"That's it! Dr. John, is there any problem with my child? ”

After Ling Hao took his mobile phone, he directly dialed Ning Rou's phone number, and asked for the phone number of this psychiatrist, regardless of whether he was in the other party's working hours now, he dialed it directly. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

It is estimated that Ning Rou said hello in advance, and the psychiatrist named John did not mind on the phone.

Ling Hao directly put the phone on the table in the living room, turned on the amplification, and the family of three sat around the table in the living room, their heads stretched out together and stared at Sydney's mobile phone on the table.

After Ling Hao described Ling Xin's situation.

In fact, there is no need to worry about this psychiatrist fantasizing from "a dream a year ago" to Teacher Suixin, after all, it is not as long as Teacher Suixin has this situation, and there is a sea of people with such problems.

Besides, even if Ling Xin went out now and yelled, "I'm just free!" "No one believes it!

Finally, all psychologists must keep the patient's information confidential, not to mention the one introduced by Ning Rou, which is absolutely reliable and trustworthy.

"That's it! Dr. John, is there any problem with my child? Li Ting leaned over and interjected anxiously.

"Uh-huh......" On the other end of the phone, Dr. John, who is said to be on the other side of the world in the European Union, muttered and seemed to think for a moment.

"According to the symptoms just described, it is preliminarily judged that your child should not have any major problems, after all, fantasizing that he is another person, this is a normal psychological problem, you must first understand that psychological problems and mental illness are two different things, and each of us has psychological problems. Of course, if the psychological problem is severe, it is still possible to develop into mental illness. Not knowing that it was the obvious anxious mood of the person on the other end of the phone, Dr. John directly gave a preliminary judgment.

"If I had to say anything, I think it's a bit of a 'social phobia.'"

"Don't be surprised that when others hear the situation you have just described, they will generally subjectively think that it is schizophrenia or even hysteria, after all, 'thinking that you are another person' or 'having another imaginary self' is very much in line with the relatively mild schizophrenia or the 'double and multiple personality' in hysteria."

"I don't think so, first of all, your child is not showing any abnormalities now, we can look at this problem a little more easily, such as assuming that she is not sick at all, very healthy and normal, of course, there is no such thing as an absolutely healthy and normal person, this is a hypothesis."

"Since your child is not sick, then the 'other person' she envisions is not sick, it is just a fantasy, and we will have it today! For example, if I can be so handsome, who is so beautiful, who is so smart, or who is so powerful, or who is very powerful, etc., we will always fantasize that when we can't do one thing, we will always think that it would be good if we were someone else. ”

The three people around the phone nodded silently, all seemingly listening attentively to Dr. John's words.

"And your children, it should be that there is something unsatisfactory in life, or something that is dissatisfied with themselves, and hopes to build an individual who is 'satisfied' with themselves, which is not strictly speaking a disease, it is just thinking too much."

"Generally speaking, this situation will happen to everyone, but if it is particularly serious, then it is necessary to consider whether it is a realistic impact. That's why I came up with the conclusion of 'social phobia'. ”

"By 'social phobia' I don't mean the kind of mental illness that is officially written and official, but very superficially refers to your child's fear of socializing with others, which means being more introverted."

"Only introverted children, but at the same time dissatisfied with some aspects of themselves, will fantasize about 'another self' after years of accumulation of psychological problems. So, your child doesn't have any mental illness, just a bit of an introvert and even a fear of socializing. The appointment doctor concluded.

"No, she usually looks very cheerful, and her academic performance is so good......" Before Li Ting could finish speaking, she was interrupted by John speaking Chinese with a strong EU accent.

"Don't look at the indication, psychological problems, psychological problems, what are psychological problems? It's the 'problem of the heart'. ”

"You can think about what your child's 'other self' has, and what she doesn't have, maybe that's what she wants, what she doesn't like about herself."

"Don't worry, your child doesn't have any major problems, if you insist on saying that there are any hidden dangers, it's a little introverted, chat with her more, enlighten her more so that she feels that the problem is not too serious, just let her go out and make friends."

This was the end of the call, and throughout the call, Dr. John unexpectedly did not say anything about the dizzying profession except for a few terms of mental illness.

The whole conversation is easy to understand, and yes, since it was introduced by Ning Rou, there must be real skills, like this kind of real expert research to a certain extent, for them, those things in the book sometimes restrict their thoughts, they already have their own set of conclusions, they will give each other a positive diagnosis according to their own judgment, yes or no.

Only those who are not confident enough will use a lot of professional terms to fool the other party to show their erudition, right?

"Xiaoxin is introverted? Is there anything Xiaoxin is dissatisfied with about herself? Ling's father and Ling's mother turned their heads to look at Ling Hao at the same time, after all, they were the closest in age, and they lived in the opposite door.

The generation gap between children is small, and brothers and sisters may share a lot of secrets?

Ling Hao also frowned and thought seriously,

"Hmm...... The introvert didn't find it, if Xiaoxin had any dissatisfaction...... That is, some time ago, she and I often went out for a run, but Xiaoxin couldn't improve no matter how much she trained, does this count? Ling Hao thought hard.

"Sports...... Ling's mother took out her notebook and seemed to be writing something.

"Oh, she seems to care about her height, and she always says, 'You're always touching my head!'" I'm not tall! But I don't see that her expression looks really angry......" Ling Hao thought again.

"No, no, no, I don't care on the surface, maybe Xiaoxin cares in her heart? This may be what Dr. John called a 'problem in the heart'. Father Ling pinched his chin.

This family meeting of the three ended without Ling Xin knowing.

And then, for a very long time. Ling Xin felt that her family would always say something inexplicable.

Like what......

"Xiaoxin, my mother thinks you are the cutest now, I really can't bear you to grow up! It's good that you haven't grown taller like this, you say? Ling's mother, who was chopping vegetables, turned her head and stared nervously at her daughter sitting on the table drinking milk.

"Huh~? Does Mom think I'm short right now? Ling Xin wondered.

"No, no, no, who dares to say that my baby is short!" Mother Ling, who was chopping vegetables, held up the kitchen knife and yelled. (To be continued.) )