Yesterday, the author received several phone calls and some text messages, all of which were called and sent by readers, and the words were sincere and sincere, which touched the author, especially two blind readers, one in Nanjing and the other in Xi'an, whose appearance made me firm in my belief to continue writing. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info also gave me a temporary plan to intersperse in today's update

Many people around me have told me: Xiao Jiang, it also consumes energy, why don't you write something else? For example, urban romance, such as cultivating immortal magic, if you write those, your current income can at least double! I was indeed shaken by these words, but then I gave up, why? With the support of your readers!

The vitality of a work lies in the truth, and making up nonsense and making up associations is not the ultimate goal of creating a work, nor is it the author's own "strength".

Many readers call or send text messages, and one of the most common questions asked: Is your profession a psychologist in the second department of psychological crisis intervention? How can I say this? If you say "yes", the "Hell" series has been written for so long, and it has been revealing its identity almost every day, and it has become a yes. If you say "no", after all, writing manuscripts and updating them every day, almost all of your energy is "hanging" on writing novels, and yes and no. No matter how I answered, there will always be some readers who will have some concerns, so I can only rummage through the cabinets, find out some of my previous manuscripts, and take the opportunity of these two days to present them, so that everyone can see if I am a psychologist or not. Is it a qualified psychologist?

The following manuscript was written by the author in 2009, when I was 28 years old. In terms of age structure. Comparatively impulsive. So in terms of dealing with people, it is still blunt, and during that time, there were more complaints, so the unit was angry, and let me deal with perverted cases. To this day, the author, who is over 30 years old, recalls the work deeds of 6 years ago, and still regrets it slightly, so in the text presented, the author still changed the names of the people involved in the case to letters. The protagonist in the article has no intersection or contact with the author at present, but the author believes that he has recovered smoothly. And has been able to participate in social work normally......

(The following is a case note from '09)

RT (Involving privacy, replaced with pinyin.) The same below) is 29 years old this year (editor's note: 29 years old here refers to 2009, and now it should be 35 years old), engaged in insurance business, is considered an elite in the insurance sales industry, works hard and seriously at work, and can speak well on weekdays, and the popularity in the unit is also good. But perhaps because he is a foreigner, he is nearly 30 years old and has not yet had a partner. Colleagues have also introduced a few to him, but I don't know why, I just don't see it.

To be honest, when RT first approached me, I thought it was selling insurance. As soon as I entered my office, handed me his business card, and began to learn about my income, financial plans, and future plans. How to put it: RT is a guy who will take advantage of every opportunity to show off his sales talents. After greeting each other, he finally said the purpose of his trip, "Mr. Jiang, I may be a pervert." ”

I was a little surprised at the time, these days, there are indeed a lot of perverts, but there are very few who can say that they are perverted. In addition to the fact that perverts contain too many derogatory meanings, it is more that many people's understanding of perverts is disgusting, and "respect" is far away.

"How do you think that?" I had an encouraging tone to motivate RT to speak up what he thought was the case.

"Teacher Jiang, I don't know what's wrong, I'm particularly interested in women's ** and stockings, every time I see a woman's ** and stockings drying outside, there is always an urge to take it for myself. And every time I talk about it ...... RT, it seems that I am too shy to speak.

"RT, why don't you say it? Do two big men still need to be secretive when they talk? Maybe what you think is embarrassing, everyone has actually experienced it, and there is no need to interrupt the conversation because of such shyness. I guess RT was too private to continue, so I continued to encourage:

"Hmmm! Teacher Jiang is right, I have found you, and there is no need to hide it! After speaking, RT lit a cigarette, took a deep breath, and then said with some nostalgic emotions: "I have a very strong ** need, almost once a day, and every time I need to use women's ** stockings to satisfy myself, so as to climax and ejaculate." ”

"Where did your female stockings and ** come from?" I asked softly:

"At first they were bought. I remember very well that the first time I went to the women's ** counter, in order to avoid embarrassment, I repeatedly claimed to the salesperson that it was a birthday gift for my girlfriend. But the newly bought ** always feels that it has not passed through the women's carcass and lacks that unique taste, so later it is usually by stealing the ** and stockings that others are drying outside. But every time I steal, I am always scared and afraid of being discovered. Now on the Internet, I also found that there is a kind of person who specializes in selling stockings, and it is the kind of stockings that are sold directly without washing, which is very suitable for me, so I bought a lot! RT said to me without reservation:

"Do you know what this behavior of yours is called in psychology?" I asked him:

"I've figured out if it's called a fetish (fetish refers to the repeated collection of objects used by the opposite sex, driven by strong sexual ** and sexual excitement. It occurs almost exclusively in men. The feud is something that is in direct physical contact with the opposite sex, such as a bra, **, etc., and touching and sniffing such items is accompanied by masturbation, or during sexual intercourse, the object is held by oneself or by a sexual partner, and sexual satisfaction can be obtained. Perverted psychology? RT said hesitantly:

"With this tendency, there is a very important time positioning here. How long have you been in this situation? Is there half a year? I asked intently:

"Half a year must have been, and I vaguely remember this behavior after graduating from college." rt recalled:

"And how do you socialize? Is there a problem with communicating with the opposite sex? I went on to ask:

"No! My popularity should be pretty good, and everyone has a lot of fun on weekdays. RT affirmed:

I was a little surprised. From the surface of RT. The conclusion of the fetish should be valid. But it's just that the conditions for the formation of fetishes are insufficient! The formation of fetishes is usually based on three conditions: 1. Sexual pleasure caused by accidental contact with intimate objects of the opposite sex in early adolescence, and after several repetitions, a conditioned reflex is formed; 2. There is an obstacle to communication with the opposite sex, and the last resort is to choose personal items related to the opposite sex to meet the needs; 3. Family environmental factors. Ears and eyes have been exposed since childhood. According to RT's description, his first contact with the fetish should have been after graduating from college, so he did not meet 1 and 3 of the three conditions, and RT did not seem to have any obstacles to communication with the opposite sex, so there was no possibility of condition 2. So how can RT have the perverted psychology of fetishism? Only by finding the root cause of the formation can we help RT to solve this problem. So I asked, "RT, do you remember the first fetish process?" ”

"For the first time?" RT muttered, and at this time one of the cigarettes in his hand was about to burn out, and RT took another one, and then slammed the burning cigarette butt into the ashtray. Take a bite. There was a little weirdness and obscenity on his face, and he thought about it for a while. said lightly: "That's when I graduated, I found a job in this insurance." At first, the income was not very high, so I had to seek a shared apartment in rent. The first person I shared was a girl who was 2 years older than me. It's not very pretty, but there is a feeling of charm, I like to wear black stockings and net stockings, ** it is also a very bright kind, worn in a light-colored T-shirt, it can be hidden from time to time, and it is very sexy. It's a pity that there is no shortage of men around her, although they live under the same roof, they can't get close to her. Later, by chance, I found out that she had forgotten to lock the door when she was out. Out of curiosity, I went into her room. Although she is a girl, the room is cluttered, and the clothes she has changed are thrown around, and I see that she is wearing sexy black stockings, net stockings, and bright ** on weekdays, and the bed is all over the place. I picked up a black stocking, smelled it, and the smell of sweat hit my nose, I didn't know what was wrong, not only did I not feel nauseous, but I felt a sense of excitement. Then I also asked about the bra,**, and then I unknowingly, I had the urge to **. Next, lying on her bed, smelling her stockings and ** with one hand, and unconsciously starting to ** with the other hand. After ejaculation, I left after hurriedly cleaning the 'battlefield', and I regretted it afterwards, and found that I didn't take the girl** or stockings or something with the sheep, such a messy room, less stockings or ** or something, I definitely can't find it! RT still seemed to be a little angry and said:

After listening to this, I could only smile "hehe", and then asked, "What about after that?" ”

RT continued: "The girl's room was just a coincidence, and then I found out that I couldn't enter her room, and I felt more and more depressed, and every time I was depressed, I went to the shampoo room to prostitute once, but the cost was too high, for me, a recent college graduate, I couldn't afford to pay for prostitution. Later, I fell in love with **, but every time**, I always thought of her wearing stockings, **, so I frequently went to buy some women's ** and stockings, and then stolen, until now I have been buying those second-hand stockings and ** specially sold on the Internet. Never get tired of it. ”

"Then why did you choose psychotherapy at this time?" I asked, confused:

"Because since I had this bad habit, I have also consulted various relevant materials, and many of the materials will explain that if patients with fetishes are not treated in time, they will affect their future married life, and they will also be seriously misleading about their sexual orientation. I was scared, so I thought I needed psychotherapy! RT said seriously:

After listening to RT's description, I finally knew the original reason why he had a fetish: forming sexual repression in a specific environment, and causing perverted sexual catharsis without reasonable sexual guidance.

The treatment of "fetishism" is still lagging behind in China at present. If I were to be treated, it would be nothing more than behavior modification and aversion therapy, and the effect would not be obvious. What's more, the patient in front of him is almost 30 years old, and the history of fetishes has been 6 years. The therapeutic effect is even more minimal. (The sooner a fetish is treated, the easier it is to be corrected.) Personally, I am more opposed to psychotropic medication. Because in terms of the current level of medical development in China. There are no psychotropic drugs that specifically target "fetishness".

Since RT is currently this fetish behavior is difficult to treat. Then I need to judge, will RT's behavior harm society and RT's future marriage? If RT's fetish behavior will neither harm society nor society in the future, then I can understand that such a fetish is acceptable if it is not treated. The only possibility for fetishists to endanger society is to steal, rob (snatch) and other people's private belongings by illegal means caused by fetishes. Does RT have such a situation? He did have a history of stealing, but because he was afraid of being discovered and ruining his future, he had gone from stealing to buying from others through the Internet. From this point of view: on the one hand, he knew the dangers of stealing; On the other hand, he has already obtained the source of the "things" he needs. Therefore, in terms of subjective will, it no longer has such a harmful social nature. And what about his future marriage? Will the marital life be extinguished in name only because of the tendency of the fetish? Actually, you don't need to think about it. RT's fetish complex is a second-best sexual catharsis. Subjectively speaking, he will have a strong interest in "things" after he has a good impression of the opposite sex. His initial prostitution was due to lack of funds and finally gave up, which shows that the attraction of the opposite sex itself is far greater than the attraction of "things" to him. 6 years of fetish experience is caused by the absence of a suitable sexual partner, so judging from this point, RT's fetish behavior will be terminated after having a regular sexual partner. The biggest problem with RT now is that frequent masturbation (once a day) can have some impact on the quality of sex in the future. What I need to do now is how to make his frequent masturbation less.

At the end of this chapter, I would like to write a few tips for some fetish patients, hoping to give some tips to fetish patients:

1. Fetishes have nothing to do with morality and willpower. So patients with fetishes do not need self-blame and low self-esteem.

2. The "things" of fetishes have a wide range. Not only for the opposite sex, stockings, but also for jewelry and a specific body part of the opposite sex.

3. Patients with fetishes are usually men.

4. Transvestite can also be a type of fetish.

This is the first case in which the author came into contact with perverts. Fetish is the most typical case of perversion, very common, a slight fetish, may be very interesting in life, especially between husband and wife lovers, into the fetish complex, will improve a lot of life index, but if it is too "rendered", then it needs to be treated urgently, and many times there will be criminal and public security incidents.

This manuscript has been preserved for many years and is still in my document, so how important is it to me?

A little bit about my profession, this is an answer to some readers, I wonder if everyone is satisfied with such an answer? There are still many manuscripts of such cases, if you like to see such cases, you can leave a message to inform, and the author will insert them at the right time in the future......

Let's get down to business, continue Jiang Kai's story about the tragedy of the fishermen......

Huo Yougen is one of the many fishermen who have signed contracts with the manufacturer, this family of four could have been quite well-off, and suddenly returned to the pre-liberation period, do you dare to eat the fish that was called? The crossover is not enough...... Some people say that you can take those deposits to the market and buy them? That can only say that the person does not understand the market economy, and he can't pay the difference here, where is the fish in the market?

Huo Changsheng went out to fish at the earliest and came back at the latest every day, so hard that he had not completed one-third of the manufacturer's orders. Seeing that it was going to be over, in the face of the continuous urging of the manufacturer, the Huo family could only prepare for the worst - lose money!

In the face of at least double the compensation, the entire Huo family is completely in a dilemma, just a little better life, suddenly fell to the bottom, that day was full of wind and rain, there was no chance to go out to fish, the Huo family went to bed after dinner early, maybe the sleep is the most down-to-earth!

At about 19 o'clock in the evening, there was a "grunt" on the bow of the boat, and the experienced Huo family woke up one after another, and experience told them: There were people on the boat. Huo Changsheng was like the head of the family, and he took the lead in walking out of the cabin to see who was outside......

After about two minutes, Huo Changsheng comprehended an old man in white into the cabin and introduced him to his family: "This is a master who can help us get out of the predicament!" ”

The whole family didn't understand, what could this gray-haired old man in front of us help us? It's too old to fish, and it's too little to give money.

The family looked at Huo Changsheng with questions, meaning how can this old man help us? Huo Changsheng said to his family: "Don't worry about the other people first, see if there is anything else to eat, this master hasn't eaten yet!" (To be continued.) )