"How's life like after marriage?" Lao Liu asked Zhao Xiaocui at lunch, "It feels like that, suddenly there is one more person, and I am not very adaptable." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info""What can you do, the other party is your husband.。 "I know, but there's always a process of adaptation." "Do you go home and cook every day?" "No, it's all solved outside, but on weekends I buy groceries and cook some food, and I don't have time to do it because I'm too nervous." "Then whoever goes home early can do it, otherwise eating out every day is neither nutritious nor interesting, and life will have to run in with each other." "Well, thank you for the advice. Uncle! "Have you ever planned to have a baby?" "What are you kidding? Want to have a baby now? I'm in a hurry. "You young people, you are not in a hurry to reduce the freshness rate of our country." "Chen Jing, look at it, look at the face that is beaten up." "No, you don't have children and you don't mean to talk about others." "My situation is different, my wife is still studying, you are all working people, it's time to think about it, it's not good for women to be too old to have children." "It's not your turn to worry about this." Zhao Xiaocui and Chen Jing glanced at Lao Liu, and he didn't squeak again. However, Lao Liu's point of going home to cook reminded Zhao Xiaocui that after all, if you are already married, you have to have a good life, and you can't live the life of a single person like now.

When she got home that night, Zhao Xiaocui said to Zhang Liang very seriously: "Come and sit down, we are going to hold our family's first family meeting." Zhang Liang saw Zhao Xiaocui's serious expression, thinking that there was something big and quickly sat down, Zhao Xiaocui couldn't help but feel funny when he looked at him, "Okay, don't be so nervous, it's not a big deal, it's just some views on our current life, does Comrade Xiao Zhang have any suggestions?" "Suggestions? No, isn't it good now? "But don't you think that our current life is just two bachelors living together, and it doesn't look like a family at all." "I haven't thought about it yet." "So, today's meeting is on this issue, you will think about how to live like a family, I will pour a glass of water and come back and tell you what you think." Zhao Xiaocui poured water out, she saw that Zhang Liang was scratching her head, she knew that he didn't have an opinion, but she still had to ask, "How is it?" What's the view. "Uh, so I'll tell you what I think?" "Okay, let's talk!" "First of all, I think it's good now, I'm used to being free and casual in the past, and now I have someone around me and a little self-restraint, anyway, the family must ask you to handle it more, and I will do what you say." "What is this called, I asked you to suggest that you didn't say anything." "Did I tell you?" "What did you say?" "It's all up to you." "Hey, you're really going to find leisure for yourself, since that's the case, then I'm welcome." "Well, you're welcome."

Zhao Xiaocui took a sip of water and said slowly: "First of all, breakfast can't be eaten outside, breakfast outside is neither clean nor nutritious, and in the future, you can get up every morning and bake some bread slices to make eggs or milk, in short, it is okay to eat breakfast at home, and it is OK to purchase bread and other ingredients in advance on weekends, is this okay?" "Yes, yes, yes." "Okay, then I'll move on to the second point." "Okay, you say." "The second point is to cook at home at night, of course, when you don't work overtime, the arrangement of dinner is who goes home early and who buys vegetables and cooks, and when you go home late, you brush the pot after eating, is there a problem?" "No" "I can't do it, but I have to study hard and think more about my family, is there a problem?" "Nope." "The third point is to save money, now I have no idea how much money is a month at home, but from this month onwards, in addition to the mortgage and necessary expenses, other money must be saved, after all, there are still many places to use money in the future, and now we must start." "Okay, I'm okay with that." "The fourth is to show a little bit of life, work has work, life is also to live life, to put it bluntly, there must be this family in the heart, there must be each other, and it can no longer be as casual as before." "Well, I know, I agree with that." "Okay, all I can think of at the moment are these four points, can you listen to it and see if there is anything to add?" "No, I think it's all good, you're very thoughtful." "Well, let's do it according to this." "By the way, there is also the division of housework, what do you like to do or what housework are you good at?" "I don't have any problems, I can sweep and mop the floor." "Then I'll clean the table and the kitchen and bathroom." "Yes" "But sometimes you have to help me too" "Well, that's for sure. "Okay, then it's decided, I have bought bread in the supermarket after work today, eggs and milk, and it will be officially implemented tomorrow, whoever gets up early will be responsible for breakfast." "Yes."

After chatting with Zhang Liang, Zhao Xiaocui felt that married life was not easy, it was not simple at all, the relationship between two people should be balanced, the families of both sides should be balanced, and even housework should be balanced. The same is true for cooking, before making it yourself, eating by yourself, now it is nothing more than more than more pairs of chopsticks, but you also have to divide labor, what does this mean? Explain that you don't love each other? Why do you want to get married? To put it bluntly, he cares too much about his own gains and losses, and he is unwilling to pay for nothing, which is the selfishness of human nature.

But this thing is different from another angle, unwilling to do it yourself in order to cultivate everyone's family concept, after all, the family is not who is alone, you can't work hard alone, and the other person always enjoys the ready-made, this is one of them, the second is to have a deeper understanding of family life with sharing, only when two people work together for one thing can this thing get better and better, why not the family? Bear together, share together, build this home together and lay a solid foundation, so that you can have the ability to face the wind and rain in the future, if you don't have this awareness now, what will you do in the future? The days have to be more prosperous and not more miserable.

Look, look, people just do this, they will find a high-sounding statement for themselves in everything, no matter what the purpose behind it is, at least it sounds good, and it looks good to say, family life is like this, not to mention work? (To be continued.) )