Chapter 354: Postpartum Depression
Zhang Yahua raised his head, looked at him in disbelief, and pointed at himself, "I'm unreasonable? Ha, Li Tianchen, you finally told the truth, since I gave birth to Yaya, you have looked at me everywhere I don't like it, right? ”
Seeing that the two were arguing, how could the people outside still be able to sit, Li Cuixia pushed the door in and pulled Li Tianchen, "Don't make any noise, look at the child." Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info"
She is also very tired in her heart, it is easy to come once, and she also encountered a fight between the two.
"Third brother, don't say a word, my sister-in-law is still in confinement!"
Li Tianchen went out with an ugly face, Zhang Yahua sat on the bed alone and cried, "They all bullied me, don't you think I gave birth to a girl?" ”
Li Cuixia sighed, sat next to her and persuaded her, "Third sister-in-law, don't cry, if you cry again, you will have to sit down and get sick." Is there anything you can say no? Besides, my mother and my third brother don't think about the girl you gave birth to! You are thinking on your own, you see, if they dislike you, can my mother serve you so carefully? Can my third brother run back every day at noon? ”
She persuaded softly, Zhang Yahua's crying slowly became smaller, Li Cuihua brought a big bowl of brown sugar millet porridge, four boiled eggs, and a big bowl of crucian carp soup in, "Don't cry, if you cry again, there should be no milk, hurry up, drink this soup, otherwise, it will be you two who will suffer." ”
Li Tianchen went out, the old lady hated the iron and said to him, "It's all what you are used to her, look at this day, she is about to become Lafayette, I am so old to serve her and not fall down, your sister has not come once in eight lifetimes, specially came to give her milk, look at her attitude, what can't wait for your sister to leave?" What is this for, it's obvious to be a pander? ”
He was upset, he didn't want to listen to his mother's nagging, he really wanted to leave, but the little sister came to ......
He sighed, sat down at the dinner table, and said in a muffled voice, "Mom, don't say it, she is also a confinement holder, not deliberately targeting the little sister." ”
The old lady glared at him angrily, "You are unproductive, you know how to talk like your daughter-in-law." ”
He didn't speak, picked up the meal, and ate it in a big gulp, feeling uncomfortable, and eating so fast, Li Cuijie was afraid that he would choke, and said vigorously: "You slow down, eat slowly, no one robs you, what are you anxious about!" ”
Li Tianchen put down his rice bowl and stood up to leave, thinking that he hadn't talked to his little sister yet, just as Li Cuixia persuaded the third sister-in-law for a while, and came out after watching her eat.
"Third brother, are you going to work? You wait a while before you go, I have something to say to you. ”
Li Tianchen smiled bitterly: "I was also about to tell you, Mom, you can only cook Yahua's meal alone at night, and then we will go to the hotel." ”
"Let's go to Qingqing's house and talk," she thought for a moment and lowered her voice and said, "Mom and eldest sister should also come in and listen!" ”
"What do you have to go into the house to say?" The old lady was reluctant to follow up, and muttered, "God is mysterious." ”
The old lady's words were purely habitual, everyone should not have heard them, and when she entered the house, she closed the door and looked at a few people before saying, "I think the third sister-in-law is afraid that she has postpartum depression." ”
"What? What is childbirth, what is postpartum, what is depression? When the old lady heard that she was sick, she cried out first.
"Mom, you make a small noise, and let my third sister-in-law hear it again."
"Little sister, what you said is true? How do you know? He was still skeptical of Xiaomei's words, and Xiaomei was not a doctor, how could she understand this disease.
"Third brother, I think it's right, do you know a doctor, you can let them take a look." She explained to everyone, "The reason why I think so is because there is a woman in my unit, who also has this disease, and she makes trouble every day after giving birth, which is not worth that, and she quarrels with her family at every turn, and later, the doctor said that she has postpartum depression." ”
"So, what should I do? This kind of disease will not be bad for Yaya! Although the old lady is not very proud of the little girl, such a young child is also her own granddaughter.
Li Cuixia felt a little complicated in her heart, thinking that her mother was very good to her grandchildren other than Dabao; I couldn't help but feel sorry for the children of Yi'an's eldest brother's family.
"It's okay, the third sister-in-law just can't control her emotions. In fact, there is nothing difficult about this disease, there are a lot of pregnant women now, as long as you communicate more and coax her more. She remembers that her colleague's husband told them that.
"Third brother, ask the doctor, if it is true, you have to pay attention. She is emotionally unstable, and if you don't understand it, her illness will not be alleviated, and it will be more serious. ”
"Okay, I'll take some time to ask the doctor in the afternoon." Li Tianchen attaches great importance to it, he doesn't want his wife to have any problems, the family is healthy together, this is the best,
"I said that she has been losing her temper all these days after giving birth, I thought she was so sensitive because she gave birth to a girl and was afraid that I would dislike it!" He sighed, "It was also my negligence, it would have been better to think about this earlier." ”
"How can this depend on you, who would have thought that she would have this disease after giving birth to a child? I gave birth to the five of you, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's your sister-in-law, who also gave birth to four, have you heard that she had a problem before she gave birth? I think she's always been in good spirits. This is just that you are usually too spoiled by her, and you are used to it! "The old lady is upset and thinks that everyone else is fine, why is there so many problems, and she can give birth to depression after giving birth, it's really the first time I've heard of it.
"Mom, don't say this in front of your third sister-in-law. Also, don't be outside the house what you want to say, for you can hear it clearly. Li Cuixia thought in her heart, should she advise the third brother not to let her mother come over to serve the third sister-in-law, otherwise the two of them will not like each other, can this be comfortable?
Yes, don't look at her less than half a day, she still found that there are also contradictions in most families in this family: the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Li Tianchen came home in the afternoon, "This is a friend of mine, and he said that he wanted to come over to see Yahua and the child." ”
The female doctor, who was in her forties, went in to take a look, chatted with Zhang Yahua for a while, and came out quietly.
Li Tianchen brought the people into the house and asked eagerly, "Is that it?" ”
"Yes, but it's not serious, it doesn't matter, don't be nervous." Then the doctor told him some precautions, "This disease is not a big problem, but you have to pay attention to it, mainly because of heart disease, so you must pay attention to the attitude of the family." Patients are very sensitive, and the slightest mistake will cause mood swings, so you should pay attention to what you usually talk and do. ”
Li Tianchen sent the doctor away and asked the old lady, "Mom, have you made dinner?" Let Qingqing and Dabao help take care of the children at home, let's go out to eat and talk about something by the way. ”
The old lady's eyelids drooped, "It's done, millet porridge, pig's trotter soup." ”
That's what the confinement meal is, anyone who drinks too much greasy and salty soup every day will be nauseous.
But for the sake of the child, for the sake of more milk, almost every mother who loves her child comes over like this.
"Qingqing, you and Brother Dabao are at home helping your mother watch your little sister. We'll come back and pack a few dishes for you. "I was going to take them with me at noon, but everyone left, for fear that there would be no one to take care of the children.
"Dad, don't worry, I'll change my sister's urine now." Qingqing is really rare this little sister.
After talking to his wife, everyone went to a small restaurant outside the community, "It's here, although it's small, it's quite clean, and the dishes are very good." ”
"It's all your own family, third brother, you don't have to be polite." Li Cuixia said, "If you want me to say, just eat at home." However, third brother, if you have anything to say, just say it! ”
"Eat first, and then talk about it when you're done." He ordered four dishes, this restaurant is not large, in the northeast, such small shops are usually large, and they have to be affordable enough to attract customers.
I ordered two more dishes, which I was going to take back to Dabao and Qingqing for a while, plus there was also pig's trotter soup, of course, with salt, it was also very hearty.
After eating almost, Li Tianchen looked at his mother and little sister who had already put his chopsticks away, and then carefully discussed it with his mother and eldest sister.
"The doctor said that this disease is to be in a good mood." He understood it this way, "Mom, otherwise, starting tomorrow, you won't have to come over to cook for her." ”
The old lady's face fell, "What do you mean?" Oh, do you think I gave her face? She's not in a good mood when she sees me, isn't she? Okay, I'm not coming, can't I go? ”
The old lady stood up and was about to leave, but was pulled by the eldest daughter sitting next to her, "Mom, look at your temper, the third child doesn't mean that, you listen to the third child!" ”
"Mom, it's not that I hate you, it's not that she sees you in a bad mood. I thought, she is like this, we have a pimple in our hearts, sometimes it can be shown on the face, she is sensitive, not aimed at her, she also has to think about herself. ”
"Mom, I'm still angry for you to serve her, and I can't help it. Simply, there are still ten days before the confinement is out, so let my mother-in-law come over to serve. Her own mother-in-law, what she says and does, she can't find anything to do! ”
"Can your mother-in-law come?" The old lady glanced at him with slanted eyes, "Just that little old lady's crooked strength, it's strange that she can come to serve!" ”
"If she doesn't come, I'll hire a nanny, and Yahua can't say anything about what the nanny wants when the time comes. Mom, you've worked hard these days, so you can take a good rest, and when the time comes, Yaya will ask you to see it! ”
"Mom, just listen to the third daughter-in-law, the third daughter-in-law is like this, I can't come these days, so she won't think I'm talking well." Li Cuihua was quite discerning at this time, and said busily.
The old lady didn't squeak, but her heart was not happy after all.
Li Cuixia also persuaded a few words, and finally the old lady nodded reluctantly. "Okay, I'm old, I'm annoying, I don't care about it!"
Li Tianchen looked at the eldest sister and the younger sister and smiled bitterly, and said a few good words to her mother in a low voice, "Mom, how old are you." Besides, even if you are old, your son doesn't dislike you, don't people have an old saying: there is an old family with an old man, if there is a treasure. With you, in my heart, what are you doing is like having a Dinghai God Needle, it has a bottom! ”
A few words coaxed the old lady, and she came out with a little smile on her face.