64 Who can live up to his original intention?
After Mr. Xie's interview was published in the Beijing Daily, it triggered a new round of discussion. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
"The comments on Weibo have exploded." Qi Lin flipped through Weibo, wanting to know what netizens thought.
He is not a big man in the temple, but he still wants this society to develop benignly.
Fortunately, the comments on Weibo are just one-sided denunciations, but there are not too many cold voices.
"IMHO, this man is a piece of garbage, and judging by the whole incident, his every action was preconceived, and it was by no means impulsive. In the past, it was often said that hooligans are not afraid of being educated, and this seems to be true at all. I feel sad for Mr. Yuan, and even more sad for Chaoyang University. ”
"Why do you ask for a waiver of medical expenses when you come back from rescue? This man is far more than shameless to describe. ”
"After reading the post, I tried my best to render it, and I can find the hospital for compensation if I have deep feelings? The income of these two should not be low, is there no threshold for easy fundraising? Can you raise money without review? ”
"After reading the interview and post, to sum up: 1. The baby has emotions, to vent, any action is reasonable. 2. If your wife dies, you have to lose money; The wife did not die, and the medical expenses were waived. 3. I have money, but you still have to donate to me. 4. No 4 anymore, Malegobi! ”
"Damn, it's really the first time I've seen someone really set a price for a person, worth 7 million, what the hell?"
"Can I swear, please?"
"Isn't it inconsistent that his post in Tianya said that Teacher Yuan had died, but three days later, he launched an easy fundraising to treat his wife's illness? Shouldn't such a person be subject to crusade? ”
"The farmer and the snake have lost the face of the school and overdrawn everyone's sympathy, so I just hope that Mr. Yuan will get through the difficulties as soon as possible."
"7 million is the value of his wife? It's like his belongings. ”
"It's the first time I've seen someone talk about blackmail so freshly and refinedly."
"There is a woolen relationship between the proposal to ask the hospital to compensate 7 million yuan and the deep love between husband and wife, intellectuals can really talk nonsense, and they are all money when they open and close their mouths."
Although most of them are one-sided cynicism, after this incident, some people will eventually be cold to the way of crowdfunding, and they will be afraid of the well rope after being bitten by a snake for ten years.
Qi Lin didn't want to see that kind of rhetoric, but there they were.
"I said I hated easy fundraising...... At the same time, can you use your brains first to donate money in the future...... People of this status get your turn to donate money to them? If they want to be cured, they won't sell their houses? This kind of person has to donate money to him, so what about the people in the ravine? I'm really sorry, my kindness and ability are just like that, and I really don't feel sorry to come to such a fundraiser every day. ”
"Originally, the donation was to help Teacher Yuan and make a small contribution, but even a dollar was earned by ourselves or our parents. Who knows if the money will be spent for treatment? It's very chilling, and I shouldn't be able to participate in crowdfunding again in the future. ”
"I shouldn't be able to participate in crowdfunding anymore +1."
"I shouldn't be able to participate in crowdfunding again in the future+2."
"I shouldn't be participating in crowdfunding anymore in the future+10086."
Looking at these disappointed netizens, Qi Lin was very sad, but he couldn't persuade them.
Who wants their love to be used by others?
"Surnamed Xie, you should be damned." Qi Lin cursed in his heart.
He may not have known what he had destroyed.
The more he thought about Qi Lin, the more panicked he became, if he didn't vent it, he felt that he would definitely be depressed.
After thinking about it, Qi Lin posted a post on his Zhihu account:
What do you think of Teacher Yuan Xiuxiu of Chaoyang University?
Zhihu's influence is not as good as Tianya, but people on Zhihu tend to be more elite and rational, and their views on things often have read insights, and in the eyes of many people, Zhihu's answers are far more valuable than those in other places.
So Qi Lin sent the problem to Zhihu.
Teacher Yuan's matter has completely detonated the Internet, and there are not a few people who pay attention to Zhihu, and it didn't take long for people to reply to the posts one after another.
Qi Lin first changed his number and expressed his views anonymously: "Teacher Yuan and her husband Mr. Xie are both graduate students of Chaoda University, have been working for nearly ten years, have a good income, and have a house in the imperial capital, I think they are much richer than most of the donations to him...... In the past, when I was sick, I first spent all my savings, then sold my assets, then borrowed money from the bank or relatives and friends, and finally went to fundraising, why did I jump directly to the last step now, is it really so exhausted......
Qi Lin once briefly talked about this point of view in the class, and the reason why he chose to be anonymous here is because he doesn't want to cause any controversy because of his identity.
Of course, he doesn't care if he is really exposed, anyway, it is not him who is unsightly.
Facts have proved that Qi Lin said that in the hearts of the vast majority of Zhihu users, the number of likes soon exceeded 100.
The other Zhihu personnel also expressed their opinions, and the most moving thing for Qi Lin was the following answer:
"Crowdfunding, as a fundraising method that relies on the unrivaled communication function of the Internet to convey goodwill, was originally supposed to accept the kindness of countless strangers through communication, and crowdfunding should not care whether there is a certain connection between me (the donor) and you (the recipient). But now, crowdfunding is moving more and more away from what it was originally like.
We can clearly feel that crowdfunding from the very beginning of forwarding strangers who do not need any explanation, and later when we forward, we also need to add a note 'This is my xx's xx, it is true, please rest assured'.
How did it come to this? Without it, we've been scammed too many times.
Search for 'charity crowdfunding fraud' or 'charity crowdfunding fraud' on Baidu, you can find a bunch of living examples, I will put a few search results here: 'Zhihu goddess nursery rhyme public welfare crowdfunding fraud hundreds of thousands', 'crowdfunding to save women, almost defrauded, how to distinguish the true from the fake', 'easy fundraising suspected of selling miserable donations', 'charity crowdfunding or charity fraud?' What happened to public welfare crowdfunding? ’
This is still a crowdfunding project that really constitutes a crime of fraud and has been exposed, excluding those who are sick, but do not use their own money in the first place, but hope for donations from others; It also does not include those who magnify the condition; It also does not include those who walk on the edge of the law through various means.
It is these people, either deceitful or exaggerated, that blow the confidence of those who are willing to donate again and again, and this blow is very likely to affect those who really need it, and this impact will either involve the loss of a life, or the life of a person.
Don't say just donate a few dollars every time, in my personal experience, this kind of crowdfunding project, once you are deceived once or twice, you may never donate money to strangers again; Besides, if you don't give money to good and evil, wouldn't you give money to the wicked by the hands of good people, although I claim to be a compassionate person, but my consciousness is not high enough to give money to fraudsters.
As the title says, with the emergence of the above phenomena, we are becoming less and less confident in crowdfunding projects and more and more stingy in using our empathy, so the circle of crowdfunding is getting narrower and narrower.
Our goodwill should really fall into the hands of those who need it, and should not be wasted in screening and guarding against others.
Hopefully, the next time I see crowdfunding, I'll be able to let my guard down.
Finally, regardless of the truth of the incident, I sincerely wish that Ms. Yuan Xiuxiu can overcome the disease and recover soon. ”
After reading this answer, Qi Lin thought of a sentence: Who can live up to the original intention?
This **** life often forces people to learn to be on guard, and gradually becomes what they don't like the most.
The cost of lying is too low, whereas the price of compassion is often high.
I just hope that this kind of thing will happen less and less.