030 Psychological counseling

After the old lady of the Guogong Mansion left, Man Yan planned to investigate the rumors thoroughly, but was stopped by the old lady. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info grandmother means that it will not take long for the rumors to subside. Man Yan thought about it, anyway, no matter whether there were rumors or not, grandmother was the same to Meng's family, and she tried her best to take care of the places she could, and she would not be particularly affectionate. She was bent on planning a vegetarian restaurant.

Bao Umbrella has not slept well since he went to the "Puju" in Hidden Lane. She is the only one in this vegetarian restaurant who shuttles through the front hall and backyard, and has not yet seen guests. The third lady always said that she was not in a hurry, but since this restaurant had been opened, there was no business at all, so she was not in a hurry and was only used to comfort her.

At first, the master asked her to be the chef of the vegetarian restaurant, she was so excited that she couldn't sleep, but now she has low self-esteem, and she is afraid that her inability will harm "Puju". Gradually, the umbrella became a little self-pitying.

See you again a few days later, Man Yan saw the green shadow under the umbrella's eyes and the blisters at the corners of her mouth, and decided that she had to do a psychological consultation. This was the first time she wore it, and it was also the first time in her life that she had a real clinical psychology practice.

The third lady bolted the door, and the two entered the inner room. The smoke opened the curtains, and the sunlight poured in through the hollow windows, casting mottled light and shadow on the ground, which looked like a vivid sense of brokenness.

The two stood facing each other, Man Yan wanted to find the Treasure Umbrella's gaze, and the Treasure Umbrella was staring at the flowing light and shadow on the ground in a daze.

Man Yan first shouted the name of the umbrella, and the umbrella was so frightened that the three souls lost one soul, and the first few wanted to lower into the collar. However, this shout was like a cold water poured down, pulling back the mind of the umbrella, and she was at least not in a trance.

Man Yan swept away his usual affinity and became fierce. "Bao Umbrella, you are like this, I don't dare to let you go to Puju again."

The umbrella writhed helplessly at the hem of his coat, biting his lower lip. "Third Miss, slave maid...... Slaves and maids have failed your trust, and slaves and maids deserve to die. With that, he fell to his knees.

"Tell me, where the hell are you?"

"The slave maid has ruined the matter of the third lady."

The sound of manyan gradually softened and became melodious. "This vegetarian restaurant hasn't even opened, why are you ruining my business?"

Only then did the umbrella raise its head and blink slowly a few times, revealing confusion in his eyes. She couldn't tell what was wrong. Oh, not right now, she's worried about bad things in the future. "Slave maid, slave maid is worried about the future."

Man Yan shook his head gently, this is one of the typical psychological self-protection mechanisms - rationalization, in order to alleviate the tension and anxiety caused by the conflict of motivation or failure and frustration, the human subconscious will find some reason to defend itself, the most common subconscious decoration is to use the fear of the future to escape the present. In fact, the root of Baoyu's fear is the present and the present, because she is not confident, afraid of the frustration of failure, afraid of being punished, so she hides in the shell after that fear to seek self-refuge. As everyone knows, I can't take care of it now, and what will I talk about later.

Man Yan Zhengse asked, "Bao Umbrella, what did I ask you to do in Puju?" Do you remember? ”

"Cooking."

"yes, so what are you doing now? You didn't study the cooking well, but you didn't worry about it, and you were about to get sick. Is this contrary to our previous wishes? "Seeing the treasure umbrella, it seems to have an understanding, and Manyan has added another fire." What you should do is to find new ingredients, dishes, or make new ways to eat the dishes you used to eat, instead of worrying about whether there is a bookkeeper in the store, whether the shop will have customers, and whether there will be business in the future...... These shouldn't be your concerns, you know? There is only one thing you have to do, which is to cook and cook, study and try more, keep improving, and make your cooking skills to the next level. Got it? ”

Bao Umbrella nodded repeatedly, "Understood, understood." ”

Man Yan thought, anyway, he has already lectured, it is better to do it in one step, and it will save you more trouble in the future. "I'm going to sell a dish for twenty taels of silver, what do you think?"

Bao Umbrella was so frightened that she swallowed her saliva, twenty taels of silver, enough to buy her several times. I didn't say what I wanted for a long time.

I knew it would be such a reaction. Man Yan asked, "Have you eaten those dishes before?" The pumpkin vines and sweet potato vines we made, are they delicious, and how much do you think they are worth? ”

Bao Umbrella thought about it for a long time and shook his head: "I haven't eaten it, it's delicious." How much is it worth The slave maid said badly, the slave maid ...... Where did you get all that money? ”

"That's it. No one had ever tried it, and no one knew that pumpkin vines tasted like this. The Puju we opened is not selling vegetables, but selling fresh. Manyan returned to his usual pleasant face, and tried his best to empathize with the umbrella. She spoke coherently, but not quickly. In order to alleviate the tension of the umbrella, she occasionally walks slowly around the room, the volume is high and low, and controls the rhythm of the whole conversation throughout the whole process. "You don't have any silver, more is the silver of the dignitaries and nobles who have no place to make it, twenty taels to eat a plate of dishes that have never been eaten, and it is delicious, do you say it is worth it?"

Hearing what the third lady said, Bao Umbrella felt that it was very reasonable, if she had a lot of silver, she would be willing to eat it.

"So, your job is to be happy and make every dish. In the future, Puju will open the door for half a day every day, from noon to Shenshi, you can cook up to ten dishes a day, if there are guests who have to order more, the silver will be doubled. It's my rule, remember? ”

The umbrella didn't understand how this rule sounded like a bully, but he nodded obediently.

Man Yan knew her confusion and said slowly: "You have been cooking for two months now, think about it, is every dish delicious?" Which dish is the best? ”

Bao Umbrella replied without thinking this time: "That salt-and-pepper mushroom is the most delicious, the slave maid and the other sisters think so, and the mushroom makes the meat taste that the young lady said." ”

"But do you know why that dish is the best?"

Umbrella shook his head.

The sound of Manyan suddenly was as soft as water, like a spring breeze. "Do you remember that day? Remember slowly, don't worry. ”

"On that day, I made fried bamboo worms on Zhuangzi, and I made salt-and-pepper mushrooms after returning from Zhuangzi. We sang the songs taught by the young lady in the carriage and laughed and laughed, and that was the first time I was so happy. After returning home, I asked the third lady about the real method of salt and pepper, and the third lady taught the slave to make salt and pepper mushrooms. The first few times it didn't work, and in the end, it took nearly two hours to make the plate that came out before the third lady was satisfied. Lotus's sisters all said it was delicious, like eating meat. ”

"That's it, you have to be in a good mood when cooking, and if you are happy, the food will be delicious. Your emotions will be transmitted to your guests through taste. In the future, you should try to keep the mood of making salt and pepper mushrooms that day, feel curious and interesting, be happy when cooking, and we will feel comfortable eating the dishes you made. ”

Then Man Yan changed his perspective and said, "Why do I stipulate that you cook a maximum of ten dishes a day?" Because you are still young and your strength is limited, if you do too much, your body will not be able to bear the load, and your heart will feel tired, and the taste of the food will not be perfect. Although our Puju dishes are expensive, but the silver is not in vain, expensive naturally has a reason, if it is not perfect, the guests will not become a waste of money? ”

The treasure umbrella was unraveled by the third lady, and the clouds in her heart faded a lot. Still, she had a doubt. "Third Miss, is it true that all the dishes are sold for twenty taels of silver a plate?"

Man Yan pulled her little nose and smiled, "Scare you." The price of the dish depends on the ingredients, pumpkin vine and sweet potato vine, a grinding vegetable of five taels of silver, and one or two silver for other ordinary ingredients. I'll get a menu in two days and you'll know when the time comes. However, in the future, you will have to run around the fields with Xiu'er, find more rare vegetables to make, and add them to the menu later. ”

Twenty taels of vegetables before, it was really amazing, this will become five taels when I hear it, and the treasure umbrella is finally cloudy and foggy and the rain has cleared, and he replied loudly: "Yes, the slave and maid obey the order." ”

Man Yan picked a big pear from the heart box and handed it to her, "Eat a pear to reduce the fire." Don't worry, Pu Ju's account office junior will be sent over tomorrow. ”

The treasure umbrella is slightly flustered, how can her master be so smart, like a fairy, he knows everything and can solve anything. From then on, the first person in the heart of the umbrella was none other than the third miss of the Fu family, and the opening was "Listen to the third lady, it will definitely not be wrong." ”