Chapter 332 is really a dilemma
"My aunt, I have a word I want to say to you, don't be angry. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info”
The Second Gang also felt embarrassed now, because the Second Gang had already had another thought and decision in their minds, that is, they were going back the next morning.
"You children, I am so happy to come and see your aunt, how can I be angry with you." That aunt really still has the same temper as when she was young, and said heartily with a smile on her face.
"Hehehe, then I can just say, because the company's business is very busy during this period of time, and there is an urgent need for manpower, and the unit has a May Day holiday, and only approved my three-day vacation, and now it is the May Day period, and the tickets on the road are very difficult to buy, I am afraid that I will not be able to go back in one day, so I have to go back to catch up."
The two gangs pretended to be happy and explained.
While speaking, the second gang had already observed the smile on their aunt's face, and then disappeared, and their faces were frosty, and they all had a posture of crying loudly anytime and anywhere, but they seemed to hold back in the end, and complained a little reluctantly: "Since you have to leave when you get here, why do you want to come?" ”
The second gang originally wanted to make a joke and said, "How can I not come, you have been kind to us in the past, and we will repay it in your lifetime." But I was afraid that my aunt would misunderstand, so I had to change my words and say: "As soon as I heard that you were sick, we were all very sad and anxious, if we didn't come to visit, I really didn't feel at ease, now it's okay, we are relieved to see that you are not a big problem, and now I have just become a small family with others, and I also came here to report good news to you, don't worry about me in the future, at most there will be another year or two, and I can live a comfortable life. At that time, I will come over to accompany your old man well, hehehe. ”
Everyone also felt that the second gang's approach was a bit too hasty, and they all persuaded the second gang to live here for at least one day, but the second gang still decided to leave, the key is that the second gang can't see some sad scenes, today's aunt is no longer the heroic and sassy, talking and laughing, resolute and decisive strong woman of the year, but a person who may be tortured by illness anytime and anywhere, and the second gang is to think about it, and they all feel extremely sad and sad in their hearts. Maybe when the tears will not stop flowing, in case her aunt sees out at that time, she actually has an incurable disease, if she can't think about it at that time, and then there is any bad move, it will not be good, so the second gang adopts the way of escaping out of sight and out of mind.
It may be that everyone also feels that the second gang has made up their minds, and in turn comforts the aunt of the second gang, saying that there is no way to do it, the second brother is indeed very busy now, and when he is free, maybe he will bring the new second sister-in-law over for you to see, anyway, seeing that his aunt was almost happy again, the second gang decided to leave quickly, of course, he gave his aunt a thousand yuan before leaving.
When I returned to my cousin's residence, I naturally washed my feet and prepared to go to bed, and the cousin also asked to sleep with the second gang, because after all, I hadn't seen each other for so many years, and I wanted to have a good chat with my second brother.
Before my cousin went to bed there, the first thing he had to do was naturally to help the second gang contact a private car from Pancun to Nanjing, because after all, the transportation here is not as developed and convenient as the south, and if you don't contact it in advance, it may be very troublesome.
When the car thing finally settled, the cousin naturally asked in detail about the life experience and current situation of the second gang, as well as the future plans, at this time the second gang did not hide it, and said that although his current life is very poor, but after all, he has settled down, although his age is also a little old, but he still has to pursue his dream, that is, he is using his spare time to create, and it is close to more than 100,000 words, if he can be signed a contract, A writer's dream is just around the corner.
Of course, the cousin also told the second gang about the difficulties in his heart, that is, his mother has now had this disease, although the doctor said that it is hopeless, but he can't give up, and he is still trying to find some home remedies, but the cost of this disease is very amazing, every time he checks chemotherapy and dispenses, he has to talk about tens of thousands of bills, and it can be said that half of the 200,000 yuan spent on selling the house in only two weeks.
When I decided to sell the house, the cousin's daughter-in-law was strongly opposed, so now I am very unhappy, I am afraid that it will be the same as the situation of the second gang, that is, in order to take care of my own family, it may lead to the breakdown of the small family, but in order to take care of my own small family, if I don't care about my biological mother, my conscience will be condemned and I can't bear it, it's really a dilemma, and I don't know how to do it now.
All the two gangs can do is to instill in him their so-called two-two school thoughts, that is, as long as it is the true idea in your own heart, that is to do it, but do not advocate for the sake of your mother, you have to give up your own small family, after all, my aunt is also over seventy years old, and now after all, she has an incurable disease, as the saying goes, there is no power to return to heaven, that is beyond the reach of manpower, and she has to resign herself to fate, but as long as you find a way, when she is dying, reduce a little pain, I'm sure no one will think you're unfilial.
But their own small family, it's different, husband and wife with a child, after all, they are also very young, if you really want to because of your aunt's reasons, and your wife is separated, your aunt is under the nine springs, and she will not feel at ease, you say yes, sometimes you have to be a little bit, sometimes you have to think about yourself, otherwise, you may fall into pain for the rest of your life, as the saying goes, each has a destiny, that's the truth.
The two gangs also explained in detail to their cousins and emphasized that two is not a derogatory term now, but the way to survive in today's society, if you don't have two, then you think too much about the future, you can't survive at all, everyone has everyone's difficulties, as long as you do your best, you will feel at ease, the rest really don't have to think too much, no matter what you decide, you have to try to discuss with your wife, because only your own wife, is the one who can accompany you to the end of your life in the end.