"No, how can I have trouble with her," she shook her head with a wry smile, "I'm just worried about her, she doesn't even want to move meat now, you didn't say that she should have balanced nutrition, she has been a vegetarian for a long time, I am worried about her body, but it is useless for me to persuade her, she refuses to listen to my ...... now"

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"You, you, don't you think the relationship between your mother and daughter is upside down? If she is still delirious, you are filial piety, but she has her own opinions and ideas, and you still want to manage her, then it is not filial piety, it is control, and it is fiddling. ”

Looking at Xia Yao's stunned expression, Lin Ruoshui ate another chopstick fish and took a sip of wine, "When the child is older, he has left his parents, and his age like you is about to enter puberty, you see that Lin Xiaofang wants to get rid of me all day long......

"Master, I didn't ......" Lin Xiaofang's mouth was full of vegetables, and he didn't forget to raise his head and protest incoherently.

"Why not? You are not at home all day, you can't wait to stay away from me, an old man, and when you get home, you play games in front of the computer, and you mysteriously don't let me ......watch it," Lin Ruoshui said sadly.

Lin Xiaofang shrank his neck weakly, not daring to speak up anymore.

"Aren't parents all for the good of their children? Why do children want to leave their parents? Because they have grown up and have their own independent personality and way of thinking, they have to learn to live independently in this society, independence is the nature of all animals, and you will have to leave your mother in the future, because the two of you are independent individuals, it is impossible to live together for a lifetime, you have to learn to adapt to this process. ”

"Master, I didn't want to leave my mother, I just wanted to be by her side for the rest of my life." She asked blankly, because she had lost in her previous life, she cherished it in this life, and since the day she was reborn, she took Xia Fanglian as the focus of her life, but since this time, the two have drifted apart, which makes her heart very uncomfortable.

"This is your idea, this is your current thought, no one can be by her side for a lifetime, if you have to say yes, it is also a husband and wife partner who stay together for the rest of their lives, you and your mother's personality and way of thinking are far apart, you can't be by her side forever with her. It's like you said that she likes to chant Buddha, but you don't like it, she has nothing to talk to you about, so it's better to talk to your landlord and grandmother. What about you, I don't like her to talk about Buddhism in front of you, after all, you are still a little girl, you prefer to play ball and run with your group of friends at school, I'm afraid that going to an Internet café with Lin Xiaofang to play a game is happier for you than listening to your mother read scriptures for an hour, right? ”

Xia Yao opened her mouth to refute him, but found that what he said seemed to be reasonable, and she couldn't find a reason to refute him.

"Isn't this what you young people often call the generation gap? Your mother's body is slowly recovering, she is not the child you think she is, you have to learn to respect her ideas, and at the same time you have to start learning to live independently, don't focus all your attention on your mother, you will put a lot of pressure on her. Lin Ruoshui laughed, "I like to play games at my age, you can tease me a few words at most, you won't worry about it because I play games all day long, and you want to persuade me all day long, right?" Because you know that I have the ability to organize my own life, you will not impose your will on me, and in the same way, your mother is now capable of determining her own lifestyle, and you have to learn to let go. ”

Xia Yao bit her lip, as Xia Fanglian's mind became more and more sober, the distance between them became farther and farther, and there was an invisible barrier between the mother and daughter, and many times, she could even sensitively perceive that Xia Fanglian was avoiding her.

But if you don't pay attention to Xia Fanglian, what should be the focus of your life?

Looking at the blank eyes of his beloved disciple, Lin Ruoshui shook his head, "You haven't thought about what kind of life you want to live?" ”

"I haven't thought much about it...... she tilted her head sideways and didn't seem to think of any answer, "I just want to live like an ordinary person, and I just want to control my own destiny and not be a pawn that is at the mercy of others." ”

"Take control of your own destiny?" Lin Ruoshui laughed, "No one has ever been able to completely control their own destiny, even those powerful people have their own bodies, have you ever heard the term 'providence makes people'?" ”

"If it's really providence, then forget it," her eyes were cold, "If it's man-made, I'm not reconciled." ”

"You, you, you can't be an ordinary student, enjoy the fun of children of your age, don't toss yourself like an old woman, thinking about everything you want to manage all day long, you and Xiaofang are two extremes, one is too old and serious, thinking too much every day, the other is too naïve and ridiculous, his mind is empty, and there is nothing to ......"

"Master, why are you involved with me again......" Lin Xiaofang chewed the beef in his mouth and said dissatisfiedly.

Lin Ruoshui ignored him, and he was very interested in talking tonight, "You have been much better than in the past few years, and the thirteen or fourteen-year-old girl should start learning to enjoy her youth and talk about love or something......"

"Master? Are you drunk? Xia Yao looked at him incredulously, "I'm still a primary school student!" Is there anyone you are kidding about? Falling in love at the age of thirteen or fourteen, that was early love. ”

"Put p, your sister and I were only fourteen years old when we fell in love, what kind of early love? This is called love at first sight? Lin Ruoshui slapped his chopsticks and poured himself another glass of wine.

Lin Ruo doesn't drink alcohol often, and occasionally drinks two glasses are just a shallow taste, and tonight the whole bottle of liquor was almost drunk by him, so it's no wonder if he is not drunk.

"When I first met your master, she was about the same age as you, and she was very thin, as if a gust of wind could blow her away...... Her eyes are extraordinarily large...... I wore a white princess dress that day, I have never seen such a beautiful little girl......" Lin Ruoshui fell into the past and couldn't extricate herself, "But she is sick, I accompanied my father to see her......"

"Master, you are really a beast, Shi Niang was still a primary school student at that time, and you can do it." Lin Xiaofang muttered.

"Lin Xiaofang, you have been fat recently, dare to talk about Master?"

"Didn't you see him drunk?" Lin Xiaofang said embarrassedly, "Every time he gets drunk, he starts to talk about this paragraph, and at this time, he can laugh at him as much as he wants, he definitely doesn't know." (To be continued.) )