313. Persuasion

Wu Nan sighed in her heart, her daughter was a person with a good personality before, but since she missed Jiang Hongxiang, she has become impatient, emotional, and impatient, fortunately Han Xiaodong is a good-tempered person and can tolerate all her daughter's petty temperament. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info Now it seems that Han Xiaodong is more suitable for his daughter, but he can't be too spoiled by her problems.

Wu Nandao: "Xiaomei, I found that you have a big temper now, you didn't do this before, were you spoiled by Han Xiaodong?" Some people are pampered and cherished, rather than letting their temperament go because of this. Don't let the people who are good to you get cold. ”

Wu Danmei took a breath of cool air, and her father's words reminded her that she did have a little temper, because was it Han Xiaodong's pampering of her?

Because he likes her, he can tolerate all her willfulness, and she relies on his kindness to her, so he develops her emotionality at will!

Yes, she can understand all the kindness that Han Xiaodong has done to her, because all the kindness he has done to her has been used on Jiang Hongxiang's body, but he has not responded to her, she has become accustomed to his coldness, and simply continues to be good to him, but now, seeing Han Xiaodong treating her like this, she understands that in fact, Jiang Hongxiang has really never liked her, everything is matched by the people around her, and there is her own unilateral like, the person she has liked for so many years, She never really understood him, and even how he felt about herself, she only through her own fantasies.

After getting along with Han Xiaodong, she really discovered that Jiang Hongxiang really didn't like her.

To like a person is to want to be close to him from the bottom of your heart, to be good to him, to be happy because of his joy, and to be sad because of his sorrow.

She was moved by Han Xiaodong's love for her and her kindness, but she couldn't give him the same response, sometimes she felt that it was okay for her to be like this, there was a person who doted on her like this, when she was a baby, she was not satisfied, but sometimes she had a deep loss, why was Han Xiaodong not Jiang Hongxiang? How complete her life must have been!

So in front of Han Xiaodong, she is often very emotional. There is satisfaction, guilt, regret, touch, and loss. All kinds of emotions are intertwined in the heart.

Sometimes she said to herself, accept Han Xiaodong! You can't find a man who treats you as well as him, but she says to herself, are you selfish in doing this? You can't love Han Xiaodong wholeheartedly, why should you accept him, it's unfair to him to do so.

If Jiang Hongxiang hadn't met Pomegranate, would he have chosen to live with her because of his love for him and his kindness, coupled with the pressure from both parents?

Wu Danmei thought about it, no, Jiang Hongxiang would not do this, he is a very strong person. He never does things against his will.

And she doesn't have a strong heart like Jiang Hongxiang, in her life, she will never treat any man like Jiang Hongxiang, so why doesn't she choose someone who is good to herself? She needs to care, she needs to be pampered, because over the years, she has given all her passion, she is tired, and because she has no energy to give. She needs to make up for the wear and tear that she has done all she can over the years.

Wu Nan looked at his daughter who was eating silently, and said to his wife: "Don't nag about your daughter all day long in the future, she is a good child, I believe she will cherish her happiness, Han Xiaodong is good, what I fancy is that he is good to our Xiaomei, and he is sincere, so they feel that when they are suitable for engagement, they will be engaged when they are engaged, you talk like this every day, and you put a lot of pressure on Xiaomei."

Wang Chunyu said: "Okay, okay, I won't talk about it in the future, but Xiaomei, I still want to tell you that the luckiest thing for a woman is to meet someone who can know cold and hot to you, Han Xiaodong is a person who really loves you, you have to cherish it."

Wu Danmei nodded.

She came back to eat with her parents today to tell them about her brother, why did it come to her head all at once, and it was endless.

"Dad, I heard that you arranged my brother to go to the county below, and you went to a remote township?" Wu Danmei diverted the topic to his brother.

"That's right! He's still young and needs more exercise. Wu Nan said in a very official tone.

"You don't just want him to exercise, right? You objected to him being with Qin Xiaojuan, so you got him to such a place. I want him to suffer a little, let him comply, and listen to your arrangement. ”

"Xiaomei, your father and I have our own reasoning, if you don't understand, don't mix blindly."

Wu Danmei said stubbornly: "Dad, Mom, can you not interfere in the affairs of my brother and Qin Xiaojuan?" What's so bad about Qin Xiaojuan? If someone has the ability to be admitted to college, it is worthy of my brother to like her, not everyone can be admitted to university, not to mention that her own conditions are so poor. ”

"Our daughter-in-law doesn't need to have much ability, the most important thing is to have a good character and a good family background, Xiaomei, you don't know how bad Qin Xiaojuan's parents have a bad reputation in the village, one is a thief, the other is a romantic woman, how good will the character of the daughter educated by such parents be? No matter how capable she is, our family doesn't want it. ”

"Mom, you don't know the truth, just based on a few words from the people in the village, you can conclude that Qin Xiaojuan's parents are like that, which is unfair to her family and irresponsible to my brother."

"Their family doesn't have such and such problems, why do the people in their village talk about his family like that, and they don't know me, why are they lying to me?"

"Mom, when people see that you are a person from the city, you are both rich and noble, if you ask the people in the village who have a holiday with his family, they are even more jealous, so it is possible to arrange a meal of his family's affairs casually. Who doesn't have one or two acquaintances who don't get along well. ”

Wang Chunyu said: "Don't say it, if that's the case, I will admit it, whoever told their family to provoke such an unjust creditor, no matter what, I have to ask your brother to find a good family with a clean background and a pure family style."

"Mom, you only care about whether they are suitable or not according to your worldly eyes, and you will not look at them from my brother's point of view, and in the future, the two of them will live together for a lifetime, whether they are suitable or not, whether they can live well depends on themselves."

"How can you see whether it is suitable or not when dealing with the object, and only after getting married can you know whether it is suitable or not to live the days of pots and pans together, these must have almost the same family environment and growth experience to be harmonious. Therefore, it is not prejudice, but the insight that generations of people have summed up with their lifelong life experience. ”