Chapter 344: Prepare Early
In other people's homes, they are afraid that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and husbands and sons are often sandwiched between them to make sandwich biscuits. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
But in their family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too good, which also makes him a little sad, and he always thinks that his wife will ignore him.
It's just that he has never said this, and he has been laughed at by his wife because of sweet things before, not to mention that he even ate his mother's vinegar this time. It's quite old, and I can't afford to lose this person.
At this time, the Chen family next door.
Chen Xuyao finished delivering his things home, and the meals at home were almost done, and he was about to serve a cold dish.
The family sat around the table, first inquired about his current development in the army, and then asked him about the development of Yan Song.
How to put it, the former question is too simple, the latter question is too complicated, and he doesn't know how to answer it.
Chen Xuyao's mother, Yuan Feiran, saw her son's embarrassment, and wanted to relieve him of the siege, don't talk about this problem anymore. But she was stopped by her husband.
The reason why Dad Chen stopped her was that Grandpa Chen was also very concerned. It has to be said that this issue is now the top priority for their family. This is not only related to the future development of the two families, but also related to the feelings of the two old men.
If it weren't for the fact that Old Man Chen had saved Old Man Yan on the battlefield once, Old Man Chen would not have reached his current status.
The Yan family is a century-old family that has existed for hundreds of years, and people say that they are rich for no more than three generations, but in the Yan family, this sentence does not seem to apply.
The Yan family arose in the Qing Dynasty, it seems that there is a child of the Yan family, a foreign student, after returning from studying abroad, he used the funds provided by the family to make a small business, and then became bigger and bigger, and gradually became a famous local rich family.
As soon as people have money, they have other thoughts, of course, this mind refers to ideals and ambitions, not to bad things.
The descendants of the Yan family have developed in many aspects of business, military, and politics, mainly because they have funds, and there is no shortage of talents within the family, which can develop so well. In just a few decades, it has developed into one of the best families.
Once it reaches a height, it will think about the future, for the long-term development of the family, the head of the family must make a decision, and the decision made by the contemporary head of the family is: hide the strength, keep the light and keep the obscurity, and resolutely not make the first bird.
This was still when Yan Song was an adult, and Grandpa Yan told Yan Song, and it was from that time that Yan Song really understood the glory of a family and the burden on her shoulders.
The Yan family has been glorious for hundreds of years, and she can't be lonely on her. What's more, now that the Yan family is thriving, even if she doesn't have the ability to bring the Yan family to a more glorious path, she can't be defeated in her hands.
If you can't open up the territory and expand the territory, then keep it, for this, Yan Song thinks very openly.
It's just that she is sure that she will not have the attributes of that loser, no matter what, she is a person who has expectations for herself, so she will never allow the Yan family to lose its shine in her hands.
This is what she knows now, she didn't know it before, so she was fearless, but now that she knows, she should have a firm heart and firmly lead the Yan family to glory.
This is the history of the Yan family, not to mention that Chen Xuyao doesn't know, even Old Man Chen, who has been friends with Old Man Yan for many years, doesn't know so much detail.
If it were according to the normal promotion speed, Old Man Chen should not have been promoted so fast, and he would not have been able to reach his current position in his lifetime. He knew that this was all a favor from Old Man Yan in their friendship, so there were some things he had to do.
It's like Chen Xuyao's marriage, Old Man Yan has a crush on Xuyao, so he has to agree. This is not only related to the happiness of Xu Yao alone, but also the development and future of the Chen family.
Although it is said that if you regret the marriage, as long as there is Old Man Yan, the Yan family will not trouble the Chen family, but it will not interfere with the future development of the Chen family, which is undoubtedly a big blow to the Chen family.
The Chen family has been able to develop like this, not only because of Old Man Chen's efforts, but also because of Old Man Yan's help. Many things are helped by others in the face of Old Man Yan, as a very transparent person, Old Man Chen naturally keeps these benefits in his heart.
Among these upper-class families, the Chen family can be regarded as a nouveau riche, from the generation of Old Man Chen, it began to emerge, and it was only in Chen's father's generation that it could be regarded as a stable development, as for Chen Xuyao, Old Man Chen also knew him so firmly that he wanted to marry the Yan family!
Chen Xuyao is a brave and unscrupulous person, he can charge into battle, but he can't give advice, so he can only defend it, not open up.
And Yan Song's personality is the opposite, she is silent, she looks harmless, but the twists and turns in the girl's belly are definitely beyond the grandson's ability to catch up, he doesn't expect the Chen family to develop well, but he doesn't want the Chen family to reach the height that it has not been easy to reach, and it will turn into nothingness overnight, so he wants to marry a wife who is beneficial to the family.
Therefore, Yan Song is the best choice.
When they were very young, he consciously made friends with his two children, even if they couldn't be husband and wife, they had to be good friends. The kind that can help each other if you have difficulties in the future.
As for the relationship between him and Old Man Yan, he can pat his chest and say that saving him at the beginning was completely out of his heart, not mixed with a little benefit, after all, when he saved him, he only knew that he was Yan Qin, but he didn't know that he was a child of the Yan family.
Saving people is just a matter of thought. So this, there is no doubt that there is no doping interest.
As for the affairs of his children and grandchildren, although he planned so, he also knew that his children and grandchildren had their own blessings, and the future road had to be walked by themselves.
Happiness is like drinking water, knowing oneself about one's warmth and coldness.
His road has been paved, as for whether to walk or not, how to walk, it is a matter of the two children, the horse does not want to drink water, he will not force his head.
And the two juniors are quietly together, which not only surprises him, but also carries hidden worries.
After all, Chen Xuyao is his own grandson, he must take into account his feelings, now the two of them are in love, and it is normal for them to be in love, but how many years after marriage, will they still be in love?
Moreover, in the process of getting along with the two of them, Mr. Chen also felt that his children were at a disadvantage, so would he be too wronged by his children to live a life of compromise?
He didn't ask Chen Xuyao, and Chen Xuyao didn't take the initiative to tell Old Man Chen that his compromises and concessions to Yan Song were all out of love.
He likes Yan Song, regardless of status or doll relatives, what he wants is for two people to live happily and carefree.
The question of how Yan Song developed was still not answered in the end. Chen Xuyao felt that some words were little secrets between him and Yan Song, and they could not be told to others. He thinks that Yan Song will have the same idea as him.
"Grandpa, Tiantian and I are developing well now, the things between us juniors, don't worry too much about your old man, your old man should enjoy his old age at home!"
Old Man Chen glared at Chen Xuyao angrily, this really spoke to his heart, but he also wanted to enjoy his old age in peace, you should hurry up and get him a little grandson to hug!
"In this case, let's wait until when you get married and give birth to my great-grandson!"
Chen Xuyao was speechless, he and Yan Song had reached a consensus on the matter of marriage.
Unlike other young men and women's concept of fighting for their careers first and returning to their families later, they have already planned to get the certificate first and hold the banquet, which can be regarded as reassuring the hearts of both parents.
How to say that getting married can be regarded as stabilizing.
As for the child, she has to wait until Yan Song is older, she is still young now, and it is not suitable for her to have a child so early.
Of course, the two of them also have a tacit understanding on how to raise children. Since the child is born, it must be by the parents' side, and it can't just be born and not raised!
If you don't care about it after being born, then what you still do desperately will be meaningless?
When he came back this time, Chen Xuyao also revealed to his family that he would marry Yan Song as soon as possible, which shocked the Chen family. However, after all, it was good news, even if it came suddenly, it was still the good news they were looking forward to.
Chen Xuyao is almost 26 years old, and it is not too early to get married at this age. It's good to settle down as soon as possible, he can be regarded as having a home, and when the time comes, whether Yan Song will accompany him to the army, or continue to work in City B, it's all a matter for the young couple, and they don't care about it.
The elders of Chen Xuyao's family are also open-minded, and they do not interfere with the children's marriage period and the children's private lives. However, interfering with the marriage partner alone will wipe out the first two benefits!
But fortunately, Yan Song is what Chen Xuyao likes.
"Then you should be ready now, and I don't know when your next vacation will be. However, the wedding of the Chen and Yan families has to be done well. ”
Yuan Feiran thought about it, it was really a way to do it as soon as possible, from making wedding dresses to booking hotels, from inviting guests to issuing wedding cards, it would take time, and these are all things that work slowly and carefully, and they must not be rushed.
So whether it is Chen Xuyao's time or the time arranged here, it will not be short. It is also necessary to prepare in advance.
Looking at Chen's mother's appearance that she had already begun to plan, Chen Xuyao was a little helpless, it seems that he notified the family earlier, or should he have noted?
"Mom, you don't have to worry, I haven't proposed to Tiantian yet. I don't know when. But as much trouble as you said, it seems that it is time to prepare. ”