338. Mediation

After Qin Xiaojuan left, Wu Danzhou passed in a daze. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

He was reluctant to break up with Qin Xiaojuan, and he didn't want to stay here anymore, let alone bow to his parents, thinking about it, he couldn't make up his mind.

Early in the morning, another couple came to the house.

The two quarreled, beat their heads and bled out, and went to the township office to ask for an explanation.

The woman's hao has no image, her hair is scattered, her nose is blue and her face is swollen, and the man is also quite embarrassed, and there are scratches on her face and neck.

There were also husbands and wives who fought here to ask for mediation, and Wu Danzhou once said puzzledly: "Between husband and wife, it has reached this point, and the relationship has disappeared!" Why don't you just go for a divorce and come here to ask for mediation, isn't it nonsense? ”

Township Chief Xiao criticized him, "You can't say that, it's normal for husband and wife to quarrel, who doesn't quarrel?" According to what you say, as long as the husband and wife go to divorce as soon as they quarrel, then all the couples in the world will not be able to get by. ”

Later, after mediation, the two really went back to live again.

So later, a husband and wife quarreled and found here, no matter how fierce the quarrel was, no matter how hard the fight was, Wu Danzhou didn't dare to easily say that they would divorce them, and after some painstaking mediation, in the end, they got back together and went back together to continue to live.

There are exceptions, a husband and wife, every other time quarrel, after the quarrel, do not go to the township office to mediate, people go directly to the divorce, just simply, at that time the divorce between the husband and wife, the people in the township office have to do work, persuade them not to divorce, the advice is invalid, both parties insist on divorce, in order to give them a divorce certificate, but only after the divorce, I heard that they remarried, at that time there were very few divorced people, everyone advocated not to divorce, already divorced, encourage remarriage, they themselves to remarry, to be praised on the township loudspeaker.

But this couple is very strange, treat marriage as a child's play, and not long after they praised it on the loudspeaker, they divorced again, and they didn't listen to any persuasion, and they insisted on leaving, and soon after leaving, they went to remarry.

The two of them divorced and remarried again and again, and they left and left not long after the remarriage, and they were never tired of it, but they let Wu Danzhou and their township cadres be busy behind their butts all day long.

Wu Danzhou felt that this was simply a waste of their time and energy, but this was their job, and it would not work if they didn't do it.

Early this morning, when the couple quarreled here, Wu Danzhou had just gotten up.

Township Chief Xiao has not yet come to work.

Wu Danzhou said to the couple: "It's not time to go to work yet, and Township Chief Xiao hasn't come yet, you wait a minute."

While Wu Danzhou was washing up and cooking noodles to eat, he listened to the couple continue to quarrel in the compound.

Before he could ask, he probably knew the reason for the couple's quarrel.

The couple has been married for 12 years, but last night, since they quarreled over the quilt, the man said that when he woke up in the morning, he found that he had not covered the quilt, and the quilt was wrapped up by his wife, so he complained that his wife was too selfish and cared about himself and ignored him, while his wife scolded him for sleeping like a wooden man, and he was not a child, he couldn't cover the quilt, and he wouldn't pull it by himself? Blame others.

Because of such a small thing, the two who have been married for 12 years quarreled early in the morning, and finally got into a big fight and went to the township office.

For a little trivial matter, the quarrel was turned upside down to the township office, Wu Danzhou felt incredible at first, what are these people getting married for? How could you live like this, if it is really like what Township Chief Xiao said, all marriages are like this, then marriage is really not interesting.

Later, after more contact, Wu Danzhou really found that many people in married life are really like this, they are still intimate and affectionate the first day, and the next day they quarrel so much that they want to strangle each other because of a trivial matter.

Wu Danzhou thought that if he and Qin Xiaojuan got married, would it be like this, he couldn't believe that two people who loved each other became like this because of trivial things in life after they got married.

Qin Xiaojuan won't be as unreasonable as these women, right? Qin Xiaojuan probably won't even quarrel.

Township Chief Xiao smiled and said: "After getting married, there is no one who does not quarrel, at least I have lived for so many years, and I have never seen a husband and wife who do not quarrel."

Wu Danzhou works here, what he is most afraid of is to deal with these disputes, he himself is not married, how to deal with it? What's more, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

But today, unfortunately, Township Chief Xiao had something to do temporarily and wanted to go to the county seat for a meeting, so he asked Wu Danzhou to deal with this matter alone.

The situation was pressing, and Wu Danzhou had to face it.

He took the couple to a mediation room dedicated to mediation.

There is a table in the middle and two benches at each end of the room.

The door was crowded with people watching the excitement.

Wu Danzhou asked them to sit on long chairs at opposite ends of the room, bounded by a table and not allowed to cross the middle.

Wu Danzhou said: "Give each of you ten minutes to accuse the other party of the crime, and when one party is accusing each other, the other party is not allowed to interject or speak, and it will be said when it is your turn to speak."

Everyone was very curious, Deputy Township Chief Wu dealt with the conflicts and disputes between husband and wife, neither first asked what was going on, nor did he persuade him with good words, let alone scold each other, but let them accuse each other.

This method is fresh, everyone will wait and see.

Wu Danzhou asked, "Did you two hear the rules I said clearly?"

Seeing that both of them nodded, Wu Danzhou pointed at the woman and said: "Respect women, ladies first, you say first, how bad your husband is, how bad you can't stand it."

The woman then began to say, "Let's go, let's go, let's talk, and after ten minutes, I still can't get enough of it."

Of course, in the middle, his husband wanted to interject several times, but was stopped by Wu Danzhou.

Wu Danzhou said: "Ten minutes have come, have you finished your words?"

The woman shook her head, "I'm not done!" ”

Wu Danzhou looked at his watch, "Give you another twenty minutes, and you will continue to accuse him of his crimes." ”

The woman said a lot of things again. After talking for more than ten minutes before stopping, Wu Danzhou said, "Finished?"

The woman finally said, "That's it."

Wu Danzhou also asked the man to accuse the woman of all kinds of evil deeds, and the man finished talking for about five minutes, and he repeated a few words in these five minutes.

Wu Danzhou asked the woman, "Do you think you can still endure his evil deeds?" ”

The woman said, "I can't stand it."

Wu Danzhou asked the man, "Can you change these problems that your wife has accused you?" ”

The man said, "No!"