Chapter 114: The Conversation Between Mrs. Wu and Wu Da Part II
Xu Ming handed a cup of warm boiled water to Mrs. Wu, who naturally took it and expressed her gratitude with a smile. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info Xu Ming looked at Mrs. Wu with a smile on his face and doting eyes, and said some thoughtful words such as being careful and hot. The two get along with each other in the most everyday mode, natural and not pretentious.
"Wuda, in general, I think you are a good man with responsibility. In the handling of the relationship with your wife, you may have avoided it, but in the end you still chose to face it and stand up bravely, which makes me feel that you are not bad. In particular, you have the courage to admit your own affairs in front of the villagers, and stand up and take a stand at our most critical juncture, so that we will not suffer a lot of criticism. Xu Ming said calmly.
When Wu Da heard these words, he felt a little ashamed. In fact, he bravely stood up and confessed, he more or less wanted to make himself feel better. It wasn't entirely for them, and at that time, he was also forced by the oppression of Takedo. Wu Duo clearly warned him and only gave him three days to think about it and confess in front of the villagers. Otherwise, he would do something that would embarrass Wuda even more. Takeshi knows Takedo's temper and believes in Takedo's ability.
"Actually, that's what I'm supposed to do. My cowardice and vanity have hurt many people, and I can't be wrong again and again. Wu Da finally saw something clearly, and finally realized that he himself had always been a cowardly and vain person.
At the beginning, he was bent on changing the recent situation, thinking about having a child, thinking that Jifu had received a lot of compensation, and thinking that he could easily live the rest of his life. I chose Jifu. But when he thought of Mrs. Wu, he was afraid of offending her family, he was afraid that she would be sad and reluctant to let her go, and he thought that there might be a better way, so he quietly hid it from her.
At that time, he really thought that he would have a child with Jifu and live together in the mountain city, and then he could go back to Mrs. Wu for a period of time every year and live with her. Anyway, Mrs. Wu, she just thought that she was working outside, and she wouldn't find out. Thinking of these now, Xu Ming said that he was responsible, which was really overestimating him.
"Wuda, let go of the past and everything you thought you had, open your eyes and heart, and take a good look at the environment you are in. Try to change your current situation, as long as you let go of the past mire, you will see the beautiful grassland. You see, I am with Xu Ming now, we are really happy, and we can live together so happily, which is also the result of trying to look forward. Mrs. Wu sighed.
Wu Da on the other side was a little cramped, looking like a helpless child, and the contradictions and struggles in his heart were written on his face, making people feel that he was so ignorant and immature.
"I understand, I'm just, just, just a little unwilling." Wu Da said.
"I understand your unwillingness, I just came out of that kind of unwillingness. At that time, when I learned about the betrayal, I denied myself in addition to denying you, and I didn't know why I was betrayed. I don't think I deserve to be treated like that in everything I do. However, later, I figured out that life is like this, you can't grow up in love and care forever, you always have to go through some setbacks before you can be more confident and stronger. Mrs. Wu said.
"And your unwillingness, I won't tell you politely, comes more from your greed. You think of the selfishness in your heart as love for me, so you are not reconciled. You don't want to be reconciled, why you have nothing and you have lost the person you love. But have you thought about it, not all mistakes can be undone. Since we have missed it, even if you really love me, we will not be able to go back to the past. ”
"Think about it again, do you know me now? Do you know what you're thinking right now? The one you love, or the one you thought in your heart, the Mrs. Wu who felt guilty about her and wanted to take care of her has long since ceased to exist. I'm not the same person I used to be. So, don't worry about what has passed, just look forward. I would like to get to know you again as a friend. ”
Mrs. Wu said calmly, and Xu Ming next to her nodded and smiled. Even Wu Da on the side stared at Mrs. Wu's face with some epiphany, embarrassed or embarrassed.
"Well, Madame is right, everyone's past is only a part of his life, not the whole thing, if you only live in the past, then your life will never change." Xu Ming added.
Mrs. Wu chuckled and shook Xu Ming's hand beside her, he could always summarize what he wanted to say with a sharp and incisive point. Whenever he felt that his expression was too wordy and not clear enough, he jumped out to affirm a perfect explanation. In Lin Yue's words, "Xu Ming can always make a perfect ending for your opinions and arguments." ”
"Also, this time we talked to you, there is another person's reason. She called me several times without regard for her dignity, begging me to find a way to take care of you. Xu Ming said.
Wu Da raised his head in some astonishment, thought about it, and lowered his head in shame, of course he knew who that person was. Now he is rejected like a rat crossing the street, and he is still willing to care about him and ask someone to help him, who else but Jifu, no, not Jifu, her name is Zhaodi.
"Actually, I still sympathize with her. I can understand her, she is not easy, if you have a little affection or love for her, I hope you can cherish her. She is wholeheartedly for you and is a nice woman. Mrs. Wu said with a chuckle.
"My opinion is that it is not easy to meet someone you love, it is not easy to meet someone who loves you wholeheartedly, and it is even more difficult to fall in love. I hope you can cherish the people around you, if you don't have a trace of love for her, then please tell her clearly and make a break with her. This decision cannot be just verbal, but also behavioral. It's not right for you to reject her in words and give her hope back in deeds. Xu Ming emphasized.
"I know, I know, I'm going to make a choice, I'm going to respect myself and I'm going to respect her." Wuda said.
When Mrs. Wu heard Wu Da's words, her heart suddenly felt much lighter, and she smiled happily. This is a good start, when a person starts to look at his own heart, to examine his feelings for another person, it means that he is growing. Mrs. Wu understood this, and Xu Ming also understood this, and the two of them looked at each other and smiled again. And Wuda is still a little ignorant, he still doesn't understand it very well.
When you come out of a dark room, you will always be caught in the eyes by the sun, and you will be a little confused and uncomfortable, which is normal.
"Well, okay, after all that, the dishes are almost cold, let's eat them. Only after eating can you have the strength to solve the problem. Xu Ming said with a smile.
"Here, this is your favorite." Mrs. Wu picked up a piece of sweet and sour yam beside her and put it in Xu Ming's bowl.
"Here's this." Xu Ming handed a piece of braised pork to Mrs. Wu's mouth.
"Wuda, I remember that you also like to eat braised pork, eat more." After Mrs. Wu finished speaking, she turned the braised pork to Wu Da. "Xu Ming can't eat this, saying it's too salty, he loves sweet and sour."
After hearing this, Wu Da's nose was a little sour. She remembers, like she said, good and bad, she remembers.
"Thank you, thank you, thank you." Wu Da stuffed a piece of braised pork into his mouth and said indistinctly. Maybe it was because the flavor of the spices in the meat was too strong, and he couldn't stop crying. The tears rolled down the corners of his mouth into his mouth, a little astringent. However, the meat was really delicious, and he hadn't eaten such delicious meat in a long time.
"It's delicious, it's really delicious, it's delicious." Wu Da continued to speak vaguely.
"Delicious, right? In fact, even if you suffer again in the past, there is always some beauty worth absorbing. But now that everything is in the past, let's cherish the past and work hard to move forward. The accumulation of the past should be the motivation for us to live better, not to become a fetter for us to move forward. Xu Ming's words were not only for Mrs. Wu and Wu Da, but also for himself. He knew that although it was easy to say, it was really difficult to get out. So, sometimes, he is willing to pull them along.
It is not only to help others, but also to be vigilant about oneself. People always have to be constantly awakened in order to continue to grow. Become a stronger version of yourself.
"Actually, I really, really don't deserve to be treated like this by you." Wu Da couldn't hold back his excitement and cried. This is not the first time that Mrs. Wu has seen him cry, but this time there is less more forbearance, more sincerity and frankness in the cry.
"You deserve it, people make mistakes, and they should all have the opportunity to correct them." Mrs. Wu said. "Although, between us, you betrayed first, but you also took your own responsibility. So, you deserve to be taken seriously, you deserve a better life, believe in yourself. Think about how high-spirited you were in the past. As long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely live a happy life. ”
Wu Da looked at Mrs. Wu's sincere eyes that flashed like stars through tears, and cried even more fiercely. Xu Ming didn't speak, but carefully transferred the tissue on the table to Wuda. Crying like this is not a good thing for him.
Sister-in-law Reiko finished busy with the guests outside, and when she heard the crying in the private room, she couldn't help but come over curiously. looked at Wu Da, who was crying with disdain, and said, "Wu Da, what else do you want to eat, why is the food made by my sister-in-law not delicious?" Do you see you're spicy like this? Or is it sour? Dirty? ”
When Wu Da heard this, he slowly stopped crying, gradually smiled, and said to Reiko, "Thank you, sister-in-law." ”
"No thanks, no thanks." Reiko said with some embarrassment. Is this Wuda stupid or what, can't you hear that he is laughing at him? This guy couldn't listen to this kind of teasing thing before, and he was very arrogant and tough. Thank you for this. Reiko was afraid of causing any conflict, so she withdrew with an embarrassed smile.
After all, the relationship between people in this room is lively enough. I don't know what Xu Ming's guy thinks, he is so close to his wife's ex-husband. The lady too, and agreed to let the two of them sit down and eat together. It's really, incomprehensible. If she were her, she would never have been able to do this.
"Well, since everyone is open and having a good conversation, why don't we have a drink and celebrate. What do you think. Xu Ming proposed.
Wu Da stood up and said sincerely: "No, I'll replace the wine with tea, toast the two of you." Your hard work today, I remember it, and I will never let it down. After Wu Da finished speaking, he drank three glasses in a row, and after drinking and sitting down, he smiled embarrassedly, like a shy big boy.
"And what about your work?" Mrs. Wu asked. "Is there anything else you want to say?"
"Thank you for giving me this job, but I'm not sensible and causing trouble, and continuing to do it will only make people complain. I figured it out, and since I wanted to start over, I would start all over again from where I worked. I will find something that suits me to do on my own, learn slowly, and improve slowly. Wuda said with emotion.
"It seems like something used to be stronger." Mrs. Wu smiled mischievously.
Wu Da looked at Mrs. Wu and Xu Ming with a smile on their faces, and said with emotion, with such a kind person taking care of himself so much, what reason do he have not to work hard? He slowly raised his head and gave Mrs. Wu and Xu Ming a big, sincere and bright smile.