only been with Grandma Xu for a month, Grandma Xu was a little reluctant to let her child come back with Mrs. Wu. He also said that having a professional confinement lady and taking care of herself is definitely better than following Mrs. Wu. If Xu Ming hadn't resolutely objected, it seems that Grandma Xu really wanted to keep the child.
"Actually, I think you should live there with your children." Sister-in-law Reiko said: "What are the conditions over there, the four seasons are like spring, lukewarm, living in a big villa, there are people to pick up people in and out, and children can go to whatever school they want." Look at us again, what are the conditions? ”
In fact, Mrs. Wu thinks what Lingzi said makes sense, since she gave birth to a baby, she really has the heart to stay there for the baby and work hard for a career again. Eventually, however, she returned. Not only because of his own business, but also because of the dream of leading the whole town to get rich.
"What's good, it's best for a child to follow his mother." Wang's mother said. This Reiko always takes material things too seriously and can't carry them clearly. "Haven't you heard what people say on TV, only the company of parents is the best gift for children. If you stay over there, Xu Ming's career is here, and the child doesn't have a father to accompany him, then it's okay? ”
"Mom, you are really, you are really my real mother. Our views coincide. Xu Ming was excited. He does not feel that good material conditions and educational environment are necessary conditions for children's happiness. He doesn't think that everything will be fine for his child to go to a good school, he thinks that the most important thing is to cultivate the child's happiness.
Children who have lived happily since childhood will not make much mistakes even if they don't have any big achievements when they grow up. No matter what the circumstances, she can live a strong and happy life. Children have their own correct values and outlook on life and the ability to be happy, which is the most important thing.
"Therefore, the child must live by his parents, and he must be loved and respected with enough care, and everything else is secondary." Xu Ming said excitedly.
Mother Wang didn't expect her words to provoke Xu Ming's tirade for a long time, and she couldn't help but feel a little embarrassed. Because except for the first few sentences and the last sentence, she couldn't understand anything else. What values, outlook on life, what are they? However, she also had to cooperate with her son-in-law's tirade, smiling from time to time, nodding from time to time, and pretending that everything could be understood.
Mrs. Wu took Wang's mother seriously, and deliberately did not pierce this, and deliberately allowed or even guided Xu Ming to speak at length. In the end, Wang's mother was really tired of hearing this, so she made an excuse and slipped away.
Before Wang's mother left, Xu Ming still couldn't get enough of holding Wang's mother's hand and said, "Mom, can you discuss it with me for a while?" After he finished studying pregnancy and children's education, he was worried that he had nowhere to express his opinions. Mrs. Wu is sleepy every day, and she says she is tired when she talks about it. But it's so hard to take care of the baby every day, no wonder she said she was tired.
"Mom, you go slowly, we'll discuss it tomorrow." Xu Ming looked at the back of Wang's mother and said.
"Alright, you can let my mother go." Mrs. Wu teased.
"No, Wang's mother's point of view is really beyond my expectations, I used to think that the old people's thinking is outdated and can't keep up with the times, and now I find out that ideology has nothing to do with age, you look at our mother, and then look at my sister-in-law." Xu Ming said.
Mrs. Wu saw that Xu Ming was about to talk endlessly, and hurriedly said that she was tired and wanted to sleep, and while the child was asleep, she could sleep with her for a while. Why does Mrs. Wu feel that since Xu Ming became a father, he has become more and more verbose day by day. Could it be that all fathers are in this fault.
What's even more ridiculous is that the child has just been a full moon, and he has inexplicably studied the problem of puberty. At every turn, his children must not fall in love or play with boys. If you are looking for a partner, you have to wait until after the age of twenty.
You said that the child is only so old, why are you worried about falling in love now? I can't move what adolescent strategies, what eighteen skills girls should learn, and this kind of book at home has filled half of the bookcase, and it's really a bit crazy.
"Oops, why are you sleepy again?" Xu Ming said with some disgust and some pity.
"You are now responsible for mental work, I am now responsible for physical labor, taking care of the baby every day in black and white, can I not be sleepy or tired?" Mrs. Wu blamed Xu Mingdao. "Take out some energy to discuss the outlook on life with my mother and help me take care of the children, okay?"
"Oh, oh, I know, I know, but she's too small, too delicate, I'm afraid, I'm afraid I'll hurt her clumsily, so I haven't dared to touch her." Xu Ming smiled embarrassedly.
"So, you can't do it, only I can do it, so I'm very tired, please, let me go, don't give me a lecture, let me sleep first." Mrs. Wu said helplessly.
originally thought that after giving birth to a child, the most headache was how to deal with the problem of Grandma Xu and Mother Wang's concept of taking the child to the left. Unexpectedly, the two old men were both open-minded and transparent, and Xu Ming has become a big problem now.
"You sleep, you sleep, it's a pity that the child doesn't eat milk powder, otherwise I can feed her milk powder when he wakes up." Xu Ming muttered. Since the baby was born, I don't seem to be able to find a sense of existence at home. Without saying much to attract attention, they seemed to forget about themselves.
Especially Mrs. Wu, she was so focused on the child that she didn't pay much attention to herself. I should be very happy to be a father, but now I am robbed of part of my care by the child, but I am a little jealous of the child. In order to overwhelm this kind of thinking, he paid more attention to the child, so he desperately learned the child's education knowledge.
"Sleep, sleep, sleep." Seeing that Mrs. Wu fell asleep after lying down for a while, Xu Ming said in frustration.
Just when Xu Ming was worried about how to pass the time, a phone call came in, it was Xu's father.
"Congratulations on your child, congratulations on becoming a father." Xu's father said.
"Well, thank you, thank you." Thank you, not only for this congratulations. But because of his maintenance and cultivation for so many years.
"Between father and son, there is no need to say that. I originally wanted to go to see the child during the full moon, but because Wuduo couldn't do without people for the time being, I didn't go back. ”
"I know how things are now." Xu Ming asked with concern, because of himself, for himself, a father ruthlessly let his children wander outside, and he is indeed as kind to himself.
"It's much better, we've been living together for a long time, but the doctor hasn't advised us to leave the city yet. Tell him to have a slow acceptance process. There was a slight happiness and excitement in Dad Xu's tone.
"If there's anything you need my help with, just say it." Xu Ming said sincerely.
"Yes, there is something that bothers you right now." Xu's father said, "After Wuduo was discharged from the hospital, we have been renting a house nearby, and I don't like the environment here. There are a lot of people, and there is a lot of noise. The doctor said it would be good for him to return to the place where he had lived for a long time. So, I want to take him back to Samurai Village. However, I would like to seek your and your wife's opinions, and if you or she feel that something is wrong, I will say nothing. ”
"Well, the samurai village is being rebuilt, but his house is still the same. Supposedly, he has the right to come back at any time. It's just, ma'am, she's asleep, I'll reply to you another day, okay? I tried to convince her. Xu Ming said.
"Okay, I understand, thank you. Also, it's the situation on my company's side, I want to sell, you help me find a suitable buyer. I don't have time right now. ”
"Why sell?" Xu Ming was curious.
"I'm old and tired, and it's impossible to take over the current situation of Wudo. Even if he is good, he is not a material for running a company. I also know that you are not interested in the company, or you would not have gone to Wujia Village to engage in development and construction. So, I chose to sell. Choose a quiet place to live a good life with their mother and son. ”
"I understand. I'll definitely find a way to sell it for a high price. ”
"Then I'll trouble you, because of my cowardice and hesitation, I not only hurt your mother and you, but also Wudo's mother and Wudo, I want to make up for you, if you have the opportunity."
"Yes, I understand." Xu Ming was very moved, for the first time, he felt that the man on the other side was a responsible and open-minded father.
"Okay, then you can rest early, I'll wait for your news."
"Goodbye."
"Goodbye."
Xu Ming hung up the phone and couldn't calm down for a long time. When he thought he was his biological father, he couldn't understand him and forgive him. Some even hated him, some hated him. He forbade him to attend his wedding, forbade him to go near his mother's grave, and even regarded him as an enemy for a time.
But when he knew that he was not his biological father, everything was completely different. He understands him, recognizes him, and even appreciates him very much. Although he did not fully agree with many of his practices, he felt that all the decisions he made must have something to do with his living conditions and background at the time. He didn't live in that era and couldn't fully understand that he was normal.
"I hope their family is getting better and better." Xu Ming thought to himself.