My heart is no less sorrowful than my astonishment! There is not only regret and reluctance for the third brother-in-law, but also distress for the third sister! For so many years, the third sister has lived alone with her children, what kind of days are those days? Without a man's home, you have to do everything yourself, and no one can count on it. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info After a day of hard work, or if you are wronged, you don't even have someone to talk to, how desolate and helpless is that?

Next, my husband and my third sister's colleagues ran to the traffic police team to deal with the aftermath of the third brother-in-law. The second sister also arrived at the hospital soon, with the second sister, I feel more steady, I can discuss with the second sister when I encounter something, and my brother and eldest brother-in-law also came two days later. Upstairs and downstairs are taken care of from time to time, and the six-year-old nephew only needs to eat and someone tells a story.

The third brother-in-law's parents came, because they needed to deal with the aftermath and needed something such as a household registration book, or they had more things to consider, so they insisted on telling the third sister the news that the third brother-in-law had died in a car accident.

As a relative of the third sister, of course, the husband has to consider the next treatment of the third sister, and he said to the parents of the third brother-in-law with pleading: "Aunt, uncle, can you not tell the third sister first?" After all, she was seriously injured, does this affect the treatment? Although the third brother-in-law is gone, their son is still there, the third sister is the first guardian of the child, can you wait for the sake of the child and let my third sister know the truth after a while? ”

The father of the third brother-in-law glanced at her husband dissatisfiedly: "What's the use of having eye sockets when the eyeballs are gone?" My eldest son is gone, who do you count on when we get old? ”

My husband was speechless, there was no way, so I had to comfort the frightened me: "It's okay, sooner or later, you have to know, it's good to know now, so that we won't be able to explain to the third sister in the future." ”

Soon there was a mournful cry in the ward, and I dare to say: It was the only time in the third sister's life that she could not help herself and undisguised her gaffe in front of others. The person who loved her, loved her, relied on her, gave him happiness and joy, the most important person in her life was gone, and disappeared forever without the premise that her relatives were not a little mentally prepared!

What is left is sadness and desolation! The sad voice of the gods and ghosts is really painful! There is no other sound except the cry of sorrow, as if even heaven and earth are listening to the heart-wrenching sorrow, that kind of sorrow rings in the ears from time to time, if heaven and earth are affectionate, they should also grieve for it?

This is the earth-shattering ghost god! I had already cried bitterly, and I couldn't imagine that I would be separated from my young third brother-in-law like this. And the third sister's originally happy home was destroyed in an instant, and the two loving people flew apart like this, this is the death that makes people break their hearts!

After the grieving third sister cried, she didn't speak all morning, lying on the bed alone and silently licking the sadness in her heart, and more tears could only turn into a stomach of bitter water. In the blink of an eye, a person who was still full of vigor and vitality suddenly became so haggard that it made people feel sad and sad, and it really made people can't bear to look at it directly!

In the afternoon, probably numb with grief, the third sister began to speak: "Your third brother-in-law was abnormal a few days before he left, he suddenly made dumplings for his parents at home, and then went home to see, and went to our house by the way, and returned 200 yuan to Xiaojun for no reason (Xiaojun is my brother)." The first few days the people in the unit told me that he was abnormal and asked me what was the matter? ”

The third sister twisted her head to the side of the wall, wiped away the tears that kept pouring out of her face, and said in a choked voice: "He is usually very lazy, but he has been diligent in recent days, and he has cleaned up the office neatly. On the first two days of the accident, he was on night duty at the unit, and the person on duty with him told me that he didn't sleep in the middle of the night, and that he ran to the mountains to see endlessly in the distance......"

I was shocked all of a sudden, I once heard someone say: people who are dying seem to have their own senses, know that they are going to die, and they can't help but "look at the way". Looking at it this way, there is already a certain number in the dark, and the third brother-in-law is destined to have this catastrophe! I can only comfort myself with my life, and I really can't accept this outcome.

The third sister showed unimaginable strength, and her son became the pillar of life. She can only comfort her grief through memories.

"A few days ago, I had my birthday, and he specially ordered the song "Holding Hands" on the radio" The third sister couldn't cry when she said this: "Maybe holding hands, the previous life may not be easy to walk, maybe there is a companion road, this life will be busier, so holding hands with a hand, the next life will have to walk together, so with a companion road, there is no time to look back,...... I didn't know the song before, but this time I didn't know ......"

In this life, there is a fate to be able to love and get together, but the fate is so short, in the end, it will be separated by yin and yang, and there is still such a long way to go, but it is a road without a companion, who is it busy? The road of this life has not come to an end, do you expect the next life? I can only hope that there will really be an afterlife!

The psychology of the third sister must be waiting, she is persistently raising her son alone, and it is her deep love that supports her. I don't know if there is a reincarnation in life? Is it really possible to fulfill the unfulfilled wishes of the previous life in the next life? A person's sincerity and perseverance should be able to move the heavens, right?

Let the tears flow, I feel that my heart is really completely broken, you can imagine, what will the third sister's heart be broken into? Every tear is heavier than blood, there is not even a mental preparation, and the living good people say that they are gone, how can this be accepted?

After crying for a while, the third sister sobbed and said: "I'd rather he is disabled, even if he can't take care of himself, I am willing to serve him for the rest of his life, as long as people are stronger than anything else!" If divorce can keep him, I'd rather we divorce than just let him go, at least the others are still in the world, and the son still has the father! He just left us behind......"

Or what she thought in her heart was: If I had a choice, the person I would rather go to be me, on the long road of life, losing my beloved, and living alone and miserable, what is needed is a kind of strength and courage that very people can have, and it is a hundredfold and a thousand times harder and more sad! The dead are long gone, and it is the living who suffer and suffer! It's easy to die, it's hard to live!

The third sister is born to be strong, it seems that God arranges everyone's destiny and tailors it to everyone, because the third sister is strong and outstanding, so she has to endure the hardships that ordinary people can't bear.

In the nearly 20 years after the death of the third brother-in-law, the third sister was both a father and a mother, raising her son with hard work, never complained in front of her son, and did not show a trace of grief and suffering.

At that time, because I was worried that the treatment of the third sister would be affected, I hated the parents of the third brother-in-law. Now I think about it that I was too selfish and ignorant, and I only thought about things from the perspective of my relatives, but I didn't put myself in the shoes of others to see things. After all, people have lost their beloved sons, and their hearts will never be less than ours!

Later, within a few years, the third brother-in-law's mother passed away, and she must have missed her beloved son and was too sad, which led to her premature death. If her beloved son is still alive, she will definitely live a healthy and happy life! I can only occasionally say sorry to my third brother-in-law who is already in Huangquan! At that time, I did not understand the grief of the old man.

Dad also came that day, he already knew the whole thing, looked at the third sister lying on the hospital bed, said a few words, and then walked out of the ward, crying in the corridor where no one was. Looking at my devastated father, I couldn't control my tears anymore, and I have been depressed and depressed for many days, always wanting to cry happily!

In my memory, except for seeing my father cry when my grandmother died, and only that time I saw him so sad, of course I know that my father is not only sad for the third sister to be injured, he is sad for the most tragic experience in his life experienced by his proud third daughter, and he is sad and worried about the future life of his own daughter.

Dad returned home on the same day, and soon his nephew Tianhao was discharged from the hospital, and his brother took him back to his mother's house to take care of him, and only the third sister was left in the hospital to take care of him. The eldest brother-in-law has experience in taking care of people, and my second sister and I have not experienced these things.

The third sister had surgery for a comminuted fracture of her leg, and nails were inserted into the bone, and the ankle bone only lost a large piece of flesh, which required skin grafting from other parts of the body. After the operation, the third sister lay on the hospital bed except for the head, the upper body can move slightly, and the lower body can not move at all, the third sister said to me with a painful expression: "I always lie down like this, my back is wooden, and my eldest brother-in-law is careful, and he stretches his arm to my back, which feels much more comfortable." ”

I learned a trick and stretched my arm under the third sister's body every once in a while to live blood for her. The second sister is quite thoughtful in taking care of people, but she sleeps a lot at night, and she puts a mattress in the gap between the two beds and falls asleep, which makes the old lady complain about her: "Is she waiting for the patient to come or sleeping?" Heartless enough! ”

The third sister was a little reluctant to go, and explained to the old lady: "She is tired from a busy day of work, and she can't sleep well here, and now I have nothing to do, let her rest." ”