Zhao Xiaocui is the only person in the department who is currently more idle, she is indeed anxious in her heart, but she tries not to let herself show anxiety on her face as much as possible, after all, she is also a department head now, if she is too emotional, it will make the people below confused, and make everyone doubt her work ability, in fact, she has been anxious for a long time, and it has been generated when she first started working, if she is busy every day, although she is tired but fulfilling, if she is idle, she will be unconsciously anxious, There is no sense of security, as if she is no longer needed, although she herself also knows that the company is away from everyone, and it is very good, the reason is clear, but it is more difficult to do, but Zhao Xiaocui knows that it is time for her to change her mentality, otherwise she will only make herself more collapsed in the long run. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

"Zhang Liang, why do you think I'm so insecure, and it's so uncomfortable to be a little more relaxed?" Zhao Xiaocui asked Zhang Liang when he came home at night while cooking, Zhang Liang had just entered the door, and he responded first, "Wait a minute." He changed his clothes and shoes, then walked into the kitchen, took out an apple from the refrigerator, washed it and took a bite before saying to Zhao Xiaocui: "What did you just say?" "I said, how can I be so easily insecure, and it will be uncomfortable to be a little bit more relaxed." "Ah, you don't need to ask me, you're such a person." "Really?" "No, it's not why you asked me that." "Uh......" Zhao Xiaocui was asked by Zhang Liang so rhetorically, and she didn't know how to answer for a while, just when she was thinking, Zhang Liang said: "You are a person, it's not that you can't be idle, it's that you are too strong, people who want to be strong are generally insecure, this is your problem, I always hope that I can become a big hero and redeem everything, but is it really possible?" "Then you mean I don't recognize myself." "A little bit, if you are strong, you can be strong." "Then what is the difference between being strong and being strong?" "What is so strong, I hope to do a good job, do my best to do it, to be strong is to be the first, what must be done." "Why do I feel that your explanation is very......" "Don't worry about it first, it's just like this, Li'er is indeed such a reason, you have a feeling that you can't stand it when you see others are better than you, and you always want to hold back your strength to surpass others." "yes, am I like that?" "At least I think you are, it doesn't make you angry, does it?" "No, I haven't been careful about this, and I know you're saying it for my own good, but I haven't really paid attention to it." "Who will notice their own faults, their own faults are often seen by others, but they don't talk about it, of course, I think you're not a problem or a little too tired." "yes, I feel tired too, sometimes it really feels like I'm taking a vacation." "If you want to take a break, you can take a break, your department is not without you, find a time that is not very busy to rest for a while, just adjust it, I will also take a break when you are on vacation, let's go out and have a look together, and relax." "Well, I think so, vacations should help me, you don't know that everyone in the department has been busy except for me recently, and I'm really anxious to watch everyone busy every day, but I can't show it." "You, it's just thinking too much, you should do what you should do, you shouldn't do it and just look at it, why do you always put pressure on yourself, the head of the department should have a little privilege, who stipulates that the head of the department must be busy every day, that's a TV series, not reality." "Well, I understand what you said, but I can't untie the knot by myself, and I feel like I'm about to be scorched like an ant on a fire when I watch others get busy and progress." "Then go take a shower and cool down, and put out the fire by the way." "Do you really mean what I said, do you understand this metaphor?" "Look at you, I just said it casually, don't you take it seriously, this is your character." Zhao Xiaocui pouted and said to Zhang Liang: "Hmph, half a catty and eight taels!" "Alas, even if it is, you should think so now, I am married and have a husband, I can be regarded as having a home, some things can be fought but should not be as hard as before, in addition, it is also a small management in the company now, and a lot of things have to hover between managing and not caring instead of gritting my teeth and begging to do my job in vain." Zhao Xiaocui just wanted to interject, but Zhang Liang hurriedly said: "The most important thing is that you must think clearly about what you want, this is very important." For example, you wanted to get married before so you went on a blind date, and you wanted to be the director of the marketing department so hard, but now? Now that I am married and the marketing director has become a marketing director, what more do you want? Sometimes it's easy to get lost and anxious without a goal. "yes, what more? I can now say that I have a family and a job, but why is it so unproductive. "So, when we have time, let's go climb the mountain to release the pressure, empty ourselves, and make some space for ourselves to think about what we want." I've been tired lately and need to take a break. "Hahaha, I've seen through it, you're using the excuse to let me relax by yourself, it's cunning enough." "Oh, if you don't see through anything, I'll accompany you." "Okay, then let's go out for a walk this weekend, it just so happens that I haven't climbed the mountain for a long time, and it's time to exercise." "Yes."

After chatting with Zhang Liang, Zhao Xiaocui felt much more comfortable, and the reason why she liked to talk to Zhang Liang every time she encountered something was that the two of them forgot their troubles without a word. But today she remembered the most important point that Zhang Liang said: 'You must know what you want.' In fact, she also knows that she is indeed getting everything she wants now, so she is a little confused and uncertain about the future, as for the insecurity, a large part of it depends on the external environment, after all, the overall job market is not very good, although she has a foundation, but what if she loses her job one day? Although she didn't dare to look at this problem directly, she would be startled when she occasionally ran out, people are like this, they are always prone to gains and losses, I don't know if it's because of the times or because of the environment, Zhao Xiaocui remembered that her mother said a sentence: "Your generation is too tired and too hard, when we are like you, we should assign work and assign work, we should read and study, everything is arranged by the unit, although it is rigid, but everyone around is the same, a group of people just walked down together, You all seem to be in good condition now, but you are all under pressure, the house, the car, the money are all problems, and there will be problems with children in the future, I think about it, I am worried for you. At that time, she heard her mother say this, she still thought about her mother too much, and as she grew older, she realized that in fact, what her mother said still has a certain truth, after all, society has gains and losses in development. (To be continued.) )