371. Contradictions
371. Contradictions
Now the biggest knot in Yu Qiuhong's heart is the marriage of her eldest son Jiang Hongfei. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
The son's company is becoming more and more famous, and he is so busy that he can't see anyone all day long, but his family affairs have not made any progress at all. In his words, he was so busy that he didn't have time to talk about his girlfriend.
Jiang Hongfei is the eldest and his leg is injured again, so the couple pays more attention to and loves him.
But no matter how much they pay attention, it's useless.
Let him go on a blind date, he will either say that he is not available, or he will solve the problem by himself and let them not worry about it.
How could they not bother? People of his age are married and have children, and he is still alone, the busier he is, the more successful he is in his career, the more Yu Qiuhong and his wife feel that there should be someone to take care of him and care about him.
Although Jiang Hongyan is married, he often comes back every once in a while to complain to his parents, saying that he is not satisfied with this or that in the Lei family. This person is not good, and that person can't get along with her.
After Jiang Hongyan and Lei Youliang got married, although they lived alone outside in a yard that Jiang Hongfei bought for them, but her mother-in-law had retired and cooked for everyone at home, she considered for her son and daughter-in-law, saying that they worked hard, and they had to cook and eat by themselves when they went home, and it was even harder, so they let them come to the house to eat.
In this way, Jiang Hongyan is relaxed, and he can eat ready-made meals when he gets home from work, but after a long time, contradictions will come out.
Lei Youliang has an older sister and a younger sister, they are all married, but they still drag their families back to eat every day, they go back to their parents' house every day to eat, and give their mother 30 yuan for food every month, and Lei Youliang also gives 30 yuan.
At the beginning, Jiang Hongyan didn't know that she had to pay for food when she went home for dinner, she had her own salary income, and the huge amount of 1,000 yuan given by her brother when she got married, so she had money to spend, so she didn't pay attention to Lei Youliang's salary, when she went to work that day, she chatted with her colleagues and talked about who was in charge of the salary of the two people, Jiang Hongyan found out that her husband did not hand over the salary to her for safekeeping, which is the key to a woman's power at home.
So when he came home from work that day, Jiang Hongyan asked Lei Youliang about his salary income.
Lei Youliang said: "The salary of thirty yuan per month is all paid for food!"
At this time, Jiang Hongyan realized that she had not eaten in vain when she went to her mother-in-law's house to eat, and that she had paid her mother-in-law for food every month.
Later, when I got to a deeper understanding, I knew that the food expenses paid by my family were the same as those paid by my sister and sister's family.
How can it be the same? That's not fair! My sister's family has two children, a family of four people, my sister's family has one child, a family of three, and there are only two people in their family, she and her husband, why do two people have to pay the same food expenses as three people and four people?
Jiang Hongyan is psychologically unbalanced, her mother-in-law is partial to her daughter and son-in-law, and she doesn't want to see her as a daughter-in-law.
Jiang Hongyan refused to give up, and asked her husband and her to judge with her mother-in-law.
Lei Youliang quarreled with her for the first time.
Jiang Hongyan was angry and went back to his parents' home.
After Yu Qiuhong and Jianghushan learned about this, they did not support their daughter, but educated her. Let her not worry about a little thing, it's nothing to suffer a little loss between the family, and this matter is not a loss, they will also have children in the future, and they also want their mother-in-law to help bring it, so why bother to make trouble with her mother-in-law's family because of this little thing!
Although Jiang Hongyan couldn't agree with her parents' statement in her heart, she thought that it was not easy for her to find someone like Lei Youliang, and she couldn't break up with him because of this trivial matter, because she cherished him, so she no longer pursued this matter, but she always felt that her family was a loss.
Thinking like this in my heart, what I show is disrespect and even disdain for my parents-in-law and sister-in-law.
Gradually, the in-laws became more and more disgusted with Jiang Hongyan's arrogance and rudeness.
is also going home to eat, the eldest sister-in-law and sister-in-law don't do nothing, they go home directly, they go directly to the kitchen to help, and they are busy cleaning up after eating.
But Jiang Hongyan felt that he had paid for food, and he had contributed the most, so it was natural to wait for food when he went back, and never took the initiative to help do what he could.
This made the sisters and sisters very unaccustomed to Jiang Hongyan, but in order to calm things down, the mother persuaded the two daughters not to worry about her because they did a little more things, so although they were dissatisfied, they still endured it.
But what Jiang Hongyan said outside the words was not good. often condescendingly feels that her family is powerful and rich, and she is privileged in this family.
If my sister and sister don't say it, they will no longer give her a good face on their faces.
Of course, Jiang Hongyan also felt the cold face of the eldest sister-in-law and the younger sister-in-law towards her.
None of us is stupid, we are all holding a breath in our hearts, and after a long time, there will naturally be an outbreak.
That day, the eldest sister scolded the child for being lazy, saying that she could only eat and not work, Jiang Hongyan couldn't listen to it anymore, and felt that the eldest sister was referring to Sang and scolding Huai, and scolded her by scolding the child.
Jiang Hongyan was not to be outdone, scolded her, and by the way, shook out the fact that her family paid more food than the eldest sister's family, saying that the eldest sister's family was cheap and behaved. He also said that they were already spilled by their married daughters, and they came home to eat the old ones, and they were real parasites.
quarreled like this, it was not only the contradiction between Jiang Hongyan and the eldest sister, as the sister-in-law who was also a daughter, she also joined the battlefield, of course, in the end, Jiang Hongyan was weak and defeated.
She simply said that her mother-in-law's family bullied her because of the large number of people, and she wanted to go back to cook and eat by herself, and she would not come to her mother-in-law's house to suffer this idleness.
So Jiang Hongyan ran home alone, she cooked and ate at home alone, Lei Youliang couldn't erase his feelings, and still went to his mother's house to eat at the beginning, Jiang Hongyan said: "You can continue to eat at your mother's place, but your salary has to be handed over to me to subsidize the family, every penny in this family is from my mother's family, you can't sit back and enjoy it, you have to hand over your salary to me."
Inevitably, the two quarreled again because of this matter, Lei Youliang insisted on going to his parents for dinner, so the salary must be handed over to his mother as food expenses, Jiang Hongyan felt that he was his wife, and his salary had to be handed over to her for safekeeping.
In order to allow his son to live a normal life, his father-in-law and mother-in-law had to persuade his son to go home to eat and not to eat at their place anymore, and also persuaded his son to hand over his salary to his daughter-in-law for safekeeping.
Lei Youliang was helplessly driven back by his parents, and at the same time, he was also tired of quarreling, took his wife back, and did not obey his wife's words, so he obediently went home for dinner and handed over his salary to his wife to manage. finally extinguished the turmoil.