Don't be shy about expressing it

China's thousands of years of civilization history have always advocated a restrained and subtle style of doing things. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 infoThis has a lot to do with the character and cultural heritage of our nation. Orientals are pragmatic and don't like to talk about it. It is customary to do it silently, so that the other party can slowly experience and feel. Westerners, on the other hand, prefer to express themselves in a straightforward way. As a result of this cultural difference, people from both the East and the West often feel uncomfortable with each other when communicating with each other.

There's nothing wrong with a subtle style, but the problem is to know when to express it in a subtle way; When to communicate in a direct way.

Sometimes, if you don't say it, but let the other person speculate, it will make things worse. Working in the same team, not everyone will be able to understand your opinions and opinions. If you are ashamed to express it, the efficiency of the whole team will decrease, and the cohesion of the whole team will be poor.

In addition, in the expression of love, Eastern and Western people also show completely different expressions. Westerners can say "ILOVEYOU" as simple as that. Oriental people are subtle, spitting and wanting to let go and receive, whether they are affectionate, ambiguous, or have other ideas. In short, it is incomprehensible, and it makes people feel that the line between love and non-love is very difficult to grasp. Because of the way of expression, it was originally a love affair and was likely to miss a good marriage.

Therefore, it is very important to be subtle and introverted to be relaxed and moderate, and to properly grasp the proportion. Sometimes it is very necessary to express one's desires and thoughts boldly.

We can't ignore expression, we have to dare to express it.