Chapter 56: Wedding Night

Finally, there are some wedding considerations that need to be explained:

1. Raw flowers are easy to wither, so the marriage is secret, only even the flowers and pomegranates can't be forbidden. Because the red petals of the former open from the heart of the leaf, its shape can imply that the leap girl marries and waits for her husband, while the latter means that there are many children and grandchildren.

2. The bride's clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth of the mother's family.

3. After the bed is settled and on the eve of the wedding, the bridegroom-to-be should not sleep alone in the new bed, but find an underage boy to sleep in the new bed with the groom. Otherwise, it is commonly known as "trapped in an empty shop, not dead, but also dead" and thinks it is a bad omen.

4. On the day of the wedding, when the bride goes out, the sister-in-law must avoid it and cannot send it off.

5. On the day of marriage, when the bride leaves her mother's house, everyone should cry as fast as possible.

6. Three days after the marriage, the newlyweds must rush back to their husband's house before sunset on the same day, and cannot stay overnight. In case there is a special reason that they cannot go home, the husband and wife should also sleep separately, so as not to cause the blood in the bride's honeymoon to collide with the mother's family and make the mother's family unlucky.

7. On the way to get married, if the sedan chair and the sedan chair meet, it is called "Xi Chongxi", which will bring ominousness. The solution is that it is necessary to set off firecrackers with each other, or the matchmakers on both sides exchange the prepared flowers, which is called flower exchange.

8. Pregnant women and those with filial piety are not allowed to witness the newlyweds going out or passing through the door, let alone touching the newlyweds' clothes and all the items in the new house.

9. When the groom goes to the woman's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave the bride's house or cry with joy in the overexcitement, which is also very common and not a problem (or even a good thing, leaving the "water" prosperous woman's house). But when you go to the man's house, you can't shed tears.

10. The bride should not wear "old shoes" on the auspicious day of the wedding. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be new. If you are afraid that the new shoes are hard and uncomfortable, it is advisable to have a higher quality soft leather, and the size may be loosened a little and add thick pads, and it is not advisable to wear high heels.

11. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, it will be a shame.

12. When the bride enters the man's house, she should not step on the threshold and should step over.

13. If the bride and groom get married, that is, the groom's brother, the bride and groom must wear it under the crotch of the unmarried brother to show that they are "offended" before they can go out. If it is the sister who is "climbed", because some people will feel that it will be "underdeveloped" to wear it under the female skirt, they will send a skirt to the unmarried sister instead, commonly known as the "aunt's skirt". Unmarried siblings should not witness the bride and groom going out or passing through the door, and should temporarily avoid moving to a higher place, such as going to the next floor.

14. When the bride walks into the man's house, the two should not look at the bride entering the door towards the door, but should avoid it a little to prevent conflict.

15. The marriage couplet should be hung up before the "top" (i.e. on the eve of the marriage) at the latest, and can be removed after one month after the marriage. Men and women have different couplets, and you need to distinguish them clearly when purchasing.

16. If a woman remarries, she should not wear a skirt or a red dress, but should choose pink, orange, gold or silver instead. In addition, there is no need to "go up", because "up" means "adulthood", and he is already "adult" when he marries for the first time. There is no need to bring suckling pig when "returning to the door of the second dynasty".

17. The second marriage of the man does not need to "go up", if the reason is the death of the ex-wife, the first thing the second wife does after passing the door is to serve tea in front of the spiritual seat of the ex-wife, and then offer tea to Aunt Weng.

18. On the night of the bride's wedding, an unmarried sister of the bride will be found to sleep on her bed that night, and put fruits and red envelopes on the bed, wishing the bride a vigorous life and all the best.

19. Marriage taboo zodiac sign is the tiger's ceremony, because the tiger will hurt people, so as not to cause disharmony or infertility among the couple.

20. The mirror of the bridal room should not be lent to others within four months of marriage, and it is forbidden to shine on people, so the wardrobe or dressing of the dowry. The mirrors are covered with red paper and can be removed after four months.

21. Do not stay overnight during the first four months of marriage.

22. Do not participate in other people's weddings and funerals within four months of marriage, so as not to offend each other.

23. Do not get married in the ghost month, that is, the seventh month of the lunar calendar.

24. Do not get married in the sixth month of the lunar calendar, which has the meaning of a half-moon wife.

25. When making a bed, place the bed in an upright position, not opposite the sharp corners of the table, wardrobe or any object

26. On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who participate in the engagement must not fan the fan, otherwise there will be a sense of disconnection.

27. After the wedding banquet is completed, both parties cannot say goodbye, otherwise they will have the intention of remarrying.

So, Ling Hao began to arrange according to this kind of wedding pattern that has both dynasties and dynasties or a combination of Chinese and Western styles in later generations, of course, there are still some places that can be directly omitted.

Wang Xuanqing's parents have passed away one after another, and she has no relatives, so the woman she represents actually does not exist.

It is really more difficult to find a girl who has no relatives to be his wife in the future than to ascend to the sky, and Ling Hao crossed over and ran into one, which should be his welfare as a traverser.

However, there should still be pomp and circumstance, he didn't want to embarrass Wang Xuanqing's face and leave regrets for himself.

In order to arrange this matter, Ling Hao can also be said to have racked his brains.

Fortunately, there are also married young couples and aristocratic families in Yongcheng for reference, and Ling Hao went to people's homes to ask them door to door for the first time.

In the end, it was indeed found that a group of experienced people were found to complete the various steps of this wedding, in addition to the original "three books and six ceremonies", the props that should have been basically prepared, and then Ling Hao took this group of people to rehearse for nearly half a month, calculated the auspicious day, looked at the birthdays of both parties, and confirmed that there was no problem, this serious wedding like a ridiculous farce officially began.

Of course, the wedding banquet is naturally still there, Ling Haosan invited all the nobles and ordinary people around the Ling Mansion to come over to join in the excitement, and by the way, he also equipped a few chef groups to come over to help, after all, so many people want to eat and drink, and it is definitely not enough to rely on Master Ding alone.

During this period of time, Yan Nantian, Su Lie, Hua Tuo, and Mr. Pei have also been busy with Ling Hao, from the master of ceremonies of the wedding, to the arrangement of wedding banquet dishes, and then to the whole process of the two parties getting married, basically everyone is familiar with it during this time.

People with good things think that this arrangement is very interesting, and some people say that Ling Hao's idea is very interesting, but it is more of a cynicism about the combination of Ling Hao and Wang Xuanqing, the newcomer.

Of course, this is just the idea of the Yongcheng nobles, the common people don't think so, in their eyes Ling Hao is the representative of the "great good man", both men and women, young and old spontaneously came to help Ling Hao, and the farmers who worked in the Ling Mansion and got married spontaneously helped Ling Hao organize the wedding, and also put forward some suggestions by the way.

Ling Hao naturally couldn't ask for it, now that he was getting married for the first time, he had no experience in this area, and he needed someone with experience to guide him.

After some orderly scheduling, Ling Hao finally put on the champion robe that represented the groom's official status and started the first wedding in the two lives.

It's a fun and exciting process.

However, compared to Ling Hao, Wang Xuanqing seemed to be more nervous, so for the sake of insurance, Ling Hao omitted all the steps that required her to come forward, and just sat in the arranged wedding room and waited for Ling Hao to come over.

The whole wedding was busy from morning to evening, and Wang Xuanqing appeared twice halfway: once when he was greeting his relatives, and the other was when he bowed to Ling Hao under the witness of Diao Guang, the son of the Diao family, who served as the master of ceremonies for the wedding.

And then...... Then there was nothing to do with her, she was sent back to the wedding room by Shan Ying, who was the head of the pick-up team, and then Shan Ying ignored her, and only helped Ling Hao to greet the guests.

Seriously, Shan Ying is also very envious of Wang Xuanqing for being able to have this kind of treatment, she has never seen this kind of pomp when she married as a concubine, the process of marrying Ling Hao is simple and unpretentious, how can there be such a lively and peaceful scene?

However, when Ling Hao told her before that when she turned seventeenth birthday, she would also make up such a ceremony for her, and she was still quite happy in her heart.

Ling Hao was still very indulgent to her, since she got married, he didn't ask her if she went out to ride a horse or hunt, he only asked Su Lie to follow Shan Ying to stare at every time, and told Shan Ying to pay attention to safety when she went out, and it was enough not to get hurt.

I don't know...... What kind of sparks will the two of them make tonight...... Sister Xuanqing will definitely be bullied in her arms by a bad husband tonight like she did when she first got married, right?

When Shan Ying thought about it, the sense of the picture came out, and her beautiful little face turned crimson, and she quietly ran to her room.

As for the arrangement of the dishes for the wedding banquet, it is naturally also on the agenda.

Considering that he is now in the Qin State, it is better to make some Shaanxi-style delicacies.

So the menu was written on these dishes: gourd chicken, roasted three fresh, purple sun steamed pot, elbow with handle, sea cucumber stewed hooves, bad meat, warm kidney shreds, money stuffed hair cabbage, squid tendons, simmered squid shreds, milk soup pot fish.

This is almost a delicacy that can only be made at the level of a chef in later generations, but fortunately, it is not difficult to collect these ingredients, and Ling Hao naturally does not lack the money to purchase ingredients.

For him, the cost of the wedding banquet is a small matter, and the main purpose is romance, which should not only highlight the atmosphere of the host's family, but also satisfy the guests who come to the wedding banquet.

Besides, the Ling Mansion is now wealthy, and it is not that there is no money available, the place where the atmosphere should naturally be atmospheric, as long as it is not overly extravagant and wasteful, then the purpose will be achieved.

In addition to eating, then it is time to toast.

Although the alcohol content was not high, Ling Hao still didn't let go of his hands and feet to eat and drink, he only hurriedly ate a bowl of corn and rice, ate a few dishes, and by the way, someone sent food to Wang Xuanqing, and now she should be eating.

In this way, it was noisy from dusk to evening, and the wedding banquet finally came to an end, Ling Hao waved his hand, and the farmers and people who came to help today could each receive a reward of five yuan, and after the diners of Ling's mansion sent off the guests one by one, Ling Hao was finally able to get out of his body and go to the wedding room where Wang Xuanqing was.

To be honest, his mood at the moment can be said to be excited, which is also one of the four joyful events in life: a long drought and a sweet rain, a hometown where he meets his old acquaintances, a candle night in the cave house, and the title of the gold list......

The night of candles in the cave room is always extraordinarily reverie.

Although it is not the first time for me, it is the first time that I have married so seriously as today.

In the antique wedding room, everything seems so peaceful, and there is a long-awaited bride waiting for him, what a wonderful picture.

Wang Xuanqing looks particularly beautiful tonight, perhaps because she wore light makeup today, and there is still a little red on her side face.

"Ma'am. Ling Hao walked up to her and gently held her wrist.

Well, it's soft and tender, and it feels good in the hand.

"Husband...... Jun ......" Wang Xuanqing's face was ashamed, but he still shouted out the title.

Ling Hao sat beside her, looking at her wearing a phoenix crown, but it also brought out the luxurious temperament that she had never had before.

"It's a shame that this dress ...... You can only wear it once. Ling Hao said with a little regret.

"If you like it...... Concubinage...... You can also wear it for your husband in the future. Wang Xuanqing's tone became weaker and weaker here.

"Then, ma'am, let us rest in peace. Ling Hao smiled, looking at Wang Xuanqing's bewildered appearance, he only felt that she had never been so cute as she was today, and sure enough, every girl would always expose her little daughter posture at such a critical juncture.

"Madame should have seen all the previous albums, right?"

"Well, the concubine has seen it all. ”

"Well, let's try it tonight. ”

"Ah...... Painful ......"

Soon, the girl's shy voice came out, which also marked her transformation from a girl to a woman......

The feeling of soaring in the clouds is not exciting.

In fact, Wang Xuanqing refused this matter at first, but he couldn't stand Ling Hao's "sincerity" towards her, besides, she was not a concubine, she was a wife, so there was room for negotiation, if Ling Hao treated her badly in the future, she could naturally leave Ling Hao's side.

So, Wang Xuanqing finally agreed, at least Ling Hao wouldn't humiliate himself like others, besides, Ling Hao taught himself a lot of things, even if he repaid his kindness, marrying him as a wife would never suffer.

Finally, there is another point, that is, she heard Shan Ying say that when Ling Hao first started doing that kind of thing with her, although it was very painful at first, it would be very comfortable later......

With this curiosity, tonight, she finally experienced this taste in the clouds and fog, which was indeed very interesting and exciting......

Speaking of which, Ling Hao taught everything, but he didn't teach her about this aspect, so Wang Xuanqing always had a vague concept of this aspect, which can be regarded as an oversight of his own.

But if this is not the case, if the media is marrying, it is not good for him to secretly push Wang Xuanqing down, right?

After a long time.

"Let's try this. ”

"Don't...... What a shameful ......"

"Come on, ma'am. ”。

"Hmmm......"

Yu, the two of them finally have a substantive relationship.