"Hui'er, your heart is upset. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info" Xu Ze, who was focusing on writing the last stroke, put down the pen in his hand, and saw that Xu Hui's mind was a little flustered, so he asked, "Still thinking about today's things?" ”

In order to win the strong support of Xu Ze's ally, Liang Kui can be said to have done enough to arrange the best courtyards for the Xu family, not to mention the servants of the Liang family in these courtyards, and let the servants and maids who came with the Xu family of the Shangdang to serve as a sign of sincerity. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with saying some things in the room.

Xu Hui knew this, so he nodded, but didn't say anything more.

As Xu Ze said, her heart was not only very chaotic, but also a little irritable, but she couldn't tell why for a while, she only felt that her brain was messed up, and she couldn't calm down at all.

"Liang Kui's continuation of the Huo family, according to the generation, you should call your cousin." Xu Ze lightly threw down this sentence, and saw that Xu Hui raised his head in some shock, first for a moment, and then showed a look of sudden realization, Fang asked calmly, "The circle of the family is big and big, and small is small." The relationship between in-laws and teachers and students is intertwined, and memorizing these complex genealogies and understanding each other's preferences is a compulsory course for noble women. Only in this way can you be a qualified eyeball, and in your previous life, you must have been trained and taught by Yun Niang. Why have you forgotten all about your grandmother's family in just six years? ”

Xu Ze married his wife Pingyang Huo, and gave birth to Xu Rong, Xu Yun and Xu Pan, Liang Kui's continuation was also born in Pingyang Huo, and she was the granddaughter of Xu Hui's grandmother's brother, and it was not an exaggeration to shout her cousin. Even though Xu Hui's grandmother has passed away for many years, the relationship between the two families is not as ordinary as before, but when Xu Ze points out the feelings of this matter, Xu Hui has no awareness of this at all, and it is extremely abnormal to completely regard the other party as a stranger. For her, who can see ten lines at a glance, let alone six years, even if it is sixteen years, this kind of low-level mistake should not be made.

Xu Huigang wanted to say something, but Xu Ze said again: "After witnessing what happened to Fang Cai, you look down on them, right?" ”

"I ......" Xu Hui was silent for a moment, Fang nodded heavily, and said his thoughts without hesitation: "Yes, granddaughters look down on them!" ”

When Xu Ze heard this, he smiled lightly: "So, are you like Yun Niang, because you think that the methods of both are too crude and inferior, so that smart people can see through them at a glance, so you look down on them, or do you think that they shouldn't do this at all?" ”

"I ......"

"You don't think they should do that."

Without waiting for Xu Hui to say anything, Xu Ze's voice and tone were already very determined, and he answered for this granddaughter.

When it came to this, Xu Hui was calm, she raised her head, looked at Xu Ze's eyes, and said directly: "My granddaughter really thinks so, no matter how fierce the family is, she shouldn't let outsiders see jokes, let alone borrow outsiders' hands to ......."

"So, for a woman, which is her real home, her mother's family or her mother-in-law's family?"

Xu Ze's question was too sharp and too difficult to solve, and Xu Hui was silent again.

For people like her who have vowed not to marry, there is no need to hesitate at all, but for the vast majority of women, most of their lives belong to another surname, another family, especially after having children, what will they choose? If the elder sister has her own children, her husband's family is opposed to the Xu family...... Yes, her heart was troubled, and she despised the woman who had trapped her mind in the back house, and who had her husband and children as her heavens, because she was deeply afraid that one day her cousins would be her enemies for the same reason.

Seeing that Xu Hui had figured it out, Xu Ze gently patted her shoulder and woke up her granddaughter who was subconsciously going to the extreme path: "You are not only afraid of the separation of your future sisters and even turn against you, Hui'er, you also denied your former self." ”

"Grandfather, I'm ......"

"Everyone wants others to only see their spring breeze and forget the time when he was cold and lost power, which is human nature. is like Liang Kui, his first wife was born in the Qiaojun Huan clan, twenty years ago, Liang Kui was considered to have climbed the other party. Because of this, the husband and wife get along very badly, and even Liang Kui doesn't like the children born to him very much. If the Huan clan can always suppress the Liang clan, Liang Yuan's position will naturally be as stable as Mount Tai. Ten years ago, due to a big mistake and the death of several important people in the family, the Huo family was slightly in decline, which gave the Huo family an opportunity. ”

After that, Xu Ze stared at Xu Hui's eyes, word by word, and said extremely clearly and solemnly, "A man can be ruthless, can be flowery, can be shameless and cunning, and can be insidious and vicious, but he can't be as unclear as Liang Kui." From this point of view, the husband I chose for you is undoubtedly excellent, so, Hui'er, there is nothing to be ashamed of, let alone negated, for the death of your previous life, you just lost to the unpredictable situation, that's all. Everyone has their own way of life, and no one can look down on other people's lifestyles, let alone look down on themselves who they once were. You have to remember that whether it is a gentle and noble girl in the previous life or an immature military general in this life, it is you, the person Xu Hui of the Shangdang. The difference between the past and the present life is not in understanding the so-called future, but only in changing the way of living. If you can't face up to the pain caused by failure, and only remember the sense of glory given to you by flowers and applause, no matter how smart a person is, he will only end up with nothing. ”

"Grandfather ......"

"Zihou has always lived in the past, always feeling that he can't do anything, obviously as a Taishou, but he is submissive to me in everything, and he doesn't even dare to have his own opinions. Liang Kui only looks at the present, favors the continuation of the strings, and treats the eldest son coldly, and the brothers will fight for power in the future, which will be the end of trouble. Xu Ze stood with his hands in his hands, looking out the window, his voice was faint, but it was engraved in Xu Hui's heart, "One of them can't face the past, the other can't grasp the present, and they can barely be regarded as mean." But they are men, and the mediocrity can be accepted, recognized and convinced by others, as well as loyal and brave people, and the allegiance of many wise men, but you can't. ”

You are a woman, and if you want to be recognized and surrendered by men, you must do better than good men. Whether it is the mind, style, means, or consciousness.

Xu Ze's words had the power to stir up deafening, making Xu Hui speechless for a long time. Seeing that her expression was a little empty, Xu Ze softened his voice and said slowly: "You go and think about what you want to do and what you should do in this life." But it's important to remember that we are all human beings, and we can't be perfect, let alone completely control other people's lives. Even if in the future, Susu, Yuan'er and others embark on the path you fear, after defeating them, it is enough to leave a way for their children to live, why look ahead and be afraid? If you want to be truly recognized by others, you need to always forget that you are a woman, and you need to remember all the time that you are a woman. ”

PS: I think that if you are reborn, you should first not examine who has harmed you, but you must reflect on what you have done and face up to your past mistakes, so that you can better improve. After Xu Hui was reborn, her thoughts were too extreme, and this kind of thinking was subconscious, not intentional by her, so it was more dangerous, but this time she finally got on the right path!