On the way back, Xu Ming held Mrs. Wu's hand tightly. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info after a few days of noisy tossing, and finally had time to calm down and talk to her. Xu Ming felt that if getting the marriage certificate was an explanation for his feelings, then this wedding was purely to give Grandma Xu an explanation. Fortunately, Grandma Xu looked very satisfied.

"Tired, aren't you?" Mrs. Wu asked.

"It's okay, it's just that it's been too noisy these days, and I haven't been able to take a good look at you." Xu Ming said.

The driver of Grandma Xu in the front row couldn't help but chuckle when he heard Xu Ming's words. Who said that he was the eldest young master of the Xu family who was a crooked? It's obviously a straight man, okay? is not only a straight man, but also a straight man who is straightforward and sweet-talking. The most popular kind in the girls' pile.

Mrs. Wu heard the laughter of the driver in the front row, and shyly pulled out her hand from Xu Ming's hand. Look out the window, the streets are lit up at night. The night view of the city seems to have its beauty, with a warm breeze and brilliant lights. Let the lonely people be less lonely, and let the lively people be lively.

"Uncle Zhang, what are you laughing at?" Xu Ming said angrily. Lao Zhang is the old driver of their family, and he has always been by Grandma Xu's side, which is about the same age as Xu Ming's father. So Xu Ming kept calling him Uncle Zhang.

"No, no, I just suddenly remembered something happy." Lao Zhang said. Isn't it, the young master, who was rumored to be a comrade, held a grand wedding, and he was very compatible with his bride, isn't this a happy thing?

"You've made my bride shy." Xu Ming said. After that, he deliberately leaned towards Mrs. Wu's side and took her into his arms. He didn't want to distance himself from his beloved.

Mrs. Wu smiled shyly and leaned against him. It's so good, in this quiet and bustling unfamiliar street, it feels so good to rely on the people you love. She suddenly thought of a sentence, where the person she loves is, there is home. When she came back this time, she felt that everything here seemed to be much more intimate.

"What did Grandma whisper to you? Two people so intimate? Xu Ming was curious, he had never seen his grandmother so close to anyone.

"It's nothing, it's just a conversation about family life, inconsequential little things. The gist of it is that finding you to marry you is the blessing of my life, let me cherish you so much. Mrs. Wu said with a smile.

"I agree with my grandmother's point of view. Anyway, you must be inseparable from me, and you can only be happy if you are with me. "Xu Ming Lai Pijia is going to be coerced.

"Well, I don't disagree, your point of view." Mrs. Wu said helplessly. "It's just that grandma is old, so you can spend more time with her in the future."

"Grandma doesn't need it, you probably don't know yet, Xu Lie was kicked out of the villa by grandma." Xu Ming said mysteriously.

"Really? I really didn't notice. That's right, I don't seem to have seen Xu Lie much when I came back this time. Mrs. Wu said, "Why?" ”

"Why? It's not because he's too annoying, Grandma Xu said that she wants to live a chic old age and doesn't want juniors to disturb her. It is said that a private yoga instructor was specially hired to do yoga for the elderly and adjust the lumbar spine. If you want to enrich yourself, you have to start a relationship! Xu Ming knows that Grandma Xu is different from ordinary elderly people, her life has always been arranged by herself, and she is not the kind of elderly person who needs to be accompanied. She seems to have a new life motto recently: "If you don't live if you don't be wonderful, eighty flowers are also flowers." ”

"Grandma Xu only knew that eyeliner was arranged around us, but I didn't expect that I also arranged eyeliner by her side, right, Uncle Zhang?" Xu Ming was not by Grandma Xu's side for a long time, and Grandma Xu didn't like to use her mobile phone, nor did she like to be booed for warmth, so Xu Ming had to use Grandma Xu's most common trick to care about her. So he arranged the most reliable eyeliner, and if she wanted to go out and do something, she had to follow this eyeliner.

"Haha, you're really a family!" Uncle Zhang said with a smile. Of course, it refers to Xu Ming and Grandma Xu, these two people actually use the same tricks to care about each other. Why bother with a phone call to solve the problem?

"I really admire my grandmother, who is so pursuing and thoughtful at such an old age." Mrs. Wu said.

"It's not that I was delayed and dragged down when I was young, but when I am old, I have time and ability, of course, I have to live more for myself." Uncle Zhang said with deep feelings.

"That's right, when I was young, I didn't have enough experience and concentration, I was always confused left and right, and I could see what I wanted when I was old, but often at that time, I was either not physically good or my ability couldn't reach it. Speaking of which, it's really pitiful for people to live. Mrs. Wu said with emotion.

"Why did you suddenly have this feeling?" Xu Ming asked with concern.

"I guess I was talking to my grandmother. Occasionally, I myself am confused, and I have worked so hard to live so hard, and in the end I have a pile of ashes and nothing. What are you saying we are fighting for? "Since Mrs. Wu started her business, she has also encountered a lot of strange people and things, and she has also suffered a lot of losses, and occasionally she feels hard.

"Because I can always feel the beauty around me, because there is always hope, life may be hard, but there is always sweetness in the hardship." Xu Ming comforted.

"Probably, but what is the good? Sometimes it's hard to know for sure. Mrs. Wu asked.

That's because the level of knowledge, the limitations of the living environment, and the age difference cause different pursuits in the heart, so I am not sure what beauty is. For me, the beauty of the moment is like family affection, such as love, such as the sunshine and green trees I like, for example, the warm wind at night. Xu Ming said.

"That's right, in fact, sometimes I think about it, it's because we want or care too much, so we're unhappy, so we're confused. In fact, if you think about it carefully, in addition to life and death, it seems that there is really nothing important to worry about. Why bother holding on to some past love and hatred, embarrassing yourself and making others unhappy. ”

"Yes, ma'am, let it go when it's time to put it down." Xu Ming looked at Mrs. Wu who had a little starlight in her eyes beside her, and had some doubts in her heart. I don't know why she suddenly sighed with emotion and said this to herself.

"I've worked so hard to put it down, what about you? Xu Ming, is there anything else you can't put down? Mrs. Wu asked.

"Me? Ever since I met you, it seems like I've put everything down. Xu Ming smiled and said, "You are my little sun." ”

"Liar, let go of everything, then why didn't Dad Xu accompany you into the auditorium during this wedding?" Mrs. Wu asked with a smile, and even Mother Wang asked herself privately about who Father Xu was, and why didn't she see Father Xu come on stage to say a few words. Almost all the old and young members of the Xu family came to the stage to say blessings, and even Xu Jia from abroad came back to the stage to give a speech.

"This can't always be my unilateral effort, in fact, I don't blame him, it's he who always feels that there is a gap between us. I can't help it. I don't think there are some things that can't be forced. ”

The relationship between Xu Ming and Xu's father was indeed eased at the moment when Mrs. Wu and Xu Ming were just confirmed to be together. At that time, Xu Ming remembered everything in the past, and thought of his father's helplessness when he wanted to love but couldn't, and decided to forgive him for all his irresponsibility and get along with him.

However, after Xu Ming had a car accident, he never begged his father, and he begged his father to try to keep him in the country and not leave Mrs. Wu too far, but Xu's father firmly refused. If it was because it was for the sake of his own body, then he would not be able to forgive what happened to Wuda later.

Originally, Father Xu promised to let Wu Duo stay away from Mrs. Wu, but later he found out that Father Xu didn't do anything at all. Not only did Wu Duo find a way to keep Mrs. Wu in his bar, but he also caused her to be beaten. He asked Xu's father why he didn't fulfill his promise, and he actually said that the palms and backs of his hands were full of meat. How can he continue to be close to him?

"However, I think he is an elder, and it is normal that some things can't be put on the shelf, so you should be more active as a junior." Mrs. Wu said.

"No, I've tried, it's not a matter of seniority, it's a matter of two equal men. I think that the relationship is maintained by the interaction between the two parties, whether it is blood relatives, friends, lovers, feelings do not come for nothing. If you are good to me, I will be good to you, you are bad to me, if I still smile at you, is it not too unreasonable, am I right about my dignity and personality? If the other party really cares about me, how can I be willing to let me please him regardless of dignity? Xu Ming said with some excitement.

He never felt that unconditional filial piety to his elders was an obligation, and that duty and power were always relative. If you gave me enough love and tolerance when I was a child, we lived in harmony and harmony, and when I grew up, I would naturally express my love and care for you.

He felt that China's self-proclamation was a country of etiquette, but it made children's natural love for their parents an obligation. It is very different from the title of this ceremonial state. He has seen many maintenance disputes between parents and their children when they are old, and he never thinks that it is the children's unilateral fault. He also doesn't agree with the saying that there are parents who are all in the world.

"I actually considered dissolving the legal paternity relationship with him, because I was afraid that there would be a lot of trouble in the future." Xu Ming said with some excitement.

"This, why? I don't really understand, but I think you always have your considerations when you think so. Mrs. Wu tried her best to be tactful, and she felt Xu Ming's rejection of this issue.

"I was thinking about it, and in short, I didn't think he had fulfilled his responsibilities as a father to me. And I, since I didn't enjoy my rightful rights, didn't want to take care of him in the future. Xu Ming tried to keep his tone calm. He really didn't like the subject.

Although my father was forced by my grandfather to marry my mother, even if I didn't like it, I had to take on the minimum family responsibilities. If you really can't get along, you can choose to divorce and pursue your own happiness. But he chose to cheat in marriage, and ignored his young children, so he was really not a responsible person.

He agreed to his request but did not fulfill his promise, repeatedly failed to speak of credibility, and was not a worthy friend. Therefore, he didn't want to continue to work hard to improve the relationship between the two people, and he didn't want to have anything to do with him anymore. Anyway, whether they recognize this father or not, they will live well with each other. Why should he force the relationship to improve.

"Actually, I think there are some things that are simply incomprehensible from different positions and perspectives. Madame, I know your hard work. But please don't force me to do things that I can't accept. Xu Ming was helpless, he finally knew why Mrs. Wu said the topic at the beginning.

"Of course, I understand, I understand. It's that I'm too anxious. Mrs. Wu patted Xu Ming's hand soothingly, and there was their wedding ring on her slender fingers. It was the first time that Mrs. Wu had worn a diamond wedding ring, and although this thing looked beautiful, it was really inconvenient to wear it. She didn't understand why anyone would like to wear these gold, silver and jade on their bodies, not too cumbersome?

"This wedding ring is really a bad hand." Mrs. Wu changed the subject.

"I think so too." Xu Ming said.

He never felt that a man who always wore his wedding ring was love and loyalty to his wife, he felt that it was something that was not related to him at all. Loyalty and love are in the heart, not in the hands.