014: Each is going to do it
Brother Lobby is the eldest grandson in the family, so not only the eldest aunt and uncle are very concerned about Brother Lobby's marriage, but even the grandparents and Wang Tingting's father, third uncle and third aunt are also very concerned. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 infoThe candidate who has been discussed by so many people must be good.
Of course, Wang Tingting is so young, she has no right to speak at home, and even if she has any opinions, no one will care too much.
In fact, there is no connection between the villages, after all, the villagers of each village will not be far away from home, which has caused the situation of several villages marrying each other, so this is not the first time that Qinghe Village has married a girl from Luojia Village.
There are many villages near Qinghe Village, Qingshan Village, Liujia Village, Xiaogou Village, Xieyang Village, Luojia Village. Wang Tingting's eldest aunt is from Qingshan Village, her grandmother and mother are married from Liujia Village, and the third aunt is from Xiaogou Village. In addition, Wang Tingting also has two aunts, who married into Xiaogou Village and Xieyang Village respectively. Not only the Wang family, but also every household in the village is actually in a similar situation, so the connection between several villages is actually very close.
"The eldest grandson is also going to get married, he has really grown up, and it seems that it will not be long before we can hold our great-grandson. The children have grown up, and they will slowly become a family in the future, whether each child is married or married, they need a sum of money, and you know what the situation is in the family, so you must work hard to save money, otherwise the children's marriage is not easy to say. Grandma said.
In fact, in Wang Tingting's eyes, a very poor family is not the poorest in the world, it can only be said to be an ordinary family, at least Wang Tingting's family has food, clothing, a little surplus food, a little money, and livestock at home. It's just that in Wang Tingting's eyes, it is very poor, in fact, in the village, the Wang family is doing relatively well, at least the Wang family's house is very spacious, they can eat meat during the New Year, and there are many fields.
What grandma said also made everyone hear in their hearts, it is true that it is not only Wang Lin's marriage problem now, the children are almost these two years, and the money saved in the family is not very much, after all, only by raising some livestock, how much silver can be saved in the field?
So where does the money come from? If you don't have money, wouldn't you have wronged your children? Therefore, each has their own plans, the uncle thinks about whether he can find a job in the town after the autumn harvest, and Wang Fugui thinks that he can sell wood carvings in the next market and praise some money. And what Wang has the right to think is that after the autumn harvest, he will go to chop firewood, and when the weather is cold, he will go to the town to sell firewood, and he will also be able to praise some money.
Because of the marriage problem, the whole family began to work hard, and in this world, people in this era pay great attention to inheritance, so it is very important to get married.
Seeing that everyone in her family was worried about money, Wang Tingting felt that her opportunity had come, and now that her family was in a state of affairs, if she said that there were valuable medicinal materials in the mountains, or that there was edible food, she would definitely be willing to try it. It's just that it's not busy now, let's wait for the autumn harvest, otherwise even if I say it, the people in the family won't have time, and I'll forget it after a long time.
In the village, getting married is to have a treat, which is a lot of food expenses, so it is not uncommon for some poor families to delay their marriage for a few years.
In Wang Tingting's memory, there are also people in the village who are married, Wang Tingting also went to join in the excitement before, and now Wang Tingting is the first time to see the marriage situation in ancient times.
Mrs. Liu came to the Wang family on the third day and replied, the Luo family had already agreed to Brother Tang's marriage, but in addition to the original ceremonial gifts, the dowry also required an additional two taels of silver, after all, the Luo family was not rich, and it was planned to marry a daughter to a son and a daughter-in-law, so how could it be impossible not to have money.
Don't think that two taels of silver are very little, two taels of silver are enough for a family to live for a year, but in fact, the other party's requirements are also reasonable, it is normal to marry a daughter and ask for a dowry, which is also the Luo family is also more satisfied with the Wang family, if you are not satisfied, maybe it will be 5 taels, ten taels.
"Mrs. Liu, thank you for your hard work, you go back and say, we agreed, but our family hopes that the other party will enter the door early, after all, my son is 16 years old, and if he delays it any longer, he will be older." The eldest aunt said.
"Big sister, you can rest assured that I will do something, the Luo family said, as long as the dowry arrives, you can pass the door within half a year, and I wish the two newcomers harmony and beauty here." Mrs. Liu said.
"Thank you Mrs. Liu, this is a little bit of our heart, you take it to drink tea, and when the bride comes through the door, we will definitely wrap a big red envelope for you." The eldest aunt said happily.
Mrs. Liu got the money, and she was even happier and hurriedly promised to do things well, Mrs. Liu's reputation in Shili and Eight Villages is still very good, otherwise it would be impossible for aunts and grandmothers to find Mrs. Liu, speaking of which, Mrs. Liu is still a relative of grandma, but she doesn't move around much, and she is not very familiar.
Mrs. Liu naturally worked more dedicatedly after taking the money, not to mention that she was related, if she didn't do things well, how could she have the face to visit relatives and friends in the future.
Mrs. Liu came to the Luo family and said the wishes of the Wang family, and the two families hit it off and were very satisfied, which is easy to do, just set a date, pass the bride price, the engagement letter, and then marry the bride through the door. There are not so many mundane etiquette in small villages, they are all very simple, and those big scenes are generally like that of rich families.
After waiting for a few days, Wang Tingting knew that the marriage of the original lobby brother had been decided, I didn't expect it to be so soon, it was not a month, but the wedding day was placed after the autumn harvest, before the cold weather, everyone was free during this time, after all, they also had to work when the farm was busy, and it was impossible to delay the farm work because of the marriage, after all, the production in the field was the guarantee for the survival of the family.
However, some of the things you need when you get married can start to prepare now, and when you get married, the vegetables are basically only radishes and cabbage, so at this time, you have to start preparing some dried vegetables, after all, when you get married, there must be a lot of people who come, if you eat all the food, I don't know how much food is enough, so get more vegetables, you can also reduce the consumption of food.
Seeing a large pile of vegetables drying in the yard, Wang Tingting also wanted to help, so she said, "Mother, I'll help you." Mother, why do we have to dry all the dishes? ”
"These vegetables don't last long if they are not dried, and they can be eaten at any time after they are dried." Liu Cuihua said.