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Author. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
After twenty-one years of age, to be exact, I became very rebellious, not adolescent agitation, because my agitation period was short and passed early. The outward characteristic of rebellion is that it does not believe what some people around you say. Half a year later, I began to understand that it was not a rebellion, but that I could learn to choose from external information. It's suitable for yourself and won't make yourself distressed, after the Chinese New Year, my personality has also changed a lot, and I used to love to express my opinions and point fingers at other people's lives. Now I don't look at it coldly, but wait until I have a perfect answer, and then tell him. At that time, I was not deeply involved in the world, and the gap in my family background made it easy to be bewitched and obedient to things at the upper level, and the consequences of following advice were not to mention how bad the results were, and there was no change, and no change was also a terrible one. Now I began to think about it and found one or two reasons: first, the person who taught me was not perfect in itself, and I did not mean perfection here, but the ability to do things to be able to take care of others, and he did not have this condition, at that time, in my opinion, his image was not much higher than mine, and my father, so I was taught. Second, the industry he is in is somewhat similar to mine, but he can't help but be similar, some of the truths he said, until now, I admit that there are some uses, but the space hole, for me at that time, it is better to teach me a way to earn 4,000 yuan is more realistic, rather than these big truths that you can't eat when you're hungry.
For people who are not determined to have a strong personality, they will be easily influenced by the words around them, such as A has a wife and does not work. This can easily cause condemnation from parents to fox friends and neighbors, and then provoke the anger of A, and fight with his wife for 300 rounds (there is no color meaning here), maybe I will say something before, but I will definitely not say anything now, if I really want to say something, I can only say: What are you doing by listening to them, you are angry with your wife and running away, who will warm your bed? Will your parents or your friends lend you their wives? As long as you can use your own money to make your wife live forever, you don't need to listen to your parents' advice.
This is not a word to sow discord. This is the best way to get by until you find a better solution. Also, their advice is limited and one-sided, and limitations and one-sidedness are terrible and can make things very bad. Stay away from people who talk a lot, and generally their words can only be used for entertainment, not for practical reference. When the host arrives in the audience, they may not have much to say in their own lives.
I don't know how I grew up to be such a teenager who is so emotionally detached from society now. No passion, not without passion, often see the distribution of travel leaflets around the world is still very excited, when I think of my wallet, I am excited again.
My personality used to be very serious, this character has a drawback, I was a good person from the beginning, no, good boy, good can't be better, see a little bug that makes me scary, even if I have a bottle of boiling hot water in my hand, I will only use cold water to wash it away.
I took the principles that the school society instilled in me before I left school as my own. The downside is that I feel guilty if I go against my rules in the first thought or practice of something, for example, I find a wallet on the road, and if the first thought that comes to my mind is to swallow it, then the second I want to slap myself, you villain. But if you just pick up fifty yuan, it will be much easier, just see if there are cameras and people around, after all, there is no ID card on the money.
The process of transformation in the middle is not the process of constantly allowing one's soul to be comforted by itself, and from the very beginning he positions himself as a heinous villain, and usually does a little thing to help the old lady cross the road, and he can move himself.
One of the most important reasons is economic capacity.
If you are a simple good person, but you don't have enough money, your parents and children are just average, don't give examples of what will happen. To a third-tier city a hundred miles from the city center, that kind people are everywhere. Their current situation is self-evident. The part of your soul that yearns for the good has been satisfied, and to put it mildly, you have let your family live below the Chinese average, which is not good, but it is very realistic. Because I belong in it. Now, as long as you're not too poor, you won't be embarrassed.
I really don't read and write for self-cultivation. I thought it was hypocritical when I gave it to me.
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