Chapter 332: Comforting the Lotus

But on the other hand, they also know that if this kind of thing is really exposed and let relatives and friends know about it, then when they see this woman who has been QJed, they will point fingers again, as if this woman has done something unseemly. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

For such a thing, I am afraid that it is the most unsolvable problem that tortures women for thousands of years.

Many women, when they encounter such a thing, generally prefer to endure it silently by themselves rather than report the crime. After all, when they report the crime, they put themselves in a position of public criticism, making their lives even more unbearable.

It is precisely because of this that some women choose to indulge the gangsters and swallow the bitter fruit after being sexually assaulted, which also fuels the arrogance of criminals and makes them feel that even if they do something to hurt women, they dare not report the crime, and can only let them go unpunished.

To solve this problem, we must all change our thinking and concepts, and no longer let traditional ethical thinking shackle our minds. It's really an incredible thing that a woman has been sexually assaulted, and she herself is not at fault, but the world has always failed to forgive them, as if they had made their own mistakes.

The things between men and women, if you put it simply, are really very simple, nothing more than between men and women, sex, behavior. But if it's complicated, it's really complicated. It's so complicated that you can't figure it out at all.

The reason for this is that human beings, sexuality, behavior is a subjective psychological participation in the behavior, and human psychology is not so easy to express. Especially women's, sexual, psychological, is so complicated that even they may not be able to understand it.

When a woman says she is willing, she may be unwilling. When a woman says she doesn't want to, it may also be willing, and you say whether she is willing or unwilling. When it comes to men and women, men don't seem to be very constrained by some traditional ideas, and they can do whatever they want. His actions are an expression of his heart.

But the psychology of women is very strange, they are often some 'duplicity' characters. At this point, it is difficult for them to express their feelings as directly and openly as men. All of this requires men to slowly understand their thoughts and ideas when they are with women, and to know what they really think.

From QJ to MY, it's really difficult to really explain and figure out all these things. This kind of thing may be very helpless with the law. The law is easy to identify in terms of other crimes, but in terms of sex and crime, there are some people who have no one to deal with. It is very difficult to fully explain this kind of thing between men and women, and even philosophical methods seem to be a bit inadequate.

And the most difficult sex and crime to solve within men and women is undoubtedly QJ in marriage. It can be said that the difficulty of identifying this kind of crime is more difficult than that of any kind of crime. Because the law already regulates sex between husband and wife, the act is legal.

Now it is really a very difficult thing to determine that certain sexual and behavioral behaviors of a husband towards his wife are illegal. Because, for a woman's sexuality and psychology, it is impossible to collect evidence. If her oral statement alone is used as evidence for the results, then there must be many men in the world who have already committed QJ crimes.

But in any case, QJ in marriage is also a crime, and there should be a legal basis, although the law is still blank in this area, but I believe that in the near future, some legal basis will be reformulated in this area.

Tian Feng also knew that if this kind of thing was really exposed, it would be detrimental to Wu Lianhua's political future. However, for Chen Hongyun, a bastard, he still felt that at this time, he couldn't let him go.

Thinking of this, Tian Feng just said: "Sister Wu, you don't want to divorce him!" This is arguably the best chance yet! Although there is no clear legal basis for QJ in marriage, as long as the husband and wife have been separated for a long time and have determined that there is no relationship, if the husband has sex and behavior with his wife again, it can be recognized as QJ. ”

Tian Feng still understands a little bit about this matter. Now seeing that Wu Lianhua has been hurt so much, she also wants to come up with some ideas for her.

When Wu Lianhua heard this, she shook her head again and said: "Forget it, even if I want to divorce, I don't want to divorce in this way, if I leave like this, then I don't want to get married again in the future." ”

Wu Lianhua didn't want to use this matter to divorce, otherwise, she really wouldn't be able to find a suitable man to marry, after all, other men would also care about what happened to her.

"Okay, then it's up to you, that's all I can say. I just hope that you don't feel too sad, think about it, he is your husband, this kind of thing is reasonable, if you think like this, you may not be so uncomfortable. ”

Tian Feng saw that Wu Lianhua was unwilling to sue his husband, and he couldn't say anything more, after all, this kind of thing is really a headache, and for women, when they encounter this kind of thing, especially this kind of thing in marriage, it is even more helpless.

"Well, so be it! Sister Wu, you'd better buy another house to live in! If you still live with Chen Hongyun, a bastard, then of course he will still hurt you. Tian Feng persuaded again.

"You have a point, I'll go outside tomorrow and buy another house. The reason why I didn't live outside was because of my son. I really don't want my son to know that there is no relationship between me and Chen Hongyun.

The reason why I have been living with Chen Hongyun for the past two years is because he usually lives in hotels and does not come back a few times a year. Even when he came back sometimes, he didn't pay attention to me at all, and I felt that he didn't like me at all, and he must have liked the young and beautiful lady in their hotel.

So, I haven't had any worries about this, and I just feel that he is already showing me old and has no interest in me. ”

Speaking of this, Wu Lianhua suddenly sighed again and said, "It's all my fault, I was so beautiful yesterday, maybe it made him tempted." Otherwise, he might not be interested in me. ”

"Sister Wu, you don't have to blame yourself so much, you are not wrong to clean up and dress up beautifully! You're still beautiful, aren't you old! The reason why Chen Hongyun did such a thing to you is completely normal, and it has nothing to do with whether you dress up or not. ”

Tian Feng listened to Wu Lianhua's words, and comforted her again, asking her not to blame herself for the past.

Wu Lianhua listened to Tian Feng's words, and suddenly burst into tears, she wiped her tears and said, "Really, am I still beautiful!" So how about I compare to the beautiful woman next to you. ”

Tian Feng knew that Wu Lianhua was talking about Li Wenya, so he also smiled and said: "Sister Wu, how can you compare with her, how old is she, how old are you." When she reaches your age, she will not be as beautiful as you. ”

"Huh! Is it! You're not going to make me happy, are you? Wu Lianhua listened to Tian Feng's words, and said with a smile. Of course it's true, don't believe it, you look in the mirror yourself. Tian Feng looked at Wu Lianhua and said.

Wu Lianhua listened to Tian Feng's words, then sighed again and said: "Well, don't look at it, you're right, for a man who has no humanity, it doesn't make sense to dress up or not, he just wants to hurt you, it's useless for you to do anything." ”

Tian Feng listened, and then said: "Yes! For this kind of man, he should really be beaten up. Hey, Sister Wu, otherwise, you can't report the case, then I'll teach him a lesson for you! Anyway, I've beaten him before, so I might as well beat him again. ”

When Wu Lianhua heard this, she sighed and said, "To be honest, I really want you to beat him up in front of me to get out of my heart." But think about it, what kind of problem can this solve! If you beat him up in front of me, he'll take double his revenge on me. So, forget it, a guy like him who has no humanity, he does everything. ”

Tian Feng listened, so he had to sigh again and said: "To be honest, my hands are a little itchy now, this Chen Hongyun is against us everywhere, my hotel, and because he has now closed the industrial and commercial bureau, my resentment towards him is actually no less than yours." ”

When Wu Lianhua heard this, she also looked at Tian Feng and said, "That's right, this bastard is really too bad." But right now, we can't do anything about him! Forget it, let's take care of him in the future! ”

"Well, okay, that's it, Sister Wu, you can hurry outside tomorrow to find another house! If the money is not enough, I can still lend it to you, and I also know that you officials, especially good officials like you, I am afraid that you will not have much money in your hands, and now that the house is so expensive, if you want to pay the full amount, I am afraid that you will not be able to take it! ”

Tian Feng also thought about a lot of things for Wu Lianhua, and even thought about the need for money to buy a house.

Listening to Tian Feng's words, Wu Lianhua was moved, thinking that she and Tian Feng had only met a few times, and they couldn't talk about a deep friendship at all, but they were willing to lend themselves money to buy a house, what a good young man.

But Wu Lianhua was a little embarrassed to use Tian Feng's money to buy a house, so she said: "I still have some money in my hand, and there is no problem with paying a down payment." Isn't buying a house now all about buying a house with a loan? There are a few that are paid in full, can I do the same! You don't have to worry about it. ”