191. Flowers bloom

Pomegranate smiled and said, "So! Making a man like you is not how much you do for him, but how much you value in his mind. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 Of course, on the basis of your value in his heart, you sincerely do something for him, and it is also a lubricant to increase the relationship between you, but don't lose yourself in order to please him, we should set aside some time to constantly improve ourselves and increase our value. Such a woman will never be depreciated and will not be eliminated. ”

Xia Xiaowei said: "Your concepts are so refreshing, men and women have been shouting for so many years, but most families are still the same, women still have no sense of security, after their youth, they have become a yellow-faced woman for the family, and they are sincerely afraid of being disliked and abandoned by men." Promote your own value, this word is used well. ”

These chicken soups for the soul that allow women to enhance their own value will be overwhelming in later generations, and they will grab a handful at will. Pomegranate just chatted here and said a few words, and was enshrined as a golden rule by the three roommates, watching the roommates wide-eyed and adoring and listening to it like hunger, Pomegranate simply flaunted a few more words.

"Why are women always afraid of being abandoned by men? Why is there always a sense of insecurity? Did you know? Because you put your sense of security on someone else's body, if you have a job and an income, and you don't spend all your money on your husband and children, but leave some money to take care of yourself, and leave part of your time to read books, watch movies, or go out to play, and make some same-sex friends, you are a beautiful, money-making, playing, and non-outdated person, I'm afraid that your husband will be insecure at that time. What does it mean to take your fate in your own hands, and to live such a beautiful woman is really to take your fate into your own hands? ”

Li Qin laughed and said, "It's just too right, okay?" Pomegranate, how do you know so many truths, and every word is exquisite, and it is really insightful! ”

"Pomegranate, but there is really you, the sentence of taking your fate into your own hands, there is such an explanation, it is too vivid and refreshing." Xia Xiaowei said.

Pomegranate touched her nose embarrassedly, these concepts are not her natural wisdom to come up with, they are the lessons that many women have summed up in their bumpy married life, she just lives one more life, and feels that these ideas are indeed good, so she picks up a little bit of other people's wisdom.

Xia Xiaowei said: "Pomegranate, those of us who are married and have children do not understand the essence of marriage as well as you, how do you know this as a child who is only seventeen years old!" I'm really curious. ”

Of course, Pomegranate can't say that she is from time in time, no one believes or explains, she said perfunctorily: "Although I have never been married, I often think when I have nothing to do, for ordinary people, the things in this world are nothing more than these things between men and women?" There is no absolute equality between people, who is subordinate to whom, in the final analysis, who has economic status, who has the right to speak, aren't we chatting? I'm just talking on paper, I'm not married, and I need to be practiced. ”

Li Qin said: "Pomegranate, your theoretical level is so high, if you are with Jiang Hongxiang in the future, he will definitely surrender to you, and you have the most say in the family."

Pomegranate said: "The theories I just said are general theories, and the relationship between me and Jiang Hongxiang is a special case, we have the same mind, the two are happy, there is no need for routines and no one needs to surrender to whom, he is worthy of my all because he also treats me like this, in the case of being good to each other wholeheartedly, I will maintain my independent economy and personality, and be good to myself, so that even if there is any change in the future, I will have no regrets with a clear conscience, and I will not let myself feel that the sky is falling because I put all the chips in my life on him, So you won't be left alive. ”

Hu Hongmei, who has not spoken, said: "Yes, everyone's experience is different, the situation of each family is different, and the people they face are also different, but what you said is very reasonable and valuable for reference, if I knew that the sports meeting was over, I knew that the college entrance examination would be resumed, I would not get married in the countryside."

Hu Hongmei generally doesn't talk about her family situation, everyone knows that Hu Hongmei married a farmer in a place where she was an educated youth, and now that she is admitted to university, the gap between her and her husband in terms of ideology will become bigger and bigger, their marriage must be unequal, and everyone is quiet.

Time was fast, and a month passed in a blink of an eye.

After dinner that evening, Jiang Hongxiang said to Pomegranate mysteriously: "Pomegranate, let's not go to the library tonight, I'll take you to a place."

"Where?"

"Right on campus, I found a great place. You'll love it. ”

The campus is huge, and Pomegranate has not been to all places. Since Jiang Hongxiang said that it was a good place, there must be something special about him, he believed in him, and there was nothing wrong anyway, so he followed him.

It was a garden on campus, and when it came to the garden, there were no flowers, just some trees, and there were stone benches under the trees, nothing special.

Jiang Hongxiang stopped and said, "Pomegranate, you close your eyes, I'll pull you over, I'll tell you to open your eyes, and you can open them again."

"What are you doing? It's so mysterious. Pomegranate said, still obediently closing her eyes.

Jiang Hongxiang took Pomegranate's hand and walked forward slowly.

When he arrived at a place, Jiang Hongxiang said: "Pomegranate, it's okay, open your eyes!"

Pomegranate opened her eyes and found herself standing under a pomegranate tree, the pomegranate blossoms in full bloom, the red petals trembling gently in the breeze.

"Pomegranate flowers, pomegranate flowers can also be seen here!" Pomegranate exclaimed, unable to believe her eyes.

"Why can't there be pomegranate flowers here?"

"I thought there were pomegranate trees in the countryside!" Pomegranates happily looked over one by one.

"Such beautiful pomegranate flowers should be planted everywhere. It's strange that there aren't even a single pomegranate tree here. ”

Jiang Hongxiang said: "In the future, the two of us will come here to read."

"Yes, just like when I was in Peach Blossom Village before, I read and chatted under the pomegranate tree every night, and now I think about it, what a beautiful picture!"

When the pomegranate flowers bloomed just right, it was the birthday of the pomegranate and Jiang Hongxiang, and when the pomegranate saw these pomegranate flowers, he remembered that it would be their birthday two days later.

Jiang Hongxiang pulled Pomegranate to sit on the stone bench and asked Pomegranate, "How did you spend your birthday this year?" ”