Chapter 9 Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man
After Shen Jiarou said goodbye to Tsinghua GG, she fell into deep contemplation. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info She is indeed not as simple and simple as she seems on the outside, and she has also had the idea of cheating many times in the five years of marriage to Liu Wangsun.
Shen Jiarou had love for Liu Wangsun, and she was also full of happiness at the beginning of her marriage. The two met at a public welfare dating event, when Liu Wangsun was standing among a large number of men, and Shen Jiarou still noticed him at a glance. He was wearing an ordinary white shirt and jeans, but he was so tall and handsome, as if he stood out from the crowd. At that time, Shen Jiarou was 25 years old and was being forced to marry by her parents, and Liu Wangsun's parents were 70 years old, and the pressure of forced marriage was a little more urgent than herself. At that time, she pursued Shen Jiarou, and she could choose to have a businessman with tens of millions of assets who was ten years older than her, Zhou Wen. Zhou Wen's appearance was not good, and Shen Jiarou was not satisfied. But fortunately, he is gentle and considerate, and he is very good at taking care of people.
When Shen Jiarou's parents heard that he was ten years older than their daughter, they all voted against it. Tens of millions of assets are not only not a plus or a minus, Shen Jiarou's father told Shen Jiarou in a serious tone: "Rich people don't have a good thing, they know how to play with women." Shen Jiarou belongs to a poor girl, since she was a child, except for studying, everything has been taken care of by her parents, from choosing a school to what clothes to wear, she can't do anything, and she has always lacked assertiveness and ability. I didn't question how much of my honest and honest father's understanding of the truth of this world could be? In fact, even if you think about it with your toes, you know that marriage is far more risky for Zhou Wen than Shen Jiarou. What kind of family produces what kind of children, it is really true. The vision of the parents, thinking directly affects the vision of the child, and it is not necessary to go through extraordinary hardships to realize the new life of Nirvana.
The appearance of Liu Wangsun completely broke off the contact between Shen Jiarou and Zhou Wen, Liu Wangsun was quiet on the surface and said very little, but he was decisive and domineering at the critical moment. When Shen Jiarou answered the businessman's call, he suddenly grabbed the mobile phone and said, "I am Shen Jiarou's boyfriend, and we are about to get married, please stop harassing my fiancée." After speaking, he deleted the person's contact information in front of Shen Jiarou.
Shen Jiarou was naturally very angry about Liu Wangsun's actions, but thinking that her parents didn't agree with her to continue dating Zhou Wen, she didn't quarrel with Liu Wangsun anymore. Compared with Zhou Wen, who has tens of millions of assets, his parents seem to have a good impression of Liu Wangsun, who has an average background in work.
Shen Jiarou only mentioned it once, and they kept saying that it was good, and asked Shen Jiarou to take it home and show them it.
Several times, Shen Jiarou was really pushed by her parents, so she had to take Liu Wangsun home to deal with it. Liu Wang's grandson's appearance was dignified, which naturally attracted praise from the neighbors, and Shen Jiarou's parents felt that their faces were bright. There has always been a custom of early marriage in rural areas, and their most worried daughter will become an old girl, who will be talked about in front of the villagers and unable to raise their heads. As soon as Liu Wangsun appeared on the front foot, they were impatient to marry their daughter like a task.
Shen Jiarou's marriage was completed under the urging and coercion of both parents, and the whole process was hurried and simple, just like completing the task. At that time, she was not mature and independent at all. If she persists enough, wait a little longer, and maybe the real destiny will appear. It's just that her parents urged her to get married, so that her whole state was anxious, and she accepted her fate in a daze, and people always have to get married. Since Shen Jiarou doesn't want to go back to her hometown and doesn't want to live the same life as her parents, she can only compromise appropriately and find someone who works in Shanghai to marry as soon as possible. Although Liu Wangsun has a good appearance and graduated from a regular university, his hometown is in the western mountains, and his work in Shanghai is not good. Shen Jiarou always had some unease in her heart. On your own terms, if you wait a little longer, it may not be difficult to meet someone who is satisfied with all aspects. But time does not give her the right to choose.
Although Liu Wangsun was empty-handed and had nothing, he was born a high-minded and arrogant person. Shen Jiarou felt in her heart that she was getting married, and Liu Wangsun didn't realize that she was Gao Pan. Shen Jiarou was thinking that if it weren't for her parents, she wouldn't have married Liu Wangsun. For this hasty marriage, Liu Wangsun also has similar thoughts. For the ideal other half, who is almost a perfect goddess in his imagination, Shen Jiarou is very good, but it is still far away. Perhaps it is because both parties feel that they are wronged, and they are uncompromising with each other, and they are too pretentious, and this marriage has not been sweet and exciting from the beginning. Liu Wangsun is only one year older than Shen Jiarou, and he is a 26-year-old hairy young man. Both sides are so young and vigorous, uncompromising with each other, so self-righteous and self-reckless. It is also destined that this marriage will be a tragedy from the beginning.
Shen Jiarou still remembers that when she moved into Liu Wangsun's residence and looked around at the rental room, she had a lot of flavors in her heart, but she was so aggrieved that she wanted to cry on her happy day. Although she was mentally prepared, she really didn't expect Liu Wangsun's economy to be so poor. After all, every time Liu Wangsun appeared in front of him, he was still dressed brightly, and he was willing to spend money for himself. In broad daylight, the lights were on in the room, but it was still a little dim. The dark red old furniture, the old-fashioned appliances, except for the computer in front of the computer desk, there is not even a single fashionable thing. Shen Jiarou finally understood why Liu Wangsun always didn't let him come over for various reasons.
Shen Jiarou's heart was as uncomfortable as stuffing a ball of cotton, Liu Wangsun told him a lie, he would never have a monthly salary of 8,000, Shen Jiarou had a feeling of being deceived. Liu Wangsun's handsome face lost any vividness in front of the broken house and old furniture. In fact, from that moment on, Shen Jiarou regretted it a little. It's just that they have already obtained the certificate under the urgent urging of their parents, and whether they hold a banquet or a wedding or not, they are already legally husband and wife. Shen Jiarou couldn't keep up her spirits at all, Liu Wangsun was troublesome, and secondly, he spent a lot of money when chasing Shen Jiarou, and now that he had received the certificate, there was no need to waste it, and he was not in the mood to look at Shen Jiarou's somewhat gloomy face, so he invited a few of his college classmates to have a meal in the restaurant together.
Liu Wangsun asked Shen Jiarou to call her girlfriends as well, Shen Jiarou didn't hit any of them, she was afraid of being seen as a joke by others, and now she feels that she is simply a joke. In fact, what made Shen Jiarou so angry was not Liu Wangsun's poverty, but his deliberate deception of himself. With Liu Wangsun, although Shen Jiarou has hesitation and too many external factors of her parents, she can make up her mind to marry, and the most important thing is that she also has a good impression of Liu Wangsun.
If Liu Wangsun can put himself in Shen Jiarou's shoes, be more considerate and take care of her, and communicate well with everything, the two may not be able to live for a long time. Liu Wangsun Bisheng was an extremely arrogant person, who never bowed his head, and had all kinds of reasons to justify his deception. Shen Jiarou's parents have disciplined her strictly since she was a child, which also caused her to be weak and timid by nature, not good at expressing herself, and holding all kinds of dissatisfaction in her heart.
Every time Shen Jiarou quarrels, as long as the old thing is brought up: "You lied to me...", Liu Wangsun fought back without relenting, he was always so upright and always so aggressive.
Shen Jiarou didn't bother to mention it again several times, and even had no strength to quarrel with him. There is still a quarrel between husband and wife, which shows that the two are still in love. The most terrible thing is indifference, the tiredness of feeling tired even to look at each other.