268. Disappointment
268. Disappointment
At that time, people were engaged, and the significance was as important as that of people getting marriage certificates now. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info is generally engaged, and it is a sure thing for two people to get married together.
Wu Dan's eyebrows furrowed, she didn't expect Han Xiaodong to ask this question.
Engagement, she didn't think about this at all, but she promised to deal with someone else, but this problem will have to be faced sooner or later, after the New Year, she will be twenty years old, it is time to talk about marriage, since she agreed to deal with someone else, she can't say anything bad or dissatisfied with him, and there is no other reason to prevaricate this matter. But in her heart, she really didn't want to get engaged in such a hurry.
Han Xiaodong saw Wu Danmei's blank expression, and knew that he was asking this question too abruptly now. How could she just be kind to herself, and he just got an inch?
He found a step for her and for himself and said: "This matter is not a trivial matter, so you think about it carefully, and then promise me when you think about it."
Seeing that Wu Danmei was relieved, Han Xiaodong added, "Think about it slowly, think about it for a month, half a year, a year, it's not in a hurry, I have patience and wait." ”
Wu Danmei was a little moved, if you like a person, you can be infinitely tolerant of him, not all people who like others have this patience and infatuation. This, he is like herself.
She has experienced and understood this kind of suffering, do not do to others what you do not want to be done, she thinks, the longer the time drags on, the worse it will be for him.
Wu Danmei said to Han Xiaodong seriously: "Han Xiaodong, it doesn't take a year, you give me another half a year, and after half a year, I will definitely promise you."
Han Xiaodong looked at Wu Dan's beautiful face.
What a kind girl this is, even if she doesn't have him in her heart, she will respect him and abide by her duty. He didn't love the wrong person, and he was willing to wait for her with more patience and love.
Wu Danmei and Han Xiaodong went to dinner together again and watched a movie, and when Han Xiaodong sent Wu Danmei home, it was already late.
Wang Chunyu pulled down his face to Han Xiaodong for the first time and said: "Han Xiaodong, you and my Xiaomei have been getting along for more than three months, so you often go out to play, and come back very late, and you are not engaged, which makes the neighbor next door see it, and will only say that our Xiaomei is a girl's family and does not abide by their duties." It doesn't matter to you. ”
Han Xiaodong didn't know that Wang Chunyu was in a bad mood today, so he asked him to play on the topic.
He didn't know what Wang Chunyu meant by these words. Is it to remind him to invite his parents to Wu Danmei's house to discuss the engagement? He thought! But Wu Danmei just rejected him and asked him to wait for half a year. So Han Xiaodong didn't know how to answer Wang Chunyu at this moment.
looked at Han Xiaodong with an embarrassed look.
Wu Danmei said: "Mom, why do you say that? It's only half past eight, and it's not too late, we're in a normal relationship, who would talk nonsense? ”
"Ho! You're still protecting him? That's it for not getting married yet? I'm not doing this for your own good, if he is sincere, why don't you invite your parents to discuss your affairs. ”
Han Xiaodong wanted to say something, Wu Danmei said: "Han Xiaodong, you go back first, I'll talk to my mother."
Wu Danmei sent Han Xiaodong out of the house, she closed the door, and said to her mother: "Mom, when I was outside with Han Xiaodong just now, he discussed with me about the engagement, and I asked him to wait for another half a year."
"Wait half a year? Why wait half a year? ”
"Mom, I don't want to get engaged so early and get married so early, are you so eager to kick me out?"
"Little eyebrows! Girls have to get married and have children at the best age, after this best age, a woman's flowering period has passed, and there is no room for picking. ”
Wu Danmei walked to his room, "I said half a year later, half a year later." What not to pick? ”
After Wu Shufang returned home, she told her parents that Jiang Hongfei's family planned to hold Jiang Hongyan's wedding first, and that her wedding with Jiang Hongfei could only be postponed until a year later.
Li Guixiang said: "How can the Jiang family be like this? Isn't it from big to small? It's not the brother who gets married first, but the younger sister, what's the reason? ”
"I heard that Lei Youliang is one year older than Jiang Hongfei, and the Lei family is very anxious, so let them do it first." Wu Shufang explained, but she didn't dare to say that Jiang Hongfei herself proposed it first.
"Their family didn't discuss it with our family, so it was too disrespectful to our family to decide like this, right?" Li Gui said with a puffed aroma.
"We are not engaged yet, they are engaged first, so they will set their wedding date first, and ours, Hongfei said that he will come to tell you in person in a few days, and the specific time will be discussed when we are engaged."
"You dead girl, why are you doing your best to help their family? Aren't you in a hurry at all? The wedding date is a year later, and who knows what will happen in this year's time? ”
"Mom, the Jiang family has already settled, what else can we do? What do you tell me to do? ”
Li Guixiang slapped her thigh, "You! You! People are beautiful and bright, and the conditions at home are not bad, why can't they fight for some anger and take Jiang Hongfei to death. Let him marry you earlier, and let him go to the family to fight for it? You said you have such a good resource, you won't make good use of it......""
"Mom, how can you say that? I ......" Wu Shufang cried angrily, she was wronged enough, and she had to be counted like her mother when she went home, didn't she want to get married earlier? How could she be so unlucky!
Wu Weidong said: "Enough, one year will be one year later, half a year and one year, is there any difference?" The family has already settled, and if you don't give up, are you in such a hurry to marry your daughter? What do you make people think of their homes? ”
Wu Shuhua said: "That's right! Isn't it just a year? It's gone quickly, Jiang Hongfei is older than Shufang, and their family is not in a hurry, what are we anxious about? ”
Li Guixiang also knew that things were already like this, so she could only admit it, she just vaguely felt that this Jiang Hongfei didn't seem to care much about her daughter, most people let their sons get married first, not to mention that Jiang Hongfei is still the eldest son in the family, and he should get married first, and she understands that the Jiang family doesn't care about this eldest son, but why would they let their sister get married first?
It is nothing more than two reasons, one is that the Jiang family cares more about the Lei family than their Wu family, and the other is that Jiang Hongfei doesn't care much about his daughter, if he cares, he should marry her home earlier. If he has this heart, he will convince his parents, so all other reasons are not reasons.
Li Guixiang analyzed these two reasons, and Wu Weidong also thought of it, but he didn't say anything.