It is definitely not wrong for men to be filial, but it is really terrible for men who are not filial. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info but filial piety does not necessarily mean that you have to stand on the opposite side of your daughter-in-law, many people who are daughters-in-law are not against filial piety, what they oppose is foolishness.

The kind of person who does not have a small family in his heart, no daughter-in-law or even no children, is a scourge when he gets married.

So in an instant, Xia Yuan's impression of Xie Chang was not bad at all plummeted.

"I'll go tomorrow too." The stone suddenly interjected.

"No, in addition to Aibing, there is also a big brother-in-law. It's not okay if there are too many people, it seems that we can bully him with too many people. Lu Aiguo refused. It's been a long time since he's done anything with anyone, and he's starting to gear up and get ready to try.

"You stay at home, the group of people in the Su family hasn't solved it yet. By the way, the second aunt and the fourth siblings will come over tomorrow to help marinate the wild boar and deal with the things we harvested. Xiao Yun remembered to take out the things a little first. I asked them to cook and eat directly here, and by the way, let the second uncle come directly at noon. The second uncle also said that he would help buy tickets, and it is estimated that we will be able to leave for Haicheng in two or three days. ”

"Okay." Lu Yun responded obediently.

"If he really doesn't know how to repent, he simply asked the second sister to divorce and follow us to Haicheng. Anyway, if he keeps going like this, the second sister will not have any happiness at all in the rest of her life. It's just that the most bitter thing is the two children."

Xia Yuan's voice lowered as she spoke. Yes, how can a mother not think about her children in her heart? She had suffered the same way, so she could best understand the distress.

"The second sister is so pitiful." Xia Yuan burst into tears.

"Don't worry, I will warn Xie Changgen in person. has already given him a chance, if he doesn't know how to repent anymore, then don't blame us for supporting the second sister's divorce. At that time, it is estimated that the second uncle and the second uncle will no longer persuade peace. ”

Seeing that his daughter-in-law shed tears for this, Lu Aiguo was distressed. Slowly tell some of my grandfather's thoughts to my daughter-in-law.

The family style of the Lu family has always been since Grandpa Lu, choosing a daughter-in-law is cautious, and then giving the daughter-in-law absolute respect.

There is another one, if the girl who marries outside is uncomfortable, then the mother's family must give the greatest support, even if it is pointed at by others, as long as the girl decides by herself, she will take it back, anyway, she can't let her own girl be wronged in her husband's family.

He actually knew the reason for this. He was closest to his grandfather when he was a child, and he listened to his grandfather's confession more than once, and repented that he had wronged his grandmother for half his life. Later, when he finally came to his senses, his grandmother was gone early. So grandpa often lamented that a woman's life is far more bitter than a man's.

Therefore, his father and mother began to consciously guide his two sons when educating their children: if they want to live a comfortable life, their parents should be filial, but the small family should also be taken care of. And there's really no conflict between the two. What he taught his children and grandchildren is that if there is a problem with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then the one who is a man must be even more problematic. Find more problems from yourself, so that you can be prosperous at home.

Of course, this doesn't apply to everyone. People can only reason with those who are willing to reason, and for those who are not willing to reason, it is in vain for you to talk dryly. It's better to scatter as soon as possible, even if you can't disperse for a while, you have to find a way to find an opportunity to disperse.

"The ancients were right, it really is; The villain has no fault, but the gentleman often passes. ”

Xia Yuan sighed, sure enough, the wise men are hiding among the people. Although Grandpa did wrong in the first half of his life, he is definitely a wise man just because he realized it, and finally had the courage to admit that he had the courage to teach his children and grandchildren in this way. He deserves to be respected forever by future generations.

"Villains are not at fault, gentlemen are often wrong."

Lu Aiguo savored this sentence, and Shi and Lu Yun couldn't help chewing on this sentence, and they both looked at Xia Yuan. They had never heard of this sentence before, so they naturally didn't know what it meant, but they felt unexpectedly pleasant.

"There is an allusion to this, which says that once upon a time there were two families, one was noisy all day, and the other was just the opposite, and the whole family laughed all day long, and there was no noise."

Later, the family who had been noisy all day couldn't stand it, so they went to ask the people who laughed all day long, what was the secret to not quarreling? The owner of the laughing household was confused, and bit it to death and said that there was no secret. ”

Just when the family that had been noisy all day was about to return disappointed, the daughter-in-law of the family who had been laughing all day fell down. When the mother-in-law saw it, she quickly said, "Oh, it's all because I didn't dry the floor." The son of that family was even more annoyed when he came out, and he was to blame me, because I forgot to remind you that there was water on the ground when I saw it just now. In the end, the daughter-in-law who fell down got up and didn't mind at all and said, I don't blame you, it's me who walked and didn't look at the road. ”

"In the end, the family who had been noisy all day seemed to understand that if the daughter-in-law fell and complained about the water on the ground, and the mother-in-law complained that the daughter-in-law walked and did not look at the road, then the final result would be completely different."

After I went back, the noisy family began to slowly change their habit of always blaming others for doing something wrong. Changed to find mistakes in yourself. Eventually, the house gradually turned into laughter. So this is called, villains are not wrong, gentlemen often pass. ”

Xia Yuan finished speaking carefully, with a melancholy expression. These words were often on my lips when my father was still alive.

At that time, the parents were alive, and the three of them did not have a family, and they always got along with each other most of the time, but there were occasional disputes. Every time there was a dispute in the family, my father would say this sentence and tell the story, intentionally or unintentionally. Then the siblings will consciously begin to self-reflect.

In the vicissitudes of life, the father, mother, and younger brother have all left for many years, and in the end, only the two sisters remained.

"In the future, we will also write these things into the family motto, so that our children and grandchildren can pass them on from generation to generation." Lu Aiguo looked at his daughter-in-law's face with a stunned look, knowing this, I am afraid that this story has touched the daughter-in-law. He couldn't help but hug her in distress. This time, Xia Yuan was immersed in memories, and she didn't notice Lu Aiguo's actions at all, so naturally she didn't push him away in time.

When she recovered and reacted, Lu Aiguo had already had a lot of insight and quickly let go, which made Xia Yuan angry and funny, and even the loss in her heart dissipated a lot.

The deceased is gone, and the living should be happy and happy. Now that she and her sister have their own little families again, their own dearest people, if their father, mother and younger brother see it, they must be relieved......

"It's not too early, let's go to bed early." Xia Yuan was speechless about Lu Aiguo's behavior, and with a little snickering, it was impossible for her to be really angry with him. I had to turn my head away from looking at him, and said to Lu Yun and Shi instead. (To be continued.) )