"How can you be happy during the Mid-Autumn Festival? I miss my parents at home, I still owe you brotherhood, I don't know when I can pay it off, but I am glad that it is a peaceful time, my body is healthy and healthy, and I will not forget the Bodhisattva's grace in my practice, and I am determined to spread the Dharma and be a successor. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info”

I don't know what the reason is, the two gangs now feel that the time flies too fast every day, and when they get up in the morning, they first have to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and when they come back from buying vegetables, they hurriedly accompany Zhu Mengru to have breakfast, and when breakfast is ready, they have to wash the pots and pans before they can rush to work.

There is no way, because one of Zhu Mengru's arms, probably due to the impact of surgery, cannot be wet, and it cannot sags for a long time, otherwise, the edema will become serious.

Now everything has to be done all over again, coupled with the continuous conflict with the villager committee, although the matter is not big, but it is very annoying, the key is that the second gang has to pretend to be smiling to comfort Zhu Mengru, so the second gang also felt very tired, so they had to cancel the plan to go back to their hometown to report the good news to their parents during the Mid-Autumn Festival.

"I'm sorry for the trouble."

After the Mid-Autumn Festival, the second gang went to the factory on the first day of work, and used the noon break to send a WeChat message to express the feelings in his heart, and when he returned home from work in the evening, Zhu Mengru's first sentence was to apologize to the second gang like a child who had done something wrong.

"Hehehe, what's the matter, it's all old husbands and wives, the family doesn't speak two words, don't be so polite in the future."

That being said, the two gangs still felt a little depressed.

"No matter what, we have to go back to visit your parents this year, otherwise, I, as a daughter-in-law, will also feel uneasy."

Although the second gang has the desire and plan to go back to visit their parents, they don't want to go back with Zhu Mengru, the main thing is to think about Zhu Mengru, I am afraid that it will affect her physical condition, and after so many years, I don't know what the situation is at home, even if I go back, it may not be easy to arrange food and accommodation, if I go back alone, I will be able to play well, and I won't have any plans, but if Zhu Mengru also goes back, then the situation may be a little different. The key thing is that Zhu Mengru is still a person with that kind of problem, so she doesn't dare to be careless at all.

But Zhu Mengru's consistent insistence can't be resisted, although the second gang agreed to take Zhu Mengru back, that is, it is necessary to seriously consider when it will be more appropriate to go back.

As the saying goes, the year is afraid of the Mid-Autumn Festival and the moon is afraid of half, a month has passed, two and two months have passed, according to the solar calendar, the new year, it is coming again, one after another phone calls, and they have been called one after another, to the effect that it is nothing more than to ask the second gang when they are going to go back.

Of course, the most of these calls are the third and fourth brothers, plus the little brother Ye Qing specially called over and told him that the second gang would have to go back to visit his parents this year anyway, the second elder is seventy or eighty years old, and the son wants to be filial and does not wait, I don't know if I can take a few last looks, and it will be too late to regret it.

"Time is passing fast, and in the blink of an eye, it is going to be a New Year, my parents are looking forward to it, my brother is shouting, please hurry up and return your home, after another year of hard work, where can I have extra money, it is difficult to support my family, where can I have extra money, and foreign debts have not been repaid, so how can I go back and forth, the grace of parenting is always repaid, and I also want my brothers to be reunited, no matter how difficult it is, go home this year to take a look."

There is no way, that kind of helplessness in my heart, the second gang had to reflect it through their own creations, and at the same time secretly made up their minds that they would go home to visit their parents this year no matter what.

The idea can be said to be good, but the economic difficulties, that are objective, because Zhu Mengru must go for a re-examination before the Spring Festival, breast cancer has a five-year risk period, according to the requirements of the expert doctor, it must be rechecked twice a year, plus the round-trip travel expenses, food, accommodation, dispensing and other expenses, each trip is at least about 5,000 yuan, that is still in the case that everything is basically normal, in case something is found to be wrong, then it must be dealt with immediately, the cost required, I had to make a determination according to the situation at the time.

In order to be able to go back to visit their parents with peace of mind, the second gang agreed with Zhu Mengru that this inspection was scheduled before New Year's Day, in the middle of December, if everything is normal, then the two of them will go back to visit their parents on New Year's Day.

First of all, this New Year's Day back, to avoid the peak of the Spring Festival, walking during the Spring Festival, the flow of people is really unimaginable, and the ticket is expensive and not easy to buy, and the weather during the Spring Festival, no one dares to guarantee, in case of repeated rainy days, coupled with the cold weather, it may not be something that ordinary people can bear, don't say that Zhu Mengru can't stand it, the second gang is a little worried about their physical condition, in case it is motion sickness again, you say that in this winter, I don't know how to bear that sin.

Good New Year's Day, at least the climate will not be too cold, and during the Spring Festival, in case the second gang and Zhu Mengru go to Anhui together, you said that leaving Zhu Mengru's mother at home alone, will you feel lonely, lonely, sad and pitiful, so Zhu Mengru is really reluctant, of course, the second gang also feels a little inappropriate, after all, the first Spring Festival I just came over, I will not let their mother and daughter be separated in the New Year because of their own reasons.

Of course, according to the rules of Zhu Mengru's good mother-in-law's family, the second gang is also a new prospective nephew and son-in-law after all, on the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, all the children and grandchildren must rush over to kowtow to the good father-in-law, will not break this rule in the first year, and when the second gang first came, they received special courtesy from the aunts and uncles, that is, each family was in the most noble and magnificent hotel in Nale Yu Town, and the Fang Yuan Restaurant specially invited the second gang once.

When has the second gang been treated with such pomp and circumstance in this life, and it has been continuous several times, don't you say that this is all stained with Zhu Mengru's light and enjoyed the blessing of Zhu Mengru?

"Everyone in the world sighs that the day is difficult to mix, in fact, the day is early, the word filial piety goes side by side, first there is filial piety and then smooth, parents do their best for you, I don't know how many words there are in return? Before you go to bed, ask yourself if you wake up in the middle of the night. The grace of nurturing can be forgotten, where is there still brotherhood? How to rank friends, I have to be lonely and alone. ”

But as a child, to be filial to their parents and elders, this is not only a glorious traditional virtue handed down in China for thousands of years, but also the responsibility and obligation that every child should fulfill.

And the concept of Buddhism, are to the filial piety to parents, as the first element, in fact, the wise ancestors, also the fate of the people, through the structure of the text to tell the people who are aware of the afterthought, filial piety, that is, you only have filial piety first, and then your destiny will be smooth, the truth is so simple, but unfortunately there are so many people, the brain is not able to be civilized, but also think that they do not believe in evil, that is also no way.

The second gang feels that they now have more responsibility and obligation to play a leading and exemplary role, and tell and publicize this objective truth that changes and determines everyone's fate through their own personal experience and personal experience, and through various network channels.

"On the first day of the big year, I took my beloved wife to return home, one reported the parent's nurturing grace, two to the hometown of a parent, the parents were two Buddhas, not they have me, the grace of the parents is not finished, can return a little is a little, the words of the Bodhisattva in the heart, the good is always filial piety first, not filial piety to the parents do not respect the ancestors, no blessing to suffer, I advise the world to listen to my words, sincere filial piety to get the blessing."

"In today's society, the pressure of competition is so great, the moral atmosphere is so poor, and I don't know how many people can do filial piety, but you must know that karma between heaven and earth is absolutely real, how you treat your parents today, how your children will treat you in the future, and it is only too much, so you must always ask yourself, do not be ashamed and heartfelt, do not wait until you are old and sleep unstable, and die are not steady."

"Every festive season to think of relatives, a New Year is more sad, half a life has gone through many tribulations, powerless to show filial piety, how can the world have real livestock? Who can not want to have two parents? All kinds of grievances are hidden in my heart, who will solve my pure heart? The Buddhist mantra is often listened to, both parents are bodhisattvas, and filial piety is to respect the Bodhisattva, and to practice wholeheartedly. There are different ways of filial piety, Amitabha Buddha recites loudly, and when the happy year comes, I bring my beloved wife to thank my relatives! ”

I don't know what the reason is, I want to go home when I don't go home, once I really set foot on the journey home, the second gang became nervous, just like the last time I went to Shanghai for the second time to review, this time I heard that the second gang was going to go to Anhui hometown with Zhu Mengru to visit his parents, and the second aunt and the second aunt asked to drive the car in person anyway, and sent the second gang and Zhu Mengru to the Jiangyin long-distance bus station.

Of course, the second review in Shanghai is not very ideal, that is, Zhu Mengru may be in a bad mood during this time, and with some side effects caused by drugs, there are two small problems in two aspects, one is that there is a small accumulation, and the other is endometrial thickening, according to the expert doctor, the situation is not too serious, but it is necessary to follow up and observe anytime and anywhere, that is to say, to prepare for the beginning of next year, and come over for a review. The period of half a year has been shortened to three months, which is a big problem for the second gang, not only to be prepared to ask for leave to accompany them again, but also to prepare a large amount of money for backup at any time.

But like Zhu Mengru's case, the second gang felt that it was not good to say it to their brothers, of course, they couldn't say it to their parents when they went back this time, otherwise, they wouldn't understand, and they would add a little more worry out of thin air, the most important thing is that there is no certificate between the two people, no matter who knows, it will not be supported, and there is suffering can only be put in their hearts, and they have to pretend to be calm on the surface, naturally they are smiling and laughing, otherwise, I'm afraid that Zhu Mengru will be cranky and worried, it's really difficult to be a man, not to mention that the second gang still wants to be a great man.

"Every time the Spring Festival arrives, I am upset and angry, and at the end of the year, the money is too little, how can I take care of the small and the old? Allah is not young, doesn't he care how old he is? Now that I have nothing, do you force me to hang myself, I have a good fortune, bitter and sour, I know it, loyalty and filial piety are clear, Allah is dedicated to practice, once the good fortune can come, and then pass on the good news to relatives and friends, and toast it all with a bottle! ”

Anyway, being idle is also idle, and the two gangs have no choice but to express their feelings by publishing more things along the way.

Zhu Mengru was in a good mood along the way, and kept asking the second gang about some family members in her hometown, and the second gang had to explain to her one by one, fortunately, this trip between the second gang and Zhu Mengru's visit to her parents probably really moved the Bodhisattva, because the second gang didn't feel motion sickness at all along the way this time, don't you say strange?

When the two of them arrived at Wuxi Railway Station and began to buy train tickets, the two gangs found that the Linhuaiguan platform in Fengyang County, which is now closest to their homes, has been canceled, and it cannot be said that this is not a depressing news, because in this way, the two of them may have to spare a lot of money, spend more money and do less, and the key is to delay a lot of time.

"Call his Sanniang when I get home." The old third industry, probably through WeChat and QQ dynamics, found that the second gang and the new second sister-in-law went back, and specially sent a message to come over to explain.

The fourth child also knew, and sent a message to explain some of the current situation at home, saying that his parents live in the eldest brother's house, but the eldest brother's family is not at home, and there is no one in his own house, only the third sister-in-law is at home with two children, and he will also call back and arrange for the third sister-in-law to be responsible for entertaining.

To be honest, the second gang went back this time, and they didn't want to alarm anyone at all, so they didn't greet anyone in advance, the main purpose of this trip was to visit their parents, understand the situation first, and by the way, they also told the second elder that they had become a home again, so that they didn't have to worry about themselves in the future, and then gave them a little money to express their hearts, that's all, this is the only thing they can do in the current situation.