440. Help

When the Fa teacher reacted, he was stunned, he picked up a mirror fragment, and in the mirror fragment, a stranger with long and dirty hair, red eyes like ghosts, and a dirty face that he couldn't bear to look at it appeared in front of him. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

He used to be the youngest and most handsome teacher in the school, and now he is this person who is not a ghost or a ghost.

This image shocked Mr. Fa a lot, he decided to start his life again, he looked at the house, it was as dirty as a garbage pit, he began to clean up the house, a whole day, he cleaned up the house, he took a shower, changed clothes, went out to get a haircut, and then went to the school to find the leader and ask to go back to class.

The school leaders also sympathized with his plight, and with the plea of his colleagues and friends, the leaders reluctantly agreed to allow him to go back to work, but he was never allowed to go to class while drunk. And then babble in class. If you recidivize, you will be directly expelled.

Teacher Fa wrote some letters of guarantee to the school leaders, and after returning home, he quit drinking.

After work, he studied psychology to pass the time, and chose the subject of psychology at that time, because it was difficult to read and read many specialized terms, and he felt drowsy when he read it.

In this way, just to pass the time to study psychology, after studying for a while, he became interested in this subject.

Later, he completed the subject in two years and also passed the exam.

A few months ago, he knew through a friend that NTU wanted to open this course, so Mr. Fa came to recommend himself with the attitude of giving it a try, and he wanted to come to NTU to change the environment, leave that sad place, come here to start his life again, and completely get out of the previous shadow.

Pomegranate listened to the story of the teacher and was embarrassed.

"Teacher Fa, have you stepped out of the shadow of the past now? You know psychology yourself, so you should be able to adjust yourself, right? ”

Teacher Fa smiled bitterly, "If you adjust it yourself, you can only do it behind closed doors." ”

"So, you're not quite out of it yet? But I saw that you were smiling brightly, and I couldn't believe that you were deeply depressed inside. ”

Teacher Fa smiled and said, "You don't know, there are many people who are depressed, many people who are suicidal, and they all seem to be optimistic and cheerful people on the surface. Ordinary people simply can't see the pain and entanglement in their hearts. ”

Pomegranate said half-seriously and half-jokingly: "You won't be so depressed that you have suicidal tendencies, right?"

"Not really, I'm almost healing myself. There is still one last step left. ”

"What's the last step?"

"Start a new relationship all over again, and you can be completely healed."

"Then you're going to start a relationship again! You are so handsome, you are a university teacher, an intellectual, and you have a good temperament, how many good aunts like it! ”

"If you only match from these external conditions, there are many suitable candidates, but it is difficult to find someone who can be together for a lifetime and have endless words."

Pomegranate said, "That's just as well."

Teacher Fa is not an ordinary person, he will not get married for the sake of getting married, he is a person who has high spiritual requirements for his partner.

Pomegranate wanted to introduce Teacher Fa and Jiang Hongyan to be together, she felt that they were very suitable together, but she was not sure that they would like each other.

Jiang Hongyan is no longer arrogant now, she can think about others when she treats people, in short, she has become easy to get along with, and the whole person is down-to-earth, Pomegranate found that she still has many advantages, such as straightforwardness, like is like, dislike is not like, simply not ambiguous, for the people she likes, she can be good to others. Just like now, her kindness to pomegranates often makes pomegranates trance, this is still not the Jiang Hongyan before.

And the law teacher is wise and transparent.

Pomegranate thought that Teacher Fa and Jiang Hongyan were both people who had suffered in marriage, and they were both very cautious about marriage, so although they intentionally wanted to match them, they had to pay attention to the ways and means, otherwise it would be self-defeating.

Pomegranate thought for a while, "Teacher Fa, I have a sister, she once encountered setbacks in her marriage, and now she is not interested in marriage, no matter how her family urges, she is indifferent, and she does not go to participate in the blind date arranged by relatives and friends, Teacher Fa, you are a teacher in psychology, can you help me enlighten her according to her situation?" ”

At that time, there was no profession of psychiatrist, so there was no such thing as a psychiatrist.

"Your sister? Sister herself? ”

"Yes, it's my sister, you have to help me."

Jiang Hongyan is Jiang Hongxiang's sister, so Pomegranate said that she was her sister, which is not a lie! She was so vague because she didn't want Teacher Fa to know Jiang Hongyan's external conditions too early.

"No problem, I'll have a meeting someday to talk."

Pomegranate said: "Teacher Fa, my sister is a person with strong self-esteem, and she doesn't think she has psychological problems, so when you are chatting with her, try not to let her feel that you are curing her psychological problems." It's about making her feel like you're talking to her like a friend. ”

"Yes, many patients don't admit that they have psychological problems at all, so you can rest assured that a good psychological teacher is to allow patients to unconsciously accept your views in natural and normal situations, and slowly guide them and change them."

"It's time for her to accept and change naturally."

Pomegranate thought for a moment, "Teacher Fa, let's do it!" My sister works in the library, so let's pretend to go there to borrow books, and I'll introduce you to her, and then you can talk. So that you can get an overview of her situation. ”

Teacher Fa wholeheartedly thought that this was a favor for Pomegranate and help her sister solve the psychological problem of staying behind after a frustrated marriage, so she readily agreed to such an arrangement.

That afternoon, neither Shi Guo nor Teacher Fa had a class, so they went to the city library.

When I arrived at the library, Mr. Fa went to borrow books, and Pomegranate went to the office to find Jiang Hongyan.

Jiang Hongyan was surprised, "Pomegranate, why are you here?" Is there anything you want me to do? ”

Pomegranate smiled, "I have a colleague who has just been transferred from out of town to teach in our school, and he wants to borrow books, but he is not familiar with the library, so I brought him here." ”

Jiang Hongyan was not interested in Pomegranate's colleague, but just sighed.

Pomegranate said: "This colleague is in the same office as me, and he is okay, let me introduce you to each other!" He had just arrived at this strange friend and wanted to get to know more people. ”

Jiang Hongyan is not very enthusiastic about interacting with people, but since this is Pomegranate's colleague, Pomegranate said this, and she is not easy to refuse.