She looked at the gift lists, and she had received hundreds of them one after another in the past few days, but she was afraid that there would be more by then, and the most terrible thing was that on the day of the ceremony, maybe it would take a few days.

The first three days are prepared, the middle day is a formal ceremony, and the next three days are finished.

How can it be ten days younger.

However, she was also secretly happy that these people were considerate, and they all came to give gifts two months in advance, and did not come together on the right day, otherwise it is estimated that something will definitely go wrong at that time, and she will be busy to death.

Now that it has been sorted out, it is time to arrange manpower and count the guests who have come.

I just didn't expect that these people from the Chu family, the Wan family and the Cui family, would also give gifts two months in advance, so easy-going and kind, it's really rare.

Generally speaking, the habit of giving gifts is that the host first distributes invitations, and then the guests start to give the host a few days to prepare.

When the day came, people brought gifts to congratulate them.

Sending invitations to the right day, at most ten days and half a month, is really rare like her for two months.

And the point is that she didn't send invitations at all.

She felt that it was just a fifteenth birthday, whether it was a marriage or a sixtieth birthday, there was no need to be so grand.

However, she also knew that in ancient times, the ceremony of a girl and the crown ceremony of a man were very important days.

In ancient times, people generally only had fragmentary birthdays, births, coming-of-age ceremonies, marriages, fifty and a half hundred, sixty sixties, seventy knowing the destiny of heaven, etc., these whole birthdays are very important.

In ancient times, people had a short lifespan, and if they were over sixty, they would be considered good, and seventy would be considered very long-lived, so they had to make a big deal.

As for young people, it is the most important in the previous festivals, and the coming-of-age ceremony represents a person's formal growth, being recognized by everyone, and being able to participate in social activities openly and independently.

It also means that they can start to talk about starting a family, having children, and so on.

Therefore, even if it is a poor family, the coming-of-age ceremony is also a ceremony, even if it is a little shabby, it is necessary to feast the guests, and then invite the elders with high moral character to give hairpins or crowns.

The ceremony is presided over by the parents, and then a guest is invited to insert a hairpin for the person who is making the flute, and the ceremony is very cumbersome and grand.

In his previous life, Shen Mingzhu was busy trying to find a way to attract Xiao Che's attention, so he didn't have the heart to get this at all, and at that time, Shen Cang and the old lady didn't care, and Mrs. Liu could pretend not to mention it in a high-sounding manner, and just messed around.

It seems that in this life, I can't ignore it if I want to.

She originally thought that it would be her own people to make a scene, and she would just invite the fourth aunt and Concubine Xie to come, but she didn't expect to invite others.

I didn't expect so many people to come, this scale is a bit beyond imagination.

Xiao Xian told her not to worry, what battle he hadn't seen?

When he was eight years old, he experienced a palace change, and although he has always been low-key, others have always kept him low-key, so he is used to seeing strong winds and waves.

It's just a courtesy, so he doesn't have to worry about it, looking at Shen Mingzhu's little worried, he is happy, and he finally has time to make a difference for her.

And as soon as she and the ceremony are over, he can send someone to propose marriage, and then wait to marry her.

Thinking that she was about to become his little wife, Xiao Xian smiled from ear to ear, and even Wen Songzhi, Shen Mingtang and the others who were a few steps away felt his eagerness and joy.