It may be that Secretary Zhou Min was also very anxious during this period of time, that is, the total number of students was 203, and although there were already 158 people who signed up for this gathering, only 78 people had actually paid the fee, so a special invitation letter was issued:

Invitation to the 89th National Day Party of Linhuai Middle School

Dear Students,

Hello, 30 years have passed since I entered the school in 86. Thirty years of writing "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info quietly crossed nearly half of our lives. Looking back on the past, it is like a lifetime, and it is vivid.

Looking back at the time when we came from all over the world, with youthful dreams, and shouldered the expectations of our parents to come to Linhuai Middle School, we were fortunate to enter the same collective: the 89th class of Linhuai Middle School.

We have gone through our youth together, and we have unforgettable classmates.

Here we have been taught by teachers, read at the same table in the morning, accompanied by the same room, and shared weal and woe・・・・・

Too many memories, too many emotions.

Time flies, a farewell of nearly 30 years, in this parting years, we are the same as the beginning, from all over the world, and to all places. During this period, we have experienced more life choices and trainings, studying and starting a business, starting a family and raising children, ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and at the same time, we have also reaped success and joy.

No matter the ups and downs, no matter how long the time is, the students' affection is still sweet and sincere.

It is precisely out of this sentiment that last year, at the initiative of some students and led by several enthusiastic students, a preparatory group for the National Day Gathering was established, and the preparations are currently being carried out in an orderly manner.

Today, the preparatory team officially invites you to attend the 30th anniversary party of the 89th class of Linhuai Middle School to reminisce about the past, talk about the friendship of classmates, share life experience, and look forward to a better future.

How many thirty years can there be in life? Let us cherish this opportunity to get together, and your arrival will surely leave the best memories for yourself and your classmates.

Come on, let's meet in 2016 and relive those good times.

Linhuai Middle School 89th Class Reunion Preparatory Committee. ”

"If you really can't come, please understand more, who made our Fengyang people too real, they have been married for so many years, and they don't know how to save some private money, and they have a good heart, and they have always been willing to be a deputy, and they can't be the masters of major problems."

The second gang is telling the truth, through this party can indeed see a person's family status at home, the second gang can now be determined, in fact, every student wants to come to this party, but everyone has everyone's difficulties, if the family does not support, or the financial difficulties at hand, it is also more than enough and not enough, powerless, after all, will not be in order to meet with classmates, regardless of the stability and unity in their own family.

"Li Yenian, you've been saving money for a few years." It may be that Secretary Zhou Min also wanted to joke with the second gang, so he sent a message to him, so he asked.

"I don't have any private money, so I went to the bank for a loan for the party."

The second gang is also telling the truth, because the factory is too slow to pay wages, the second gang is now basically handed over every month, and only a small part of the living expenses and cigarette money are left around, although Zhu Mengru verbally supported, but there was no extra money for the second gang, so in desperation, the second gang remembered that when he used to work in Shagang, he once ran a credit card, and borrowed a thousand yuan in advance from the bank, in addition to paying the cost of the party, he also ordered two round-trip train tickets, because the second gang knewThe time of the party coincides with the peak period of the National Day, and it is not easy to buy tickets.

"It's true, and I also remind the students, just use the mobile phone number and ID card."

Of course, for the sake of the party, running to the bank to take out a loan, it doesn't seem to be a thing worth showing off, but what the second gang wants to say, as long as you have that classmate in your heart, you don't need any excuses, you will rush over, unless you don't want to come at all, and this is also to support the activities of a group, and sometimes you have to give up your small family to take care of everyone, of course, it depends on what it is.

"Thank you, thank you." The secretary Zhou Min sent two thanks in a row, which shows that her thanks are also sincere.

"Personal opinion: Those who come to the party are good classmates, and those who don't come, no matter what the reason, are all bad." This is the message sent by the classmate of the Tibetan Chenghui, and it can be seen that he is also joking with his classmates, because behind the news, there are several big smiling faces.

"When you enter the society, you must remember that the person who is alienated from you will let him be alienated, don't ask why, because what you hear is all excuses, let the person who is far away from you let him go with the flow, don't keep it, because the love that comes from you is too humble, the person who cares about you will never be willing to leave you, and the person who cherishes you will pay attention to you silently even if he turns around, we must get used to anyone's hot and cold, and we must also get used to anyone's gradual distancing. Because sincerity is always priceless, hypocrisy is always short-lived, let everything take its course. ”

This is the emotion sent by that classmate Shi Kliu, but the second gang remembers that this seems to be a sentence in a love quote, and it was used on the classmates at this time, and I don't know if it's appropriate or not.

"In fact, any decision made by a person has its reasons, and we can only choose to respect it." This is the opinion sent by Cao Jiayan.

The second gang is here to observe and analyze, through any little thing, everyone's views and opinions, in fact, it also reflects the person's heart of doing things, why some people will have a good fate, can make a fortune as a boss, don't feel that there is no law to follow, in fact, his words and deeds in daily life may be able to play a decisive factor, you don't believe this, there are many examples of a sentence and a small thing to change a person's fate.

A small salesman in a store, saw an old lady standing at the door hiding from the rain, greeted enthusiastically, served tea and water, and later became a famous big boss in the United States, because the son of the old lady who was hiding from the rain was a big boss, because the old lady liked and was optimistic about this small salesman very much, so she recommended this person to her son, so she was found to be reused, and gave full play to her talents, and finally achieved a great career of her own.

The same trivial matter, a young woman, in order to get a little water for the child in her arms to drink, went to a very good restaurant and wanted a disposable water cup to use, but was ruthlessly reprimanded, and unexpectedly had a chain reaction, because the young woman's husband was the teacher in the school opposite the restaurant, and the teacher listened to his wife's complaints, and vented to his students in class, and the students went home to spread it to their families.

In this way, it caused a strong reaction in the surrounding society, and for a while, almost no one was willing to go to that restaurant to eat anymore, because the owner of that restaurant was already notorious, and it was just a trivial matter about a water cup, but after how many times everyone exaggerated and expanded, it became a staff member in that restaurant, who could figure out the truth of the incurable AIDS epidemic.

Therefore, any trivial matter concerning a person's self-cultivation cannot be regarded as a trivial matter.

However, if you want to pay attention to the cultivation of one's speech and demeanor, some of the practice methods advocated by Buddhism are the most practical shortcuts.