It's just that even if Mrs. Qin has something to say to Grandma Yu, she didn't start with the matter of leaving the country directly. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Instead, he talked to Grandma Yu about Li Qilai first.

He told her with a relaxed look: "I heard the second child say that the Li family seems to be preparing to call my uncle to try his skills during the New Year, so I discussed with our family, and I will come to tell the date after the beginning ......of spring."

Grandma Yu has also been the master of the house, and she is still a person walking around the scene, when she heard this, she still didn't understand, and she was happy for fennel.

Holding Qin Lao Niang's hand and nodding straight, he praised the Li family and said: "The in-laws couldn't be more thoughtful, if you can be happy and happy, double happiness is coming, this is great." ”

Having said that, there is some admiration and curiosity in my heart.

asked Mrs. Qin: "Aunt Li is two years older than our fennel, she should be a horse, and she is only eighteen years old at the beginning of the year." What's the matter, are you sure that you will end up in martial arts? ”

also patted the back of Qin Lao Niang's hand and said, "This is not simple!" I heard my eldest say that martial arts are not easier than those of Wenju. That's really ten years of work off the stage, but people like us who have been writing never knew it. ”

"I thought about it carefully," Grandma Yu said and said seriously: "It's not this reason, there are still routines to be found in making a fuss, but if you ride a horse and shoot arrows, you will be able to do it, and if you can't, you won't, it's a little foolish." There is a saying that 'there is no first in literature, and there is no second in martial arts', isn't this the truth. They are often difficult to distinguish between the high and the low in reading, but with a fist in martial arts, you can know who is high and who is low to score the winner or loser. ”

Qin Lao Niang nodded yes, it is indeed this reason.

It's just that these things about the children, in fact, she rarely asks about them now.

First, she is old and can't turn the corner, and some old concepts are no longer appropriate.

The children can listen to the outdated car words, which is because of the children's filial piety, but she can't rely on the old and sell the old, which is hateful. And about the children, if she is willing to tell her, she listens, and she doesn't care about what she doesn't want to say.

In the words of Xiao Sichuan Pepper, who can not have a little secret.

Again, parents are parents, and grandparents are grandparents.

Life is just fine, they have plenty of time, and their mentality is more peaceful, and it is not hindering them to be more considerate of their children. But in terms of children's academic teaching, parents should take the lead first, and grandparents only have the reason to help, but there is no reason to mess with their beaks.

Generation after generation, the older generation should naturally put themselves in the right position, let go of the nature of letting go, and naturally rest assured.

So about Li Qi, she only heard Qin Lianxiong and Qin Lianbao praise him for his solid skills, whether it is fist and foot routines, or weapon moves, not to mention that he has been perfected, but he is already a step above his peers of about the same age.

Although this is due to Li Qi's unique background, it is also inseparable from the child's own self-knowledge.

Before, the fourth cousin and the fifth cousin praised Li Qi in front of them more than once, saying that he worked hard and died, twelve hours a day, and most days, except for Chenguang, who slept for three hours, was endorsing the book when eating, and he wanted to break it in half for a moment.

Mrs. Qin told Grandma Yu euphemistically: "Aunt Li has been practicing martial arts since she was a child, and now she is about to become a family, so it's time to try her depth." What's more, when the child is older, if he doesn't experience it and doesn't beat it, how can he become a weapon! ”

said that he took the opportunity to talk about his little boy: "For example, our family's Erlang, Sanlang and Liulang, according to the meaning of the third child, also decided to let them adapt to the environment of the exam at the beginning of the year." ”

As soon as these words came out, Grandma Yu gasped, and said with surprise and joy: "Do the three children want to end up together?" ”

But in the end, the joy is more than the surprise, and he is already happy: "If the three brothers can get the middle school members together, no, let alone the students, it is a county test and the government test, which is also a good story!" ”

He also said: "You see, we have so many big families in Lianxi, except for the five surnames of 'Fang Zhang Zuo Hu Shi', how many families can have the beautiful thing of father, son and brother." ”

I'm already looking at it.

Old Lady Qin laughed and said, "How can it be so easy!" ”

sighed again: "Their generation cannot be compared with the third child. Looking at the third child, his eyes were red, but he didn't know that although the third child had really worked hard for three or four years, although he was only sitting at the age of three or four, he had never let go of the previous 20 years. For nearly 20 years, he copied one volume after another of big-character books, but he copied books and studied for interest, not for the sake of study. ”

Although Qin Lao Niang is indeed old, in this regard, she can empathize with and understand Qin Lianbao.

Just because she's interested.

And for her, cooking is not only a hobby, but also a training, and a faith.

So even if the reality really doesn't allow it, there is neither the time nor the shortage of ingredients. Even if the gossip outside is full of gossip, and there is even something to say, she has never neglected even one coarse tea and light meal.

However, for Grandma Yu, it is not very possible to understand Qin Laoniang's words.

So he asked her, "Isn't it right to study for the sake of studying?" ”

Qin Lao Niang explained to her: "There is nothing wrong with it, but studying for the sake of studying is bound to be very hard." And studying for the sake of interest is as good as it gets. ”

It seems that this is the truth, Grandma Yu thought for a while, and was about to bow her head, but Qin Lao Niang already smiled and said: "However, when I listen to the third child in our family teach the children, I often say that reading is still far from enough, and you have to learn to think carefully and understand it well." For example, in "Hundred Grasses", those who belong to the Ministry of Water must be attributed to the Ministry of Water, and those who are from the Ministry of Fire must be attributed to the Ministry of Fire. In the same way, there is so much knowledge in every book, and if you don't make an induction, it is not only easy to forget, but also useless. Only by connecting the new knowledge gained each time with the old knowledge can these learnings take root in the heart and bear fruit. ”

Qin Lao Niang's words were just feelings, but they made Grandma Yu feel that it was even called "listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years".

It is not easy to read, she knows this, and she has always admired the reader who reads and writes the words of the book, but it is the first time in her life that she has heard about the doorway of reading, and she is convinced.

He was full of praise for Qin Lianbao, and said: "No wonder I am far away in Lianxi, and I have heard that some big families want to invite my uncle to be a western seat and teach their children in the family!" ”

Thinking of his own Fang Qing and Mai studying with Qin Lianbao, he felt more and more that although the two little boys were not too young, how could they study too little, and it was better to study for two more years while they were not too old. Otherwise, after shouldering the major tasks of livelihood in the future, there will be no such leisure.

Qin Lao Niang shook her head and said, "That family, don't mention it." I guess I didn't know where to hear it, and I decided that the third child had a knack for studying, so I was determined to invite the third child to be the West Seat, but the third child didn't think about this road at all, so he politely refused at that time. But the family decided that the third child was taking Qiao, because they were not satisfied with the restraints, and they came several times one after another, no matter how they said it, they couldn't believe it, so they couldn't take it lightly. ”

"And such a thing?" Grandma Yu only heard that many people now want to invite Qin Lianbao as the Xixi, but she didn't know that there was such a thing, and she couldn't help frowning.

Qin Lao Niang looked at it and hurriedly said: "But it's not in the way, that family is just a straight intestine with tendons to the end, it's not very bad." ”

Grandma Yu bowed her head when she heard this, but she still said to Mrs. Qin: "If there are really any difficulties and grievances, just go to the house to complain, and some people support the family!" ”

Now that Lianxi is full of people, who doesn't know that the Fang family especially likes the Qin family, one of the top rising families in Lianxi for so many years.

If you know this, you still dare to embarrass the Qin family, then it is obvious that you can't get along with the Fang family!

She's lived for more than fifty years, and she's never seen anything so daring!

Mrs. Qin has been friends with Grandma Yu for nearly 50 years, and she is obedient and listening, and she understands Grandma Yu's unfinished meaning.

After a little hesitation, he could only say tentatively: "Sister, have you ever thought about giving the children a future?" ”

Grandma Yu was stunned for a while, and didn't come back to her senses for a long time: "What is the future?" ”

Now that the words have been spoken, there is no room for them to be taken back, so Qin Lao Niang simply said bluntly: "Actually, what I said is not appropriate, it is not so much the future, it is better to let the children do what they want to do." As he spoke, he asked Grandma Yu: "Sister, have you ever thought about leaving the country?" ”

As soon as these words came out, Grandma Yu looked at Mrs. Qin fixedly, and only after a while did she sigh faintly and shook her head at her: "I won't tell you anything, watching our children end up studying, I am not envious in my heart." However, not to say that the Fang family is kind to us, only to say that after leaving the country, what do we rely on to live? ”

Grandma Yu said, couldn't help but sigh again, took a sip of the hot tea handed over by Mrs. Qin, and then continued: "You also came out of the mansion, and you know that only ordinary people and even big rich people have rushed to attach themselves with thousands of family wealth, and when have you heard that there are servants who are willing to leave their homes. Why? In addition to repaying the favor, it is not for the shelter in the house, everything is not worried, and in the end it is not for this shelter. ”

Then he talked about the flood of that year: "...... If the wind and rain are smooth, it will be fine during the peaceful years, and some people are indeed envious of the comfortable days of the ordinary people outside, and feel that people do not need to be reprimanded, they can make decisions in their own affairs, and they do not need to intrigue in the house, and if they are not careful, they will let people give disaster, and there are a hundred and ten benefits...... But to catch up with such natural and man-made disasters and try again, those of us who have the protection of the main family, if we should fight, it is really not worrying, we should eat and drink, we should eat and drink, we are not short of food, clothing, and daily life, and even we have a share of escape. But look at the flat-headed people outside, they even have to boil at home. If you can survive it, you will stumble and live, but if you can't survive it, you will die. Let's not talk about it from afar, let's just say that the good children in our family, whether it is wheat or Luo Ji Wenqi, aren't they all such a broken family! I've heard that Wen Qi's child's family is not very small. You see, such people almost broke their incense under natural disasters, not to mention the ordinary people. ”

"What's more, Rao is in good weather, and the people are easy to do?" Grandma Yu patted Qin Lao Niang's hand as she spoke: "You know much more about the difficulties here than me." ”

Old Lady Qin nodded when she heard this.

is indeed what Grandma Yu said.

But there are so many things in this world that have the best of both worlds.

Grandma Yu looked at Mrs. Qin and nodded, somehow in her heart, she finally breathed a sigh of relief, and continued: "What's more, our family has been begging for a living in the house for several lifetimes, my eldest Lang and Erlang have all the monthly silver in the house, and I and the Xu family also have rice noodles every month, and my old man's share of the silver has not been broken, the second family is far away in the capital, I and the boss are decent, and there are more than 100 taels of silver a year." But if we get out of the country, what do we have to rely on to make a living, but it is easy to make a living from farming! ”

He also said: "It may not be difficult to get out of naturalization, but after you get out of naturalization, it may be difficult to get naturalized." ”

She really felt panicked when she said it.

Mrs. Qin looked at Grandma Yu, and at this moment, she could also understand Grandma Yu's feelings.

For example, before she started to operate Baiqin, she also hesitated, worried that this seemingly golden Yangguan Road was actually a point of no return.

To put it bluntly, she was scared.

Fear of change.

I am afraid that they will change and lose their existing comfortable life because of this little celery, I am afraid that they are not able to make changes, and I am afraid that they are not able to bear the price of this loss......

But the facts in front of her told her that whether it was the road or the road, it was all walked by people.

Their lives over the years have also been full of all kinds of unknowns and variables, but it is precisely because they have controlled the direction of the road that they have today, and they have the family to go uphill today.

Tell Grandma Yu these heart-to-heart and lungs: "We are already half-cut people who have fallen into the ground, and this life is like this, but the children are still at the right time, should we give them more opportunities to choose." In our words, try to do what you want to do instead of being forced to make a living......"