He inherited the court training at an early age, and was taught by his mother and eldest sister since he was a child, and he has read all the books that should be read, and she naturally will not know all kinds of practical and simple knowledge in this "Family Textbook". Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

But as far as she knows, since ancient times, it seems that no one has been able to collect and organize these nuanced and subtle knowledge into a book, form a system, and even teach the word.

In the final analysis, this knowledge of the house seems trivial, but it is by no means something that can be learned casually.

Maybe it's because of her shallow knowledge, but she really can't think of anyone in this world other than her mother, or in addition to her own mother, who else can be so straightforward and clear, breaking and crumbling the lessons of decades at the bottom of the box, bit by bit, inducing and teaching each other. So that you can face a completely unfamiliar new environment alone, face a large group of strangers with blood relations at the age of more than ten years, so that you can gain a foothold in this new environment, have children, and be a housekeeper.

Stepmother? Mother-in-law? Three relatives and six dependents?

Of course, there are exceptions to everything in this world.

But nine times out of ten, whether people are willing to put their hearts in their hearts is one aspect, and there is another aspect, even if people are willing to teach, and have the patience to teach you carefully, but two people who are not related by blood, and even people who may have conflicts of interest, to teach you the foundation of your life, and even involve the means of the inner house, which is likely to touch a little selfishness, how can you accept and understand her teachings without guilt?

And having said that, in He's view, such a teaching may not even be able to do it with his own mother. Unless the mother herself can have wisdom and ability, and even have her own means, what she teaches her daughter is probably not a very clear and transparent unique secret that can make her daughter's life happy, but a bad idea that disrupts her daughter's marriage and family life.

She could name several such cases when she opened her mouth.

I don't know how many mothers love their daughters deeply, but they always make a mess of themselves, and they don't have a good life, even after taking their daughter out of the cabinet.

Therefore, since ancient times, when marriage is over, a woman has seven times and five do not marry.

And among the five non-marriages, the first one is that the eldest daughter of a widow does not marry, because there is no religious precept.

In fact, she lost her biological mother's teachings, and it is difficult for such a woman to learn the housekeeper and the various methods of the house. After getting married, it will naturally be difficult to gain a foothold in the in-law's family. For the in-laws, a daughter-in-law who has not been well taught in the boudoir can indeed easily lead to restlessness in the house.

Although Ho does not very much agree with this view, it is undeniable that there is a reason for it.

But the "Family Affairs Textbook" in front of you can not only teach you female red needlework and cooking housekeepers, but also teach you sophistication and teach you to deal with many cumbersome personnel relationships.

For example, it not only teaches girls how to get along with their elders, peers, and juniors, but also teaches you how to manage and appease the servants in the family, teaches you to deal with people of different personality levels, and teaches you to be careful in human relations. It even teaches you how to deal with emergencies, how to deal with verbal arguments, and how to deal with the stumbling blocks behind you......

It not only teaches you about human affairs, but also teaches you daily hygiene, childbirth and childcare, which is an unprecedented course as far as Ho knows.

He didn't know where the sisters-in-law had gathered so much practical knowledge, but from her current experience, it was not only detailed, but also accurate.

This is simply a mother who has wisdom, ability and means, and Lang Zhong, who is good at pediatrics and women, who is like a life-saving elixir for these women in the house, is put in your pocket.

That's not all, the key is that the entire "Textbook" is sprinkled with hundreds of thousands of words, which is thicker than the "Four Books" combined.

Don't talk about the side, take the chapter of "financial management" as an example, from the most basic daily bookkeeping to how to make ends meet, for He, who once helped his mother to preside over the feed, he is very professional.

But what is very interesting is that the book even deliberately emphasizes that in the order of budget in the family, survival expenses and health expenses rank first, and social expenses are at the bottom.

He has a superficial opinion, perhaps the intention of emphasizing simplicity from beginning to end in the book is not to "who knows that Chinese food is hard work", but to return to simplicity.

Cheap things are noble, aiming to keep simple, and cultivate pure truth.

This is the best attack on the current trend of mechanical deception in people's hearts.

Therefore, the first thing He thought of was not to copy this "textbook" for his mother, but to let his father see it first.

She knew that her father's father had already revised the rules and regulations of the Baby-Keeping Hall in accordance with the people's sentiments in Xin'an Province, and it would be great if such a girls' school could be built as well.

As written in the "Preface" of the first chapter: "The upper can be a husband, the lower can be a godson, the near can be IKEA, the far can be a good seed, the woman is prosperous, and the thousand rooms are kind." ”

After thinking about it, I still came to find the peppercorns, and said that I wanted to copy a copy and take it back to my father when I returned to the door.

This is the best recognition of the conscientious work of the Preparatory Committee for Women's Studies in the past six months, and perhaps it can also promote the process of recognizing women's right to education, Hua Jiao naturally readily agreed, but still explained to He with a sweet smile: "The "Textbook" is only a draft version, if my sister-in-law has suggestions, please give us some advice. ”

"Don't dare to be instructed! In my opinion, this "Family Textbook" is perfect in all four corners. He said very sincerely: "Sister, if all the girls in the world can see this book, maybe many people will have a better life." ”

Sichuan pepper laughed.

No one wants to walk in the dark, maybe the road ahead is bright, as a woman, only then can she have the will and possibility to fight for herself.

Of course, you can't become a fat person by eating in one bite, and you have to take your time for many things.

However, when I heard that He wanted to copy the textbooks used in the girls' school to Mr. He, Hua Jiao was moved and tried his best to recommend the textbooks in the school to her: "It was compiled by my father and my brothers, and it is different from the textbooks in most of the current schools, and there are also random subjects such as agriculture, handicrafts, and business, which are very practical...... If my sister-in-law is interested, I, no, you can show it to your brother......"

Huajiao felt that he was simply heartbroken, but fortunately, He's attention was on the textbooks that Huajiao said, and he didn't pay attention to the change of words of Huajiao, thanked Huajiao, and asked Huajiao a lot of content about family education, and after returning to the house, he really found an opportunity to discuss the teaching materials in the school with the sixth brother.

Then, within two days, Hua Jiao found out that while He was copying the "Textbook", the sixth brother also copied the textbook......

Sichuan pepper snickered secretly.

However, in fact, that day, Qin Lianbao proposed to merge the female school into Chenguang, and Hua Jiao was really confused.

But although a small face was confused, his mind was already spinning quickly.

Family education naturally includes women's education, which is understandable, but Hua Jiao didn't think much about the scruples in Qin Lianbao's heart, his eyes were shining, and he immediately responded.

Then he wrote the course under the guidance of Qin Lianbao, and handed over the professional things to professional people to do.

For example, he asked Yao's Zuo's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to help write the moral education chapter, asked Luo's to give advice to the clothing chapter, handed over the food chapter to Xiangye, and asked her to pester Qin's old lady, and invited Aunt Yuan, asked Guo's to ask her for educational knowledge, and gave her the financial management chapter to design......

Sichuan pepper is in charge of the overall situation, in fact, Chenguang, who set the general tone at first, just felt that girls needed to understand this, but he didn't deliberately want to compile such a "family textbook", but after half a year of being so busy, I don't know how, bit by bit, it has accumulated a lot.

Although the "Textbook" was initially finalized, the pepper couldn't help but be a little worried. As a result, there are so many courses that it may not be easy to complete all the required courses.

Sichuan pepper is a little hesitant, thinking about it, I still think that maybe we should promote the setting of the study period, even if you can't do "633", I hope to try to "545" and "434" to lean on......

After another scribble, after listing a variety of possibilities in history, Hua Jiao went to find Qin Lianbao.

Only Qin Lianbao was stunned after listening to the long and exhaustive narration of peppercorns.

He has already set up and compiled all the subject textbooks, and the next step is to print, and the rules and regulations of Yiying have also had a rough prototype, and they will be printed and posted in the school building by Chenguang.

As for the system of the school, he has clear rules.

For example, although the main focus of the school is childcare, there are also examinations that are graded and rewarded. Including the 369 class, the semi-monthly examination of the Shuowang class, the monthly class of the monthly class, the quarterly class of the four examinations a year, and the random examination of Yixue.

Not only compulsory subjects, but also casual subjects. However, it is not for the sake of "taking the test", nor does it have to be memorized by rote, Qin Lianbao just hopes to improve the learning ability of students.

For example, it is necessary to audit the daily behavior of students, and set up a "good book" and a "change book", so that good and bad things will be recorded in the case to restrain students' behavior.

But he really hasn't thought about the "school system" yet, because he has never been in contact with the "school system". Or can it be said that the books that people in the world are studying today, and the progress of their study, have become their own "school system".

Take him as an example, when he was five or six years old, he entered the West School of Lishiwei School and began to enlighten, reading through the enlightenment books of "Three Hundred Thousand", "Disciple Rules", "Kindergarten Qionglin", "Zengguang Xianwen" and so on, no matter how old you are, as long as you still want to study, you can naturally pass the exam and enter the East School, and begin to study the Four Books and Five Classics. And in the East School, one step further, after the teachings, you can begin to interpret the scriptures.

Since ancient times, the content taught in each school has not been exactly the same, but this is probably the process.

The same is true of the school he set up, and although he will devote his energy to the nursing home, it does not mean that he will not set up a Confucian school. As long as there are parents and children who are willing to accept his teaching, he will naturally spare no effort. Of course, the Apprenticeship Academy is also in his planning.

As for the "school system" mentioned by Huajiao, there seems to have been a "three-round promotion method" in history, that is, the school is divided into "outer house", "inner house" and "upper house", and new students are divided into the outer house, and the students with good grades are promoted to the inner house, and the students who have done well in the inner house are promoted to the upper house.

However, this practice of grading students is really unreasonable, and because of the opposition, it seems that Chenguang did not exist for long before it was abolished.

Tell Huajiao to listen, Huajiao was stunned, I didn't expect that there would be fast and slow classes in ancient times, but her purpose was not to let people "repeat" and "upgrade".

The "repetition" system is indeed not advisable, Hua Jiao remembers that Chenguang, when she was studying, seems to have gradually abolished the repetition system.

Tong Qin Lianbao explained: "We don't need to divide grades, as long as they can take a certain number of class hours, they can take a certain number of credits in both compulsory subjects and random subjects, and they will naturally be able to go on to higher education......."

After thinking about it, Qin Lianbao still felt that it might not be advisable, so he discussed it with Hua Jiao carefully: "Jiaojiao, Daddy sees it this way, everyone has different talents, different personalities, different interests, different speeds of accepting knowledge, different lengths of time to remember things, different angles of understanding things, and different Chenguang of enlightenment...... We may not be able to demand that all children be the same, we cannot hold all children to the same standard, but perhaps we should give them more opportunities to try it......"

Sichuan pepper was stunned.

In the final analysis, she wants to promote the establishment of the school system, which is simply because she hopes to systematically plan the learning progress, increase the efficiency of education, and improve the standard of subjects......

I have to say that Qin Lianbao is indeed right.

Huajiao is also a person from the past, according to her cognition, although the school system is uniform, but the flexibility is really not enough, and there is not enough possibility of expansion.

What's more, the purpose of Qin Lianbao to open so many compulsory subjects, especially the three random subjects of industry, agriculture and commerce, is to cultivate students' social adaptability, resource utilization ability, and business awareness and ability.

It is hoped that students will be able to understand the society, understand the professional environment, understand their own interests and personalities, shape their independence, and cultivate students with sound personality, self-awareness, strong survival ability and clear goals.

Perhaps Qin Lianbao's teaching according to his aptitude has brought many difficulties and inconveniences in teaching and management to himself and his gentlemen, but the purpose of education is to cultivate and cultivate people who have self-awareness and are useful to society.

Since the end is clear, the means and methods should perhaps be subordinated to the end.