Chapter 3 No Freedom, Better Death

Zhou Chunwang was also angry when he heard this: "You are incorrigible, and my absenteeism will become hopeless?" I'm living my life selectively, I know what I want, I'm fighting for it every day, I'm working hard for it, and my truancy is at best a sign that I'm not suitable for this kind of test-taking education. Pen~Fun~Pavilion www.biquge.info What's wrong with my parents pampering me? I don't think there's anything wrong with their way of education, at least I've lived freely and happily since I was a child, I have a happy childhood, I will have a happy youth, and I won't become a person who harms society. Do you think everyone is going to be like their cousin, just a good boy and a good student? Do you know my cousin? Do you care if she's having a good time? Did you know that she often told me that she was a child with no childhood and no youth? You only know all day long to let her study hard and force her to study at home, do you think she is very happy to be admitted to a prestigious university this time? She's just more filial, she just doesn't want to disobey your words, she just lives according to your requirements. But I don't want to, I don't want to be like her, my life is only once, my youth is shorter, I don't want to become an obedient child, I want to be a free and happy person, I want to pursue my own life, not someone else's life. ”

"Spring Hope!" Zhou Chunwang's mother called him a few times just now, but it couldn't stop him from continuing. After he finished speaking, he couldn't help but slapped him on the shoulder, "How did you talk to your uncle?" We're not here for your own good. ”

Zhou Chunwang said: "I know that you are all for my good, but no one can arbitrarily decide other people's lives under the banner of 'for whose good', as a parent can give advice many times, but not everything can be decided for the child." Each person is an independent individual, he has the right to make his own decisions, he is qualified to arrange his own life; I think the most important thing as a parent is that the child can be happy, so that he can be a happy person who does not do evil, and that is enough. Not everyone is successful, and letting your child live this life freely and happily is the greatest success. I feel like my parents have been doing a great job all along, and I'm proud to have such enlightened parents. ”

Zhou Chunwang's mother was also surprised to quiet down, in fact, she has never asked her son to do much, although sometimes she envy other people's children's test scores so well, but every time she sees her son, she can't bear to say it if she is too harsh, she feels that she doesn't read much, her ideas are not necessarily right, she often feels inferior to her ultra-low education. But she never thought that Zhou Chunwang thought like this, she didn't think she was a qualified mother, but she was also very moved to hear Zhou Chunwang's heart. If you think about it carefully, it's true, I just want my son to be happy, and sometimes I even want to make more money and save more money, so that he can live a better life in the future even when he doesn't make much money.

"You're surprising me." Zhou Chunwang's uncle finally spoke again, "I didn't expect you to think about it so much, your thoughts may be a little naΓ―ve in some places, but it's rare to have these thoughts at this age, at least I know that you haven't thought about your future." ”

Zhou Chunwang's uncle took off his glasses and held them in his hand: "I started teaching after graduating from university, and it can be said that I have never experienced the dangers and difficulties of society, maybe you will disdain these things, but every year many former students come to see me, and many students will come to my house during the Chinese New Year, you know, you have seen it every year." From them, I can also understand how hard to find jobs and how competitive they are. There are many, many students because they didn't get into a good university, because they couldn't get into college, four or five years later, or even more than ten years later, they still haven't even found a job with a salary of three or four thousand yuan, and many of them have to rely on their parents to support them. And at this time, they are already preparing for the survival of their other half and even the next generation. Every year, I hear a lot of students tell me that they regret not listening to their teachers and studying seriously・・・・・・・ so I don't want to hear these words anymore, I don't want to make my students regret it, at least I try to make these students less and less, so I have to treat them more harshly. Especially my daughter and, of course, you. ”

Zhou Chunwang's uncle's tone was very sincere, and his tirade was no longer as aggressive as just now.

Zhou Chunwang also fell silent.

Yes, Uncle's words are not wrong. Many people will shout "I want to be myself", but you are such a rotten self, and it is too disgusting to be so cheeky to say that you are "being yourself" without changing or saying it. Many people often have to be forced by their parents and teachers to make changes and make progress.

"You're right, I shouldn't make decisions for you, maybe your parents really know how to be a qualified parent better than me." Zhou Chunwang's uncle continued to slow down and said, "You just said that you are studying every day, what are you learning?" ”

"I'm studying art, English, screenwriting, and then photography, acting, and so on." Zhou Chunwang said.

"Why do you want to learn this?"

"Because I'm going to be admitted to the Peking Film Academy."

"Film school? Do you want to be a star? ”

"No, I want to go to the directing department, I want to make movies."

Zhou Chunwang's uncle was a little surprised, there are many students in the school who take the art exam every year, but generally there are more exams in art, music and physical education, and none of them take the performance exam, let alone someone who wants to take the subject of directing. He said, "Do you understand this?" Art schools are not so easy to get into, and I have heard of this school, it is not easy to get in, and I heard that the score line of culture is not low. Can you pass this grade? ”

Zhou Chunwang's mother was also a little confused, although she hadn't seen a few movies, she knew what making movies was, which was similar to making TV series; She just couldn't react because she felt that the things on TV were too far from her life, and she never thought that one of her sons would tell her that he wanted to make movies.

"This score is enough, of course, it will be a little safer if you can get a higher score at that time."

"What about expertise?"

"I'm learning professional knowledge, and I'm going to learn a little bit about filmmaking, so I say I'm studying art, English, and screenwriting, because I'm going to use them in the future."

Zhou Chunwang's mother and uncle looked at each other, and things seemed to be really different from what they imagined. Zhou Chunwang said it clearly, it is indeed the result of planning and thinking about it for a long time.

"So you," said Zhou Chunwang's uncle, "usually skip school to do these things?" ”

"Yes, I missed two classes this morning, but I've already made a dozen sketches."

Zhou Chunwang's uncle thought about it again, and finally sighed: "Okay, although I don't think the director exam will be a correct decision, it's as unreliable as you say that you want to be a singer and a star, but you are right; It's your own life, and you can make your own decisions. ”

"Thank you for your understanding." Zhou Chunwang stood up, followed by his mother.

"But I want you to do your best to make whatever decision you make. Everything is struggle and perseverance! There is no second way to go. Zhou Chunwang's uncle also stood up. Also, since you want to go to art school, I will explain the situation to other teachers, and if you want to study art in the future, just tell them directly, and don't skip class without saying a word. "Students who are admitted to art schools can be like this, like Zhou Chunwang, there are 3 students in Zhou Chunwang's class who are preparing for the art exam, and sometimes they don't come to cultural classes, they go to art classes to learn to paint. It's just that Zhou Chunwang said that he wanted to take the director exam, which is really special, and this school has never encountered it.

"Okay." Zhou Chunwang nodded, and he was a little embarrassed at this time, because he yelled at the uncle just now that he shouldn't have said so many things. And his mother also began to say goodbye to his uncle.

"By the way," when Zhou Chunwang and them walked to the door, Zhou Chunwang's uncle stopped them again, "Your cousin, really told you those words?" ”

Zhou Chunwang paused for a moment, and then said, "But my cousin said that she is also very grateful to have such a strict father as you. In fact, she is also very happy that she can be admitted to such a good school, and she also hopes that she will become a good teacher like you in the future. She said that if her father hadn't been pushing her ・・・・・・ to study, she would have really been unable to persevere sometimes. She said that she enjoyed being at the top of her grades every time, that she enjoyed the moment, and sometimes wished that there would be exams every day so that she could get first place often. ”