Chapter 22: Sister, I'm Teaching You to Be a Man!
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"Huh? There's still more than an hour to go? Yang Yan turned his head and glanced at the alarm clock in the corner of the table that was pointing to half past six. Usually, it is almost eight o'clock when the "class" is "over".
However, Yang Yan still put away the exercise book on the table.
Ling Xin looked at Yang Yan with great satisfaction, although he was puzzled, he chose to listen to Ling Xin's words, which made Ling Xin feel very relieved, yes, just relieved.
Although the two have been neighbors for many years, the former Ling Xin had no intersection with this "good boy" at all, let alone that with Ling Xin's previous scumbag grades, she couldn't teach others at all. So in the past, Ling Xin only saw the other party out of politeness when she went out, and in general, the relationship between the two was just a nodding acquaintance.
So strictly speaking, the time that the two have really known each other is only this short ten days.
However, although the contact between the two has been for a short time, the other party has basically been recognized by Ling Xin, and after a few days of getting along, Ling Xin really likes this child who is willing to listen to himself, is willing to be close to himself, and loves to learn. Ling Xin was already planning to treat him as a younger brother.
Some people may think that the time spent together is so short, and it is too easy for Ling Xin to accept a stranger just by getting along in the past few days. But Ling Xin thinks that this kind of thing is strange, although there is such a thing as long-term love, but Ling Xin believes that getting along with people is more about "meeting the eyes", this feeling is difficult to explain, you can't deny it, there will always be some people, you will inexplicably feel cordial, inexplicably willing to treat him sincerely.
So Ling Xin believes that when she chooses those friends she "approves", she must go through two steps.
The first step is to "meet the eyes" mentioned above, and select those who are willing to interact.
Then the second step is to treat each other with sincerity first, some people will feel that it is too heartless to treat others with sincerity at the beginning, and they should first test the other party's character and so on. But Ling Xin thinks that if you yourself are not willing to show sincerity, then why should you let others treat you with sincerity?
She also understands that it is easy to be deceived and hurt by others rashly, but if she is deceived a few times, she can not miss any sincere friend who does not lie to her, and such a deal is definitely cost-effective.
Since she chose to treat Yang Yan as her younger brother, then Ling Xin felt that of course she had to be responsible for this younger brother, many people only saw the children's grades, but Ling Xin thought that moral education was also very important, after a few days of contact, Ling Xin had confirmed that Yang Yan was a true scholar, not only with a good brain, flexible and smart, but also very good in memory, and the most important thing is that he also has a heart of a scholar, in this summer vacation, every day on time with a schoolbag to find "Teacher Ling Xin" to class, this doesn't mean anything?
Therefore, Ling Xin felt that the teaching of the knowledge in Yang Yan's textbook was sufficient, and it was time to carry out moral education for him.
Why is morality, intelligence, physical fitness, beauty and labor in the first place?
Someone once said that if the body is not good, it is a defective product at most, if the wisdom is not good, it is a waste product, and if the virtue is not good, it is a dangerous product!
If the first four items are not passed, at most they will harm themselves, and if their moral character is not enough, then they will not only harm themselves, but also harm others.
Since you are determined to take in a younger brother, of course, you must avoid him from becoming crooked. As for how to teach others morality, Ling Xin had already begun to devote herself to this great cause.
"Next, let's study the ancient texts in this book, and the evening time will be changed to ancient texts study time in the future." Ling Xin raised Yang Yang just now when Yang Yan lowered his head to do the question, and went downstairs to get a sample of the latest issue of "Spring".
Turning to the back page of "Analects" and putting it on the dresser that served as a "study table", Ling Xin moved a small stool and sat down against Yang Yan.
"My sister's family really likes to follow the teacher." Yang Yan looked at the author noted on the "Analects" and sighed.
"Huh? Prefer a casual teacher? How so? ”
Ling Xin wondered.
"On the bookshelf downstairs, there are several copies of "Journey to the West", and there are also books full of "Spring", all of which have articles by Teacher Suixin on them."
Listening to Yang Yan's explanation, Ling Xin had to sigh that this kid's observation was really strong, they just passed by the living room when they were eating and going downstairs every day, and they never went in, let alone rummaged through the bookshelves in the living room.
"Okay, let's get down to business, let's learn this first sentence today." Ling Xin pointed to the first sentence in the book.
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Ling Xin uses the teaching method of a primary school teacher, who first teaches students to read, then explains the meaning of incomprehensible words in classical Chinese, and then asks students to memorize them. After all, for Ling Xin, who was still a primary school student at the time, it was really difficult to understand the true meaning of the text, so she could only memorize and write according to the teacher's explanation, and draw a gourd in the same way.
It's like a teacher telling you a math problem, the steps are too difficult for you to remember, but the teacher asks you to write down the steps and the correct answer, maybe when someone asks you about this problem in the future, you can answer the correct answer, but you can't explain why, because you didn't understand it in the first place.
Ling Xin remembered that when her elementary school Chinese teacher was teaching her Analects, she looked at the sky and sighed: "Actually, this is teaching you to be a man!" ”
"Zi means an honorific title for a man of status and learning in ancient times, and here it means Confucius......"
Ling Xin patiently explained word by word.
"Now, sister, why do you want to learn classical Chinese? The teacher said that these are not the point, and the teacher will not talk about it after the class. Patiently studied with Ling Xin for more than an hour, and finally when it was almost over, Yang Yan couldn't help but ask.
"Sister, this is teaching you to be a man!"
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"Review well when you go back! Tomorrow, my sister will test the meaning of your words and memorize and write silently! ”
"Oh." After getting the other party's consent, Ling Xin nodded with satisfaction.
Although it took nearly two hours of the evening to teach the ancient texts that had no points for Ling Xin and no meaning for Yang Yan, Ling Xin was not for points in the first place.
And she is also very satisfied with Yang Yan's performance, although there are doubts, she still chooses to believe in her sister, willing to listen and remember.
"Senior Nangong! I didn't like you in the first place! I hope you don't come back to pester me! ”
"Purple Moon! You're lying to me, aren't you? I know that woman came to you, what did she say to you, you did this to me, right?! ”
"Senior Nangong! Please be respectful! We're not that familiar! Please call me Leng classmate! ”
"Purple Moon! Don't go! I'm sure you still love me! I love you! Please don't leave me......"
"Purple Moon! I love you......"
Ling Xin pulled Yang Yan downstairs to send him home, and when she passed by the living room, the sound of the TV came from the living room.
Ling Xin just lowered her head and silently quickened her pace.
"Let's go inside." said it was a gift, but in fact, Yang Yan's home was next door.
"Now, sister, what does love mean?"
Ling Xin didn't know how to answer for a while after hearing it, sure enough, soap opera or something, even if there is only sound and no picture, it is still very lethal to children.
"Well~ You're still too young, you don't understand, you'll understand when you grow up."
"Cut~ How to be the same as my mother, perfunctory ......"