When Li Zhiming said this, his face was full of surprise. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info Jiang Kai was a little excited when he saw what he said, and comforted him: "You don't have to say it in one breath, just say it slowly!" Come...... Drink some tea first! After Jiang Kai finished speaking, he took the initiative to help Li Zhiming add tea, Li Zhiming either thought that the tea was too hot, or he felt that what he was talking about was Xingtou, ignoring the tea poured by Jiang Kai, and continued to say: "Of course my grandmother is embarrassed to raise money from the god operator Ai Chun, and hurriedly asked the neighbors around her to borrow money. When there are difficulties between neighbors, everyone will help a little, and those who have money will have a money field, and those who have no money will have a personal field, everyone will talk about it. Only that day there was a stunned young man, who didn't eat this set, not only did not help my grandmother, but also made a lot of nonsense, saying that this Ai Chunlai would also take advantage of the chaos to swagger and deceive, if it were in other eras, this kind of person would have been shot and beheaded! The god operator Ai Chunlai didn't care, but just helped my grandmother collect the money together, and 'registered' the names of the people who borrowed my grandmother's money and the amount borrowed. Everyone was busy, and they didn't pay attention to the stunned young man. That stunned young man didn't know what to do, and he was still babbling over there. My grandmother couldn't stand it anymore, so she accused the stunned young man: 'If you don't help, forget it, you're still making trouble here, you are not welcome in my house, you can go!' 'It doesn't matter if you're stunned, you drive me away, I don't want to stay!' muttered a few words and turned around and left, and at this time, I don't know which good thing person it was, since he said such a sentence to the stunned Qing. 'Brother. Or take advantage of God's operators to be here. How can you help your mother to take a fortune? This sentence is a bit impolite, people are stunned and don't believe in the so-called god operator, you still have to carry such a sentence, this is not a deliberate diaphragm! Sure enough, when the stunned young man heard this, he immediately went crazy and said, "My mother's hexagram? The Jade Emperor didn't dare to take ......' Before he finished speaking, Ai Chunlai, the divine operator, suddenly grabbed the stunned hand and said, "Your mother is in danger, hurry up and send her to the hospital!" As soon as these words came out. Everyone, including my grandmother, scoffed, and my grandmother even pulled the god operator Ai Chunlai aside and said softly, "Master Ai, what you said is a bit too much! This stunned mother was just at the scene, because this stunned young man was this money fan, and saw that his mother wanted to lend me money, so he angrily argued with his mother, and his mother had just left, and her body was tough, how could it be that she was in danger! My grandmother admonished here. Many of the onlookers began to doubt the divination ability of the god operator Ai Chunlai, and they whispered one after another. Said some questioning words. The stunned young man was even more excited, and said very provocatively: "The surname is Ai, others respect you like a god, in my eyes, you are a straw bale!" Grandma, you actually said that about my mother, you can still accumulate some virtue in your mouth, right? The stunned Qing became more and more excited, and even 'danced' there, and his hand almost hit the face of the god operator Ai Chunlai several times. In the face of everyone's doubts, the god operator Ai Chunlai didn't care at all, but desperately pulled the stunned green man and yelled loudly: "Do you want to save your mother!" Have time to talk here, why don't you hurry back? Where did the stunned Qing pay attention to the words of the god operator Ai Chunlai, and saw Ai Chunlai pulling himself, he began to scuffle with Ai Chunlai, after all, Ai Chunlai is divination and hexagram, in terms of strength, it is far inferior to the stunned Qing, not long after, the god operator Ai Chunlai was stunned by the stunned Qing scuffled to the ground, this god operator Ai Chunlai was a guest invited by my grandmother after all, how can he be treated like this, and hurriedly greeted the neighbors, and dragged the stunned Qing alive. The stunned Qingwu was still excited, and he cursed Ai Chun like thunder to die. Ai Chunlai didn't care about his own pain, and still persuaded the stunned young man to hurry home to visit his mother. When everyone held on like this for more than five minutes, finally the god operator Ai Chunlai shook his head and said helplessly: "It's too late! Yes...... You continue to scold me and beat me, and there will be a time when you will regret it. ''What's too late?'' Before everyone could figure out what this god operator Ai Chunlai meant, they saw a heart-rending shout from afar: "Ergouzi (that is, the nickname of the stunned blue. Your mom is gone! Everyone looked at the shouting person, it was none other than the stunned daughter-in-law Zhang. Before he could understand what was going on, he stomped his feet and yelled at his daughter-in-law who came running, "What are you doing?" What about ganging up with this charlatan to deceive me? Zhang didn't understand, and when he ran closer, he understood the meaning of the stunned head, so he scolded and shouted: "Ergouzi, how can you joke with your mother's life?" As soon as your mother got home, she suddenly fell to the ground for some reason, and I went to help her, but she lost her breath...... 'Seeing that her daughter-in-law was not joking, she was in a hurry, and hurriedly ran towards her home......

"The ...... Who made it suspicious? Kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs, finally has retribution! Jiang Kai was filled with righteous indignation when he heard this, and couldn't help but scold at the stunned young man:

(Supplement a case, which is a case record of a more common ** phenomenon in society now, and the inner analysis is worth playing...... ）

The unit organized us to go to the campus of a certain university to carry out an activity to popularize psychological knowledge, and since the university was my alma mater, I took the lead in contacting and organizing the unit. I was still a little excited when I received this task, and I always felt that I could do something for my alma mater, and it was unrealistic not to be excited.

The early arrangement of the reception work was the university's vice president Zhang. Vice President Zhang heard that I also graduated from the school, and suddenly brought us closer together. Just as I was chatting with Vice Principal Zhang very much, a person who looked like a female teacher walked in and handed Vice Principal Zhang a piece of paper, and after Vice Principal Zhang read it, he smiled awkwardly at me and said, "Xiao Jiang, look at this persuasion form." "Dissuasion form?" I took the table suspiciously, looked at it, and the person who persuaded me to quit was called QXD, a junior girl majoring in fashion design. The reason for the persuasion turned out to be "low morality and bad morals." I asked Vice Principal Zhang, "What's wrong with this QXD?" Vice Principal Zhang shook his head and said, "Female students don't study well now. Don't want to learn. Obsessed with material comforts. This QXD made a big deal out of it, and as a result, the wife of this big money got into trouble with the school, and we decided to dissuade QXD from taking into account the reputation and influence of the school. You happen to be here to organize a psychological knowledge popularization activity, and I think it is necessary to talk to this QXD, at least through psychological counseling, to change some of her material views. I shrugged my shoulders and said, "Principal Zhang, if a person's outlook on life and worldview are established. It's hard to change. QXD, this classmate, I want to get in touch with her, at least I can summarize something, and use the summarized things as a model, so that others can be vigilant and preventive. Vice Principal Zhang nodded and said: "This is good, I also think it is necessary to educate some girls who like to have fun in moral values, then Xiao Jiang, do you have time today?" I'll arrange for you to talk to QXD. I readily agreed.

At noon, Vice President Zhang and the director of a student department accompanied me to dinner, after dinner. The Dean of Students took me to a café near QXD's dormitory, and the Dean of Student Affairs told me that QXD would be there in a while. Tell me to wait, and then he quit. I was in the small box of the coffee bar, waiting for about a cigarette, and a very tall girl walked in, her face a little nervous, and I could faintly feel that she had something on her mind. She asked a little absent-mindedly, "Are you Jiang Kai, a psychiatrist arranged by the school leaders?" I nodded and said, "Yes, you're QXD, please take a seat." "qxd" "oh" and sat down across from me. I took a closer look at QXD, although it was plain faced, it was not difficult to see that the facial features were separated, the skin was fair, and it was really a beautiful embryo. qxd found that I had been looking at her, and she was even more embarrassed when she was nervous, and muttered, "Doctor Jiang, I don't have any psychological problems, I don't know why the school leaders arranged for you to see me?" I lit a cigarette, took a puff and said, "Vice President Zhang and I have talked about your matter, you must know this matter yourself, right?" QXD looked at me a little aggrieved and said, "Is it about me dating a married man?" I nodded, and QXD couldn't wait to ask me, "What is the school doing now?" I took a puff of my cigarette and thought it seemed a bit cruel to tell her the results directly, so I digressed the subject and asked, "What do you drink?" "QXD seems to realize something, and feels a little hesitant. I asked, "QXD, are you alright?" QXD shuddered, shook his head again and again and said, "It's okay, I just want a cup of milk tea." "I ordered a cup of milk tea for QXD. QXD said to me in a daze: "Dr. Jiang, tell me the truth, did the school expel me?" I said comfortingly: "QXD, you think too much, the punishment I saw today is persuasion, not expulsion." QXD looked at me with puzzled eyes and asked, "Is there any difference between dismissal and expulsion?" I explained, "Of course, expulsion means leaving immediately, and persuasion means that you still have a chance to stay in school." There was a glimmer of light in QQD's eyes, and he asked in a slightly excited tone, "Really?" Do I still have the opportunity to continue my studies? I nodded sincerely and said, "QXD, you still have a chance to complete your studies, Vice Principal Zhang asked me to talk to you, in fact, he is changing the way to give you a chance." QXD swept away the haze just now and took a big sip of the milk tea that had just been delivered. Said happily: "I will definitely take advantage of the opportunity." Rest assured, I've already made a line with that man! ”

"Can you tell me the story about your relationship with him?" I asked, "Changed gears:

Hearing such a question, QXD's excited expression suddenly fell, and he slowly leaned back on the back of the chair with a thoughtful expression, and said with an absent-minded look: "His name is TWX, and he is the president of a township garment factory, and he should be 46 years old this year." At the beginning of this year, I met him because I was looking for an internship unit, and after he saw me, he promised to give me an internship opportunity and provide an internship salary of 3,000 yuan per month. This kind of treatment is rare among my classmates. At first I didn't believe it, but within two days, he gave me a bank card and said it was my salary card. I didn't care when I came up, it was a chance. My classmate said that he wanted to use my bank card to open online banking. It turned out that there were already 3,000 yuan in it. I hurriedly called and asked TWX. As a result, TWX gave me an answer that I would pay my first month's salary in advance, and I completely believed him at the time. Since his business is in the township, far away from my school, every time I go to the unit, he arranges the driver to be responsible for the pick-up, and the classmates are very envious, and the vanity in my heart is constantly satisfied. Later, due to my carelessness, the phone was soaked in water. TWX can't reach me. He personally rushed to my school to find me, and when he knew that my mobile phone could not be used, he took me to the mall and bought me the latest mobile phone. I was so moved that I had nothing to say, but not only did he not say anything, but he also took out 5,000 yuan to me, saying that it was an emergency money, and that this money was placed here for me, and there would be something unexpected in the future. Use it right away. For such an empathetic man, I believe that any girl will aspire to it. ”

"So you mean you're in love with that TWX?" I asked:

QXD's cheeks suddenly flashed crimson. With some shyness, he said: "Yes, in fact, when I found out that there was 3,000 yuan in that bank card, I had a good impression of TWX." Later, he bought me a mobile phone and gave me emergency money, and he completely conquered me. In fact, the night he bought me the phone, everything happened to us. ”

"According to you, you don't regret falling in love with TWX?" I asked:

"To be honest, I didn't regret it at first. However, TWX has his own family after all, and every time he is with me, he has to hide it, and we can't blatantly watch movies together, and we can't go on casual dates and go shopping. I suddenly found out that my feelings for him were love, and love was very selfish, but he always thought that I was just a spice in his love life. At this time, I regretted it very much, I tried to leave him several times, and resolutely quit his internship. But when I got used to enjoying that kind of life without food and clothing, I couldn't adapt to it anymore when I went back to living that poor student life. At that moment, I knew the truth of 'it is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift'. QXD said expressionlessly:

"And what about later? I heard that TWX's wife once made trouble in the school, and you suffered this punishment for dissuasion. I went on to ask:

QXD said with a hint of cruelty: "Later? Later, although I left TWX's unit, I still maintained a relationship with TWX, ......" Before QWD could continue, I immediately stopped and asked: "Did you take the initiative to maintain this relationship or TWX?" QXD thought for a while and said, "I took the initiative to keep it, because I feel that I still can't do without him." ”

"Are you inseparable from him because you love him, or is it because you can't leave him for other reasons?" I continued to ask:

QXD was obviously a little flustered, and didn't even know how to place her hands, she finally chose to raise her glass and drink milk tea, and took a sip and a sip, obviously she didn't know how to answer. I asked, with a bit of sarcasm, "Don't you know how to answer?" QXD suddenly said resolutely: "I know how to answer, I like TWX, and I also like the material life he brings me." As for how TWX's wife knew about the two of us, I don't know, but she still found my contact information, called me every day, threatened me, and intimidated me. Then I changed my phone number, and she found my school, and you know what happened next. This incident has seriously affected my studies and life, so I wanted to change, and I made up my mind to leave TWX, and decided to stay away from that nondescript life. ”

"And what are you going to do next?" I asked with concern:

QXD shook his head and muttered, "I don't know what to do?" You're a psychiatrist, do you have any good advice for me? ”

I smiled faintly, took a sip of coffee, lit a cigarette, and took a puff, accustomed to the smell. Seeing that I didn't react, qxd asked a little anxiously, "Don't you have a suitable suggestion?" ”

I took another puff of cigarette and then said leisurely: "As far as your case is concerned, there is no suitable suggestion, only a conclusion and evaluation." QXD asked curiously, "What conclusion?" What's the rating? ”

I said lightly: "The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop!" ”

Tips about**:

1. The emergence of ** is a manifestation of social moral degradation, and it is a social phenomenon that emphasizes material and ignores spirit;

2. There are generally four reasons for becoming a **: money, future, love and physiological needs. Overall, the highest proportion of people become ** for money;

3. At present, domestic colleges and universities are in a state of "tolerance" for female college students to become the first university, and South China Normal University is the first university to say no to **;

4. The time when the phenomenon of "bag **" appeared in China is generally defined as the mid-90s of the last century. (To be continued.) )