After practicing roller skating in the evening, Lin Wei changed her shoes and was about to go back with her roller skates, but Zhang Yunzhen suddenly stopped her. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

"Lin Wei, sit with me for a while."

Lin Wei saw that she didn't seem to be in a very good mood, so she responded.

The two put down their roller skates and sat by the flower bed, there was nothing to practice here at this time, only the night breeze blowing gently, bringing peace and comfort different from the noise of the day.

"Do you think girls shouldn't be too proactive?" After being silent for a while, Zhang Yunzhen suddenly asked her.

Lin Wei didn't know how to answer, her character is not very proactive, but Zhang Yunzhen has always been a person who will boldly pursue what she wants, and she can't say whether she should take the initiative or not.

Fortunately, Zhang Yunzhen didn't care about her answer, and only continued: "The first relationship was obviously chased by him first, but later he blamed me for being too active, forcing him to chat every day, making him feel too tired." ”

"It's better to leave early like this, and you will always meet something better." Lin Wei comforted.

Regarding her previous relationship, Lin Wei gradually understood it after they became acquainted.

Both of them are from the roller skating club, the boy is a senior with a somewhat melancholy temperament, Lin Wei has seen it a few times, he doesn't talk much, but he is not too cold to people. Zhang Yunzhen followed the boy to learn roller skating when he entered the club, and he was a master and an apprentice, and it didn't take long for the two to be together. Everyone guesses that most of them are Zhang Yunzhen who takes the initiative, because she has a cheerful and lively personality, while he is silent and melancholy, and it is obvious that girls are the ones who will take the initiative. Now Lin Wei was a little surprised when she heard her say that it was the boy who took the initiative.

"You can't see it, he doesn't seem to say much, and he always looks very melancholy," Zhang Yunzhen recalled, "But from time to time, he will make a little ambiguous hook on you, and he doesn't take the initiative to say, I was fooled by him like that." As a result, after we got together, I pestered him every day, saying that I was too clingy and too active, and I thought differently from him, but that was because he never took the initiative to tell me where he was doing, and always asked me to ask, and I was very insecure. ”

Not long after they dated, the two began to quarrel, I heard that the quarrel was quite strong, usually the boy kept avoiding, and Zhang Yunzhen kept asking him why he didn't reply to her message. Lin Wei also met once, that time was probably the first time they broke up, after the quarrel, the boy left by himself, and Zhang Yunzhen sat alone on the steps and cried for a long time. At that time, they didn't know each other very well, Lin Wei didn't step forward, just watched the others comfort her a few words, and then saw that she went back to the dormitory alone. At that time, I just felt that it was not worth it for a girl to cry so sadly for a boy who would only escape.

Then one night they practiced together, and suddenly they became friends for some reason. Then I heard her say that the two got back together not long ago, and they were still sweet when they said it, and it seemed to be fine, but within half a month, she cried and said that they broke up again.

"After the first breakup, I was still reluctant to him, so I ran to him again, and I don't know if he didn't find other girls to accompany him during that time, so he agreed to get back together. But he, as before, never took the initiative to call me and send me messages, and after a long time, I didn't think there was any need for this, so I just left it at that. ”

Zhang Yunzhen leaned her head on Lin Wei's shoulder, looked at the dance floor, and there was tiredness in her voice, "Later, I liked Lin Qiang and confessed to him, but he said that he liked gentle and quiet girls, and he felt that I was too active and too strong." ”

For Lin Qiang, she couldn't say anything, so she could only pat her lightly and whispered: "You are also very good, everyone likes it differently, and it doesn't mean that you are not good if he doesn't like it." ”

"I've always felt that I had to fight for what I wanted, even as a girl, but now, I don't know if I'm wrong."

Lin Wei listened to her confused voice, and suddenly thought of the conversation with Ji Ke two days ago.

She had forgotten what she had said before, but she remembered that he suddenly said in a tone with some loss: "Weiwei, you don't seem to take the initiative to say anything when you call?" "And with some caution.

She thought about it carefully, only to find that from the beginning of the two, she had always been passive, and she always needed him to find a topic first, otherwise the two would fall into silence.

"I don't know what to say," she explained, "can't I hear you say no?" ”

"I'll try to find a topic, but if it's just me taking the initiative all the time, it will make me worry about whether you don't want to talk to me, and it's easy to run out of things to say, right?"

She was used to listening to him, and she didn't think that he would be tired alone.

"I'm sorry."

"Needless to say, I'm sorry, I just want to get a response from you that gives me confidence. Every time I try to tell you everything I can say, but you don't say anything, I'm afraid that if we continue like this, we will become more and more speechless. ”

She suddenly understood that this was indeed a very dangerous thing, and if she didn't change, the two would be more and more distant from each other in the future.

"I'll try." She agreed.

From then on, she would try to tell him everything that happened every day, big or small, so that the two of them could have more conversations. There will be a moment of silence, but it's not exactly one person.

This is the first time she has taken the initiative to work hard, and compared to the previous passive acceptance, there are many different feelings.

“…… So I think that when you encounter something you like, you still have to take the initiative to fight for it, otherwise you will miss it, how uncomfortable it will be! ”

Lin Wei was in a trance, but suddenly heard Zhang Yunzhen say firmly, and her head left her shoulder, sitting up straight.

"Uh, well, it's better to fail than to regret." Lin Wei echoed, she really didn't hear what she said before, and she was still thinking about how Zhang Yunzhen suddenly figured it out.

"I'm not afraid of failure, isn't it just a man," Zhang Yunzhen waved his hand, "Anyway, there are many men, there will always be a girl who likes me!" ”

"There will definitely be." Lin Wei smiled slightly, she felt that if she was a boy, she would like such a girl, full of different self-confidence and vitality, which made people feel good when they looked at it.

"Okay, thank you for accompanying me, I feel much better," Zhang Yunzhen stood up and regained her previous energetic appearance, "Let's go back." ”

"Hmm."

Lin Wei responded, and also got up and walked towards the dormitory with her.

"The handsome guy I just talked about, very handsome, flight attendant, do you think I should go to him and ask for a phone......"

Zhang Yunzhen said excitedly as she walked, making people feel that the confused and sad person just now seemed to be just an illusion.

Lin Wei watched from the side, and felt that it was actually very cute for girls to take the initiative, at least they would not leave too many regrets in love.