"This kid is poor and exquisite. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info" Li Ying smiled so much that there was a flower on her face, but she still complained symbolically in her mouth.

"This is yours, isn't it, if the child is good, you must affirm and praise, otherwise it is easy to feel inferior, especially girls." Miao Qing also played well with Li Ying during the Chinese New Year, and her temper was also in tune, so she spoke more directly.

"Really?" Li Ying still doesn't believe it, don't parents subconsciously press their children and praise others in front of outsiders?

"I have studied children's education abroad before, and it is indeed a little different from ours in China." Miao Qing whispered in Li Ying's ear.

Li Ying also knew that this topic was very sensitive, but seeing that Xian'er was indeed much more active than her own children, and she had not been able to take care of Xi'er closely, she felt even more guilty.

"Tell me, what is this about educating children?"

The two walked to the edge of the ridge and began to exchange parenting scriptures in a low voice.

Later, after Xi'er found out, she was also very grateful to Miao Qing.

Parents are worried about their children's pride, so they rarely praise their children, which is the traditional educational philosophy of Chinese parents, but they ignore that children also need recognition.

No matter how good your performance is, your parents will always look at it with a critical eye, and your children will begin to question whether they are really inferior to others.

In the long run, you will become less and less confident, and even begin to doubt life.

Children who grow up in such a family will also care especially about their external evaluation of themselves, and always hope to be recognized by others.

Thus losing oneself, especially in this age.

One is because of the general environment, and the other is because there are many children, and everyone can't take into account the psychological growth and guidance of children.

Whether it is a teacher or someone else praising their own child, it is always a derogatory remark that is better than your child.

So, gradually, the idea of "why am I not the kid next door?" ”

There were only about 20 children in total, and Teacher Xue arranged them in a classroom with a long table for two students.

There is a third grade on one side and a fourth grade on the other, and the children in the lower grades are scheduled to take exams the next day, and one teacher can't take care of it.

What people didn't expect was that Gao Wanwan was already fourteen years old, and she and Xi'er took the third-grade entrance exam!

What is even more unacceptable is that the exam has not been passed.

Most parents send their children back and go, and the family is still waiting for a mess.

There are only Zhang Qing and the three of them, and Gao Wanwan's mother is still waiting outside, ready to pick up the child and go back together.

The two sons in the family, just this one baby daughter, the village chief's daughter-in-law has always regarded her as an eyeball, and she decided to go to school this time.

The eldest son and the youngest son are both in school, why can't their daughter know a single word?

Besides, girls who are knowledgeable and educated will have more advantages in finding their in-laws in the future.

If this is heard by others, it is estimated that the front teeth will laugh off.

As far as her IQ is concerned, she is lazy and unreasonable, even if she knows a basket of big characters, it is also a big difficulty to find her mother-in-law's house.

But if the dowry is thicker, there are such men.

Gao Cripple, the son of the third son in the village, has always had a soft spot for Wanwan~

In other words, San'er's family is definitely a strange thing in the strange, the man is the hob meat in the village, and he eats and drinks everywhere.

The daughter-in-law is also the kind of woman who is surprisingly lazy, and some daughters-in-law in the village have noticed that it is in the summer, and their family will only dry a piece of clothing at the door of the house for ten days and half a month, and it is only a small dress.

His son didn't learn well since he was a child, and he stole chickens and dogs everywhere.

One year, he was stealing watermelons in the public field, and was discovered by the old man guarding the shed, and fell into the ditch and broke his leg when he chased him, and the family had no money for medical treatment.

It dragged on for months, but it became lame.

Because this matter has a lot to do with the production team, the people in the village would rather go farther away than pass by their door, for fear of getting into trouble.

But what's strange is that the cripple has liked to stick to Wanwan since he was a child, and he will give her anything delicious.

Although he was kicked out by her every time and scolded him severely, he still didn't hate or annoy, and next time he would stick his hot face to someone's cold ass.

Only after breaking his leg, the lame man's personality became even more ruthless, and ordinary children did not want to play with him.

His eyes were cloudy, like a poisonous tongue spitting out letters, and people were uncomfortable to see.

At this time, he was also squatting on the earthen dam, guarding the end of Gao Wanwan's exam.

Li Ying and Miao Qing chatted warmly, but they didn't notice the unknown sight in the distance.

"Why do you send your children to school and bring so many things?" Miao Qing pointed to the travel bag beside Li Ying.

"Tian Cheng has lived with his grandfather since then, there are many children, and there is a learning atmosphere when living together, so I brought him a change of clothes. In two days, my family will bring food or something. ”

"That's right, since my family Xian'er met your family Xi'er, she went home every day to learn and practice calligraphy. said that it was a shame to be compared to a small partner. ”

"Hahaha, my family Xi'er has used this trick to control my son since he was a child, and it's the same when he goes to school this time." As a mother, as long as she talks about her children, the conversation box can no longer be closed.

Soon, the bell rings, heralding the end of the exam.

"Xi'er, how did you do in the exam? I see you've been playing for a long time, haven't you? As soon as Xian'er handed over the paper, her mouth was bumpy, and she asked.

"No, I've already finished writing it, I'm waiting for you."

"Uh, can you hit me like this?" The fairy flame was sneered at and poured cold water on it.

"Zhang Yi, did you finish it in advance and play there?" Tian Cheng and the two of them were next to Xi'er, and when they heard their conversation, they hurriedly turned around and asked Zhang Yi.

"Hmm." Nodding calmly, he began to pack his schoolbag, and seriously shook off the ash on the snakeskin bag and folded it into tofu pieces.

OMG, Tian Cheng thought of the hard work behind him, and his heart was immediately hurt by 10,000 points.

"I've got to outdo you." Silently gritted his teeth.

"Okay, I'll wait." Zhang Yi cocked his smooth little chin and said defiantly.

"In three days, everyone will come to the school to get their report cards." The teacher packed up the test papers, gave a word of advice, and withdrew.

The boys scattered in a hurry~~

The kid was stunned, and Xian'er also pouted and silently walked out of the classroom.

"What's wrong? Did you not do well in the exam? Miao Qing couldn't help but chuckle in her heart when she saw her daughter's listless appearance.

No way?

"Mom! In the future, I will have to write 50 big characters every day, and I will know 5 new words! Xian'er clenched her two small fists, shouted loudly, and then threw herself into her mother's arms for comfort.

Li Ying saw that her son's mood was not high, so she hurriedly signaled with her eyes, "What's wrong?" ”

"Hit!" Xi'er gave the answer with a lip shape.

Hit by it? Li Ying hasn't figured it out yet.

"Mom! I also want to make it more difficult to study, and I must surpass Zhang Yi. Tian Cheng gritted his little white teeth and creaked.

Then he didn't look back, and rushed forward.

Cat Niuer said

The second is a little later to release it~~ Happy Monday, the cat came back after half a month, and the manuscript has been used up, woo~~ The next thing is the "happy" hoarding career~~