QU Ying. Mingcong
About many relatives who read it and feel that Qu Ying is very 'Holy Mother', this word, but there is something to say:
About Qu Ying's character development: hypocritical, resolute, decisive, and cold. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
The first one is her hypocrisy, which is caused by Qu Ying's growth environment. Hypocrisy is both a positive and a derogatory term. For Qu Ying, her hypocrisy is for self-respect and inferiority.
Dear friends, as the author, in the general description setting, there must be the author's living environment, and the 90s of Ran lived in was a special era from simplicity to trend.
In the local ecology, some people strongly require themselves and their juniors to follow the legacy of their ancestors, be down-to-earth and pragmatic. But more people can accept the material enjoyment caused by the reform and opening up. In particular, in this era, when luxury was in full swing and misleading TV dramas at the time, many children were exposed to the bad habits of adults [early love, fights, bars].
Children in the 80s always felt a little sad.
The elders are busy making a living, and there are many children of the same generation, many of whom have grown up free-range. And in the south, it is true that the preference for sons is very serious. Many girls have been a nanny since they were young, helping their mothers take care of their younger siblings and helping with housework and cooking.
Qu's grandmother is a very patriarchal old lady, and the plot should be written slowly, and the reason for her problem will be explained later. Just one thing, the old lady doesn't like girls, so she really doesn't care about her. Coupled with a grandfather Qu who accommodates Grandma Qu in everything, Qu Ying's life in her grandfather's house has been very poor since she was a child.
Not having enough to eat, being scolded, and being punished made her cowardly, coupled with the fact that she was born prematurely, she was weak since she was a child, and she was sick twice in three days, which made Grandma Qu even more unhappy.
But for Qu's mother, her daughter is the child she desperately gave birth to, and she is a woman who has gone to high school, and her thoughts are not old and light, but more tolerant of people of the same sex, so for the case that there may be only one daughter, she will only love her daughter more.
After growing up in a dilemma until Qu Ying went to elementary school, Qu's father finally made up his mind to take his daughter out of his hometown and live in the town. One is to stay away from Mrs. Qu, and the other is to give her daughter a good learning environment. Again, when she arrives in the town, Qu's mother will be able to earn money.
In the 80s, children still had to take filial piety as their purpose, which was really blind filial piety and blind obedience.
When the nineties arrived, it was the time for economic development, and it was only when Qu Dad took his wife and daughter to leave Qu Ye Qu's grandmother.
Even her parents gave her grandmother a place to retreat, and the young Qu Ying had to retreat again and again, and her personality would be cowardly and inferior, which was what she began to develop.
It was Qu's mother who put a lot of effort into correcting her daughter's bad habits little by little, so that Qu Ying was like a budding flower bone, such a mother and daughter, will the relationship be weak? A father who can think about his wife and daughter, will the relationship between father and daughter be shallow?
Qu Ying's personality before the age of sixteen was pretentious, well-behaved, kind and gentle.
Twenty-year-old Qu Ying, she was disappointed. But no matter how disappointed she is, she will not want to break off her family relationship with her parents.
Feelings are out, and the nature of the cousin, after the death of his parents, is unknown. It's just that Aunt Gu's family is originally a special family, and it will be introduced later.
A large part of the personality and mentality is caused by the environment.
Without the protection of family affection, Qu Ying can only abandon cowardice and learn to be strong and independent.
In the face of her parents' partiality again and again, it is impossible for Qu Ying not to be disappointed, maybe she has resentment in her heart, but she still can't hate her parents.
Her tragedy is partly due to the times, partly due to conformist secular concepts, and the largest part is the eccentricity of her relatives.
For a cousin whose parents died, his grandmother and grandmother were all stingy, and he was selfish and unreasonable since he was a child, how did he grow up with his uncle? What's more, in Qu Ying's memories, there is also an ambush line. As long as you read the first few chapters carefully, you will guess Uncle Qu's nature to some extent.
Whether there is mental calculation or not, the tragedy of Qu Ying's previous life is actually traceable.
After spending four or five years, when her parents were still partial cousins, Qu Ying, who had grown up and was independent, would she continue to do what her cousin wanted?
There must be a bottom line. Shengmien, Dou Mi Qiu, and so on Qu Ying looked down on family affection, then all the threats were empty, so when she could calmly and decisively fade the connection with her parents, her cousin also grew up and started a family. Regardless of giving birth to grace and nurturing grace, her obligations have also been fulfilled.
But sometimes, the dog still can't change its eating, repeatedly. This led to Qu Ying's early death.
After being reborn, Ran Ran set two points for Qu Ying:
One is that crying children have candy to eat. Most girls actually know that the more well-behaved a daughter is, the better it may be in the eyes of their parents, but it may not necessarily be taken seriously. But sometimes when a well-behaved child makes a fuss, he will definitely get a sideways look from his parents, and he will secretly mutter: Why is this obedient child awkward? It is a point that can attract the attention of parents.
First, only in the face of loss, will we cherish it. Since Qu Ying was a teenager, she has been a good daughter who is obedient, obedient, and gives her parents a face.
But suddenly, my daughter had a car accident! Knowing how many people have died, don't parents fear losing their children? That's an only daughter! is that Qu's father was trembling by his parents to be more patriarchal, and he was self-bored and escaped, and he couldn't deny that Qu Ying was his only daughter. Why don't you care??
Plainness is neglect, and that loss will inevitably be cherished.
In addition, Qu Ying was originally a 29-year-old woman, her mind was mature, and she was not a flower in a greenhouse. She knows that the main reason for her tragedy is that her parents have no children, her cousin has lost her mother, and Grandma Qu has died!
When Qu Ying was reborn, she could ignore Grandma Qu and her cousin, but she really resented her parents.
Therefore, a period of injury is the best way for her to hide her emotions. Seeing her parents who are close and loving to her, running up and down to take care of herself, can she impose it on her parents for the 'facts' that have not yet happened? For family affection, she is greedy on the one hand, and afraid of being hurt on the other.
When the uncle is not dead, she gives her parents a chance, and doesn't she also give herself a chance to untie the knot?
Could it be that if you are reborn, you will have to be indifferent to your parents and bring down your relatives? To say that Grandma Qu didn't like her, but she didn't beat her hard, at most she made her kneel and think about it. To say that his cousin is a Zhongshan wolf, it is indeed hateful, but in Qu Ying's eyes, he is a complete stranger, he has grown up together since childhood, and knows that he is a little selfish, but his personality is not so bad. It can only be said that he was instigated by his maternal relatives, and she was the conniving person.
In the eyes of the teenage Qu Ying, her parents are her alone. The cousin was an interpenetrator, her parents gave up on her, and everything depended on him, in the eyes of Qu Ying at that time, the cousin was a robber and an intruder.
She couldn't ask for it.
Hehe, after being reborn, will she revisit the tragedy of her previous life?
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Let's talk about Cong: naΓ―ve, cowardly, cold-blooded, and persistent
Mingcong's growth is actually a bloody drama.
Mingcong's biological mother, Ming Zhu, is the pearl of the Ming Dynasty, and his younger brother Mingxiang also loves this twin sister.
The two are twin sisters and brothers, but Ming Zhu was born weak since he was a child because of malnutrition in the fetus, and because he was born to his beloved wife in the Ming Dynasty, he was a pampered person for her.
Although it shows that the family is an ancient martial arts family, it can't buy martial bones. Ming Zhu is because of the body of the heavenly ancestors, which is not suitable for martial arts training at all, plus she is soft and does not like to use knives and guns, therefore, since she was a child, the Ming Dynasty made up her mind to choose an ordinary official second generation for her to protect her for a lifetime.
But people are not as good as heaven, but in the end she married the nephew of her guard. It was this guard who eventually died for protecting him, and he was not qualified to let his nephew marry his palm pearl.
Bi Mingzhu felt that the matter had come to the beginning [I will explain it later], so he accepted his fate and taught his husband and children well. And the good brother of his childhood sweetheart since he was a child can only be silently blessed.
Who knew that Father Chen was a complete scumbag?!
Ordinary Guwu families started medicinal baths at the age of six, even if Ming Cong is Ming Zhu's own son, but there is only one thing, Ming Cong's surname is Chen, and he is not qualified to use the resources of the Ming family. Besides, his daughter's family is an ordinary person, so he didn't want his grandson to participate in their world. I just want to keep others safe and happy for the rest of my life.
Therefore, in the first half of Ming Cong's life, in addition to learning martial arts moves from his eldest brother, he didn't know anything about the inside story of ancient martial arts.
Mingzhu knows a little, but because he has not been in contact with it since he was a child, he knows a little about it, so it is better not to know.
But in the end, he learned martial arts, and when Chen's father became more and more inappropriate day by day, Mingcong found out. Because he was too tender, he was found by Chen's father, but he was startled, and he dragged it until the third year of high school before he determined the object of his outer room.
At this time, Mingzhu was depressed for a long time, and he had long been depressed in his chest, and he was troubled by the outer room, and the external evil and internal deficiency caused depression due to excessive sadness, and he died directly after taking an overdose of sleeping pills in the middle of the night.
Mingcong started school after the New Year, only to find out that his 'scheduled' girlfriend was missing, and before he could dissipate his anger to find the reason, his father's outer room was exposed, and his mother died unexpectedly, which didn't let him take a breath at all, one after another, how did an innocent boy who was only 18 years old experience such a tragedy?
In a state of confusion, he gave up on himself for a year, followed the advice of his aunt, and began his extraordinary ten years with his eldest brother entering the military academy.
Maybe the hurt was too deep, maybe he couldn't ask for it, anyway, he remembered Qu Ying for thirteen years. It's not that she never gave up, but she couldn't accept the approach of others, just like she dug a hole in his heart, and she couldn't make up for it anymore.
Because of this, year after year, the only woman in Mingcong's heart who can remember is Qu Ying.
It is the deepest tenderness in the memory of youth. It is said that the first love is sincere, some feelings, just a glance, a hand-holding, a hug, is a lifetime, and then want to let go, it is a dilemma.
Especially when Mingcong met Qu Ying again, but just to make it clear to his father that Qu Ying was his, he dragged on for three minutes so that his father was desperate.
It's just those three minutes, let him and her, and finally heaven and man separate, how deep the love is, how deep the hatred is, how to solve the old hatred in the future? Moreover, he still died at the hands of his biological father and illegitimate son.
The two women he loves the most in his life died because of his biological father, including himself, so that he hates his biological father like a stalk in his throat, and he can't tolerate it for a moment!
In Mingcong's eyes, rebirth is to have what is lost and eliminate what is disgusted!