Hong Jiwen saw Li Kexiu suddenly talking about hypnosis, and felt a little curious, "Li Kexiu, why did you suddenly talk about this?" Li Kexiu blinked his eyes and said to Hong Jiwen with a smile: "You are here this time, but you are really the right person, the world-famous hypnosis expert Yu Wenfang is giving a speech in Ho Chi Minh City!" ”

Hong Jiwen saw Li Kexiu say this, and said "sneering": "Li Kexiu, I can't imagine that you have learned to lie now!" You know that what I am most concerned about is the dynamics of hypnosis in the world, and everyone like Yu Wenfang, I don't know if I come to Ho Chi Minh City to give a speech? What about me? ”

Li Kexiu's eyes widened and said, "Why am I going to lie to you?" Then you should know about Yu Wenfang's trip to Cambodia, right? ”

"Yes! Last month, in the "Psychology Journal", there was an interview with Yu Wenfang, and she said that she was going to Cambodia, where the people urgently need hypnotherapy! Hong Jiwen continued: "Originally, I still wanted to go to Cambodia! Didn't I join the Wuxi Psychological Counseling Center! It's inconvenient to have a job! ”

"Sister Ji Wen, then I can only tell you this, you and that Yu Wenfang really have a fate, Yu Wenfang went to Cambodia, because of air traffic control problems, he had to stay in Ho Chi Minh City for 2 days, and today is the first day, so I told you about this!" Li Kexiu said firmly:

"Really?" As soon as Hong Jiwen heard the news, she immediately jumped up, and then kept confirming to Li Kexiu the hotel where Yu Wenfang was staying and the place where she would give a speech tomorrow. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info don't look at Le Kexiu is still a girl, but she is already a psychologist in Ho Chi Minh City, and Le Ho Xiu is still responsible for Yu Wenfang's coming to Ho Chi Minh City. The one in charge of the reception. Otherwise, I will take on such a big thing as Hong Jiwen today. It's not a delay! Why? In order to be busy here to receive this international celebrity in the psychological world: Yu Wenfang. Li Kexiu saw Hong Jiwen's posture, as if she was about to go, and hurriedly stopped: "Sister Jiwen, you can stop for a while today!" Yu Wenfang has just arrived in Vietnam, and she is still jet lag, she is very tired, I will definitely take you to see it tomorrow, is it okay? ”

Hong Jiwen thinks about it. If you go to see Yu Wenfang with your identity and status, will people pay attention to you? You have to be introduced at a suitable time, so that you can get Yu Wenfang's favor!

Yu Wenfang, the most famous hypnotist in the world, is 44 years old (referring to 2004), and his hypnosis degree can quickly put people into a deep hypnotic state within five seconds! What is hypnosis? What is deep hypnosis? It is necessary for the author to describe it to you here.

According to Freud's "Interpretation of Dreams", he divided the meaning of human beings into three states: preconscious, conscious, and subconscious. What is preconscious? It's your memory. A person, something that has been experienced, will leave an impression in your mind. This impression will slowly fade and even forget over time. But forgetting doesn't mean it's gone, and under a certain stimulus, it will inspire your impression. For example, when you were a child, you were run over by the wheels of a bicycle, and after 20 years, you may have forgotten about it, but one day, when you see a child being rolled over by a wheel, then you will instinctively remember the scene when you rolled your feet 20 years ago, and this preconscious is a summary of this memory. Freud asked the question: If there is experience and memory, then what can human beings think of decades ago? For example, do you still have an impression of what happened when you were five years old? Perhaps, what about four-year-olds? What about three-year-olds? So this is a psychoanalytic category that needs to be studied, and in this regard, this is Hong Jiwen's "main palace", and her major should be studied in this way. I don't need to explain much about the second state of consciousness, what you see, think, and hear now...... As long as it enters your mind, it is consciousness, the consciousness that a person has to experience in a day can be described as "endless", don't think that you are unconscious when you fall asleep, falling asleep peacefully is also a kind of consciousness, there are dreams, or belong to the category of consciousness, consciousness is everywhere, as long as you feel, whether it is touch, taste, hearing, sight or smell, it is at the level of consciousness. The third state is the subconscious! The subconscious mind, described as instinct, feels a bit inappropriate, and many people regard this instinct as a kind of consciousness, which is actually wrong. How to describe it? Just like an example: you see a jug of boiling water, and your consciousness is: the water is boiling in the kettle, bubbling white steam. Hot, is subconscious. Got it? It's not that seeing "hot" boiling water is conscious, but seeing boiling water, the subconscious tells you that it's "hot". When you see ice, your subconscious tells you it's cold. Of course, there is another kind of person who will be a little more powerful than the average person, in the terminology of psychology, called "low-grade depression". How to understand it? I don't know if you have watched an American drama "Prison Break", in which the male protagonist Mike is a patient with low-grade depression. Usually when we see a light bulb, we associate it with lighting, but for a person with low depression, it is incredible, he can think of how the glass piece kills, how the tungsten filament in the light bulb conducts electricity, and then prepares for his "prison break" operation. Unbelievable, this kind of person is definitely a genius, and for this kind of person, hypnotizing it is also the most difficult, because it is difficult for hypnotists to grasp his subconscious.

After explaining the three ideologies, it is time to return to the topic itself, what is hypnosis? Hypnosis is an act in which a hypnotist makes you unconscious through a dialogue with your subconscious. In real life, we generate the subconscious through the conscious, and the hypnosis master can influence your consciousness through your subconscious! So we can often see the hypnotist saying to a hypnotized person in some hypnosis videos: "Now the volcano has erupted!" The temperature has risen sharply, and it's so hot! "Even if the hypnotized person is in a cold environment, because his consciousness is misled by the subconscious, the hypnotized person will take off his heavy coat immediately because of the heat.

To do this, hypnosis masters need to have a very high comprehension ability, learn hypnosis, the theoretical knowledge is very simple, all the teaching materials are public, everyone can search for it at any time. But after mastering the theory. For practical. It's very difficult and requires a lot of talent and emotional intelligence to support. Relatively speaking, although Jiang Kai is a psychologist, he can understand the theory of hypnosis, and even memorize the theory of hypnosis, but because of his low emotional intelligence, even if his IQ is extremely high. It's also hard to become a hypnotist. The success rate of hypnotists is extremely low, and there are even fewer who become hypnotic masters, so once they become hypnotists, they will travel the world and no one can match them. Of course, due to cultural differences and language differences, the average hypnotic master will speak several Chinese. A hypnotic master who only speaks English wants to hypnotize the Chinese. It's almost impossible. So, once the hypnotic master became world-famous. At least he must know a few Chinese, otherwise it will be difficult for him to become world-famous.

Briefly talking about hypnosis, then we have to talk about the types of hypnosis, there are many types of hypnosis, it can be divided from the way of hypnosis, the degree of hypnosis, and the form of hypnosis...... But all hypnosis will reach one level: shallow hypnosis, moderate hypnosis, and deep hypnosis. In the case of the volcanic eruption I just gave, the hypnotized person is almost somewhere between moderate hypnosis and deep hypnosis. Shallow hypnosis is relatively simple, sometimes people can be hypnotized by shallow hypnotism without the intervention of hypnotists, for example: you enter the mall, you feel that the goods related to you in the mall are suitable for you, if you buy them back, and then try it, there is a feeling of being deceived. In fact, the layout, lighting effects, and product displays in the mall are all imperceptibly hypnotic to you. Not only shopping malls, driving in a relatively closed environment, especially in tunnels and highways, you will also fall into shallow hypnosis, and you will relax in your mind, feel that you are very easy to drive, very safe, and even have the feeling of wanting to sleep, which is very prone to traffic accidents, so when building tunnels and laying highways, everyone will find that highways and tunnels can never be straight. Don't think that the construction party doesn't understand the shortest straight line between two points, it is deliberate, it is to let the driver properly fiddle with the steering wheel and change the visual direction to maintain vigilance in driving.

Moderate hypnosis is a kind of hypnosis that requires the intervention of a hypnotist, and this degree of hypnosis is generally used in psychotherapy: patients with shadows can be allowed to dilute some shadow memories, manic patients can be relaxed and quiet, and autistic patients can reduce the symptoms of autism and communicate in a hypnotic environment...... Anyway, moderate hypnosis, as a means of psychotherapy, has been adopted and used by more and more psychologists, and in this regard, hypnosis is quite positive, and it can even replace psychotherapy methods such as electric shocks and psychotropic drugs with great side effects. However, not all psychological symptoms can be treated with hypnosis, such as split personality, paranoia, hysteria...... These cannot be intervened by hypnosis at all, and the intervention of hypnosis will be counterproductive.

Heavy hypnosis, the author can only use "hehe" to describe a more negative hypnosis. How so? Except for the study of hypnosis theory and some commercial performances, it is useless, really useful, and it is also a means used to achieve the selfish goals of some people and certain units, just like the example of the volcanic eruption mentioned by the author above, it is a fool who can figure it out: once this thing is mastered, it is extremely easy to commit crimes. If I can make people heavily hypnotized, then I don't have to go to work to write, I stand at the door of the bank every day, and when I see a rich man coming out, I hypnotize him and take all the money I have withdrawn. Due to the unique characteristics of hypnosis, the memory of hypnosis is blank (without the most essential consciousness), in other words, you don't know if you have less money! It is very difficult for criminal investigation to solve cases.

Fortunately, in the entire world field, there are not many hypnotists who can make people heavily hypnotized, and there are only a handful. Yu Wenfang is one of them, such a master-level figure appeared in Vietnam, can Hong Jiwen, who loves hypnosis, miss such an opportunity? Hong Jiwen learned that she would not be able to meet Master Yu Wenfang, who she had been in love with for a long time, under the leadership of Li Kexiu, tomorrow, and it can be said that she didn't sleep well all night.

The next day, Hong Jiwen woke up early, and while Li Kexiu and Li Kexiu's family hadn't woken up yet, she was ready to go out and buy some breakfast for everyone. But Vietnam is such a country, I don't know if people are lazy or they don't have the habit of eating out for breakfast at all, Hong Jiwen slipped around a lot, but I didn't see any breakfast. The dejected Hong Jiwen returned to Li Kexiu's house, only to see that Li Kexiu's family was already busy, making breakfast for Hong Jiwen. Li Kexiu also woke up at this time. was anxious about Hong Jiwen's "disappearance". Seeing that Hong Jiwen was back, when I asked Hong Jiwen, I learned that Hong Jiwen wanted to go out to buy some and come back early, Li Kexiu laughed and said to Hong Jiwen: "In Vietnam, they all sleep late and wake up late, and ordinary units will not start work until about ten o'clock." Most people don't have the habit of eating breakfast, and even if they do, they make some Vietnamese coffee at home. If you go to open a breakfast shop, you will definitely lose money. First, there are not many people who buy it, and secondly, the weather is hot, things cannot be stored for a long time, and they are easy to deteriorate. So if you really want to have breakfast, it's all made at home. I've already explained it to my family. You have a habit of eating breakfast, so my family gets up early. Make a sandwich! ”

Hong Jiwen's first two days in Vietnam were in the hotel, and there was a ready-made breakfast buffet in the hotel, so I didn't know that there was such a custom. Vietnamese people have a more Westernized breakfast, probably because of colonial rule, and most of them are Vietnamese coffee and sandwiches. The sandwiches made by Li Kexiu's family are still good, two slices of toast are mixed with luncheon meat, fried eggs, lettuce, and prawns, and the ingredients are very rich, especially the intervention of prawns, which makes Hong Jiwen feel "refreshing", and she can't help but increase her appetite and eat two more! After eating breakfast, Hong Jiwen began to "chatter" at Li Kexiu, asking Li Kexiu to quickly take Hong Jiwen to see Yu Wenfang. Li Kexiu couldn't stand Hong Jiwen's urging, and after a little preparation, she set off with Hong Jiwen.

Li Kexiu took Hong Jiwen to walk on the empty road for a long time, and Hong Jiwen became suspicious and asked Li Kexiu why this was? Li Kexiu was not ambiguous, raised his right hand, and pointed to the watch on his right wrist (author's note: If you see someone's watch on the right wrist, there is a 20% chance that it is a psychological worker, as for the reason, the author can only say that this is an industry's "unspoken rule", a more reliable way to say is that psychological workers often have to touch the "mirror principle", so, in order to use the theory to the extreme, so the watch will be worn on the right wrist!) said: "Sister Jiwen, what time is it?" It was more than 8 o'clock, and Master Yu's speech was at 10 o'clock. If you go now, people must be preparing for the speech, and there will be time to receive you? I arranged for you to attend Master Yu's lecture first, and when the speech is over, I will take you to meet Master Yu himself! Hong Jiwen thought about it and felt that it made sense, but she was puzzled: "Then why do you keep taking me to the road?" ”

"Hey...... Sister Ji Wen, I found that you can ignore everything as long as you want to see Master Yu. You come to Ho Chi Minh City, in addition to seeing me, there is also a purpose, is to visit the scenery of Ho Chi Minh City, yesterday you said that you have browsed a rough idea, then I will take advantage of the time today, take you to taste the cultural customs of Vietnam, but it is still early, there are not many people, you just accommodate a little, can you? When Li Kexiu said this, Hong Jiwen felt very embarrassed, and hurriedly said hello, and then, under the leadership of Li Kexiu, she played the streets of Ho Chi Minh City......

Time passed quickly, almost half past nine, Li Kexiu took Hong Jiwen to a place in the hall, the door of the hall has been wandering in one after another, in the eye-catching place at the entrance of the hall, pull a red banner (this custom is similar to China), the Vietnamese Wen Hongji on it I can't understand of course, under Li Kexiu's translation, I learned that it is to welcome the hypnosis master Yu Wenfang to come to the speech. Don't think that this kind of speech will be as crowded as a celebrity concert, hypnosis is a small kind of "project" after all, there are only so many people who understand, even if they are all present, the scene is limited. With Li Kexiu, a staff member, Hong Jiwen can not only enter without a ticket, but also have a better position in the front row after entering. After Hong Jiwen sat down excitedly, Li Kexiu went to busy with her work, and what Hong Jiwen had to do was to wait quietly for Yu Wenfang to walk on the podium......

The time came to 10 o'clock, in a burst of Vietnamese news, a well-dressed, smiling middle-aged woman walked up to the stage, the audience burst into thunder, the middle-aged woman obviously in the newly learned Vietnamese, followed everyone to say hello, and then, began to speak in English.

Hong Jiwen listened to it fascinated, and a one-hour speech benefited Hong Jiwen a lot. The author very much wants to know the content of Yu Wenfang's speech, but Hong Jiwen is like a "secret between girlfriends" about the content of that speech, and she doesn't say a word to outsiders! So that the author does not have first-hand information in this regard, otherwise I can use this platform to share with the majority of readers.

When Yu Wenfang's speech was about to end, Li Kexiu quietly came to Hong Jiwen's side and asked her to prepare psychologically...... (To be continued.) )