242. Small talk

Xiaohong said: "Teacher Shi, I usually go out to set up a stall every day except for cloudy and rainy days, but this morning, I didn't go out of the stall, I came to talk to you on purpose, do you know?" In this city, I don't have anyone who can speak except you, I'm afraid that in this world, only you can understand me, can really understand me, listen to you and talk, my heart is much more comfortable and suddenly much more enlightened. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info"

"I'm not in this city, but we can write letters! You can write whatever you want, you can also come to me if you have any difficulties, as long as I can help, I will definitely do my best. ”

Xiaohong said: "Before, my biggest difficulty was that I had no money, but now, I can support myself, at least I don't have to worry about my livelihood anymore, I came to you today, and I have another question for you."

"What's the problem?"

"Teacher Shi, I have saved more than 1,000 yuan now, I want to buy a house, but now the price of the house has risen a little, half a year ago you can buy a small courtyard for more than 600 yuan, just like the small courtyard of Qian Weimin's house, you can buy it for 600 yuan, and now it will be sold for more than 900 yuan, I don't know if the price is cost-effective now, will it fall again? Or will it go up? ”

Pomegranate analyzed: "The reason why housing prices have risen so much in half a year, on the one hand, is because there are more and more educated young people and people who are decentralized, so the demand for houses has increased, and the other reason is that the current policy is becoming more and more relaxed, especially in the development of the economy, the state vigorously advocates, so everyone's awareness of making money has been enhanced, and the money on hand is more than before, according to these two factors, I estimate that housing prices will not fall again, but may rise."

Xiaohong said: "So I have to buy it quickly, in case it rises again, my money is not enough, and I will go to cram school in a few days, so it will be impossible to set up a stall to make money."

"Xiaohong, my analysis is not 100% right, if it is me, I am in your current situation, I don't care whether the house price rises or falls in the future, I want to buy, because buying a house is to live comfortably and at ease. The so-called living and working in peace and contentment, without a stable residence, what kind of happiness can we talk about? ”

"Yes, yes, Mr. Shi, your words can always be said to my heart, although I grew up here, but I have been living very aggrieved since I was a child because of the large number of people in the family, the house is small, the parents at home are patriarchal, go to the countryside as a young man, my family has been allocated a place, so it is natural for me to go, since I went to the countryside as a young man, I became a passerby in this city, after I came back, my brother married a daughter-in-law, had a child, the family was more crowded, I became a redundant person. The family can't accommodate me, and I don't have a place to live, I rent a house to live, and I feel very unsteady, as if I am a rootless duckweed, so with money, what I want to buy most is a house of my own. ”

"Since the house means so much to you, what are you hesitating about? If you work hard to make money, isn't it just that you can spend as much as you want after making money? That's the purpose of making money, not just being satisfied with the numbers on a passbook. ”

"The reason why I hesitate is because I don't make this money easily, and the house price has risen so much all of a sudden, I think, since it will rise, it may also fall! But now listening to your words, I no longer hesitate, my greatest wish is to be able to have a house of my own, now that I can afford to buy it, what should I hesitate about? ”

"That's right! Money is meaningful only when it is spent, and when you enjoy the fun of spending money, you have the motivation to work harder to make money. ”

Xiaohong smiled and said: "Teacher Shi, these ideas of yours are very novel, but they are very reasonable, I have seen a lot of people who are rich but are reluctant to spend a penny, and they are so aggrieved that they are outrageous."

"That's a miser, even though he has money, he picks himself tightly, that's called masochism. Life is too short, so why bother living like that? Learn to please yourself. ”

Xiaohong giggled, "Pleasing yourself, what a fresh statement, ahhh Mr. Shi, the luckiest thing in my life is to meet you, how can you be such a unique person! You and all the people I have known in the past 32 years are different, what is a little stone into gold, what is a talk with you, better than ten years of study? After meeting you, I realized that these words are not an exaggeration at all. If everyone thought like you, they wouldn't be so miserable. ”

Pomegranate smiled and said, "So! Your greatest wish is to own a house of your own, so go for it! Living in your own house, dressing it up beautifully, your mood is also good, no matter how hard and tired you are outside, when you return to your own home, you can do whatever you want, all the hardship and tiredness are nothing. And with your own house and without your own house, you don't feel the same sense of belonging in the city. Even if you have lived in this city for most of your life, you don't have a house of your own, you are just a passerby, only if you have your own house, you have a sense of belonging in this city, you walk on the street, you can freely breathe the air of this city and proudly say to yourself, I am a member of this city. ”

"Teacher Shi, you're so right, how can you understand the exact mood of those of us who rent a house so much?"

"I used to be a passer-by in this city! My family is in the countryside, and I only bought a house here half a year ago, so these are my own personal feelings. ”

"You are so smart, beautiful and young, and Mr. Jiang spoils you, I thought that you would not be able to understand the feelings of a person like me, who has nothing."

Pomegranate shook her head with a smile, "Xiaohong, do you think I've had smooth sailing since I was a child?" You may not know that I was an orphan, and when I was in the village, many people bullied me, and I was almost killed! ”

Xiaohong said in surprise: "Really? Teacher Shi, if you don't say it, it's hard to believe that you have encountered so much suffering. Your eyes are so clear, your face is calm and waveless, and you can't see any traces of your life. I thought you'd been on a smooth trip! ”

"No one's life can be smooth, and nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory! The key is how you deal with it. Positive or pessimistic? Engrave all the past suffering experiences on your face, and the vicissitudes and bitterness on your face, why bother! A woman's face is the most important thing, and she has to keep it clean. ”