In my husband's words: I love to worry about the sky and mediocrity, I don't have anything to worry about, I worry about others when I have nothing to do, I worry about this and worry about that, I always have the heart to. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

I am worried about the situation of everyone in my family, and I am also worried about my husband's family. The first thing I think of every New Year's Day is that my mother-in-law is old and misses her son, so I always have the cheekiness to ask for leave, go home early to accompany the elderly, and spend as much time as possible, I think this is also the simplest thing I can think of and do.

There are so many things that happen every time I go home, and they are all the same, the same thing, all of them are chilling things that happen around the house. I finally learned the power of property, he can really turn brothers against each other, and can make relatives enemies.

Although there are still some impressions of the small things that happened during this period, they are too complicated to mention one by one, but I will recall the most profound things in my memory.

That year's Spring Festival didn't seem to be disturbing, because the sister-in-law and the second sister made enemies, during the New Year, only the eldest brother had a reunion dinner together, and on the thirtieth day, the second sister's family went to her mother-in-law's house and left, and the eldest brother's family was like mushrooms after the rain, and they came out all of a sudden. They ate at the house of their mother-in-law (who was already the second sister's house, because they unanimously recognized that the house was given to her), and then the eldest brother proposed to play mahjong, which was serious.

Playing mahjong is of course the eldest brother and wife to me and my husband, of course my husband is not afraid of color, no matter what I play, my husband has his own set, the key is that I never play, my brain is not turning, but I am lucky, what do you want, so I am not afraid of them.

We played mahjong for a night, my husband and I won more than 100 yuan, and the next day, the eldest brother and his wife proposed to play poker, and we won again. I don't care about money, the key is that I'm a little cautious, no matter what I play, it's just playing for nothing, not winning or losing, if I lose the game, I will be angry.

This time I won them all, that wonderful mood will not be able to get over for a while, and when the eldest sister and the second sister come back, I will excitedly tell them the results of our play, as if winning the house and winning the land as excited.

The year passed quickly, and every Spring Festival, we have to leave our husband's insurance and medical insurance money to the eldest sister, so that she can take the time to pay social security. When I gave the money this time, I said that it was higher than the previous year.,I just know how much it has risen, I don't know how much I paid in total.,I want to take the previous year's book to look at the number and keep the money.。

On the first night of returning to Shenyang, the eldest sister said that she wanted to see the amount of money paid in the first year. The second sister took out a large cardboard box, which was full of various documents, and I picked up one book, which was my daughter's health disease, and another one, which was my husband's household registration book. My husband has a household registration book by himself, and I want to see the inside of my husband's household registration.

I curiously opened my husband's household registration book, turned to his own page, this look at my whole person was stunned, holding the household registration book and froze there for a long time without moving, the husband on the side felt wrong, took the household registration book from my hand, he took a look, and immediately turned his face: "Who got this?" ”

Everyone in the room looked at the second sister, and they could guess without saying that there was such a master's trick, and there was only the second sister who had such magical powers, and no one else could do such a big thing. I suddenly felt so terrible, I was still here, who would have thought that I had become a dead person in my hukou?

The second sister grinned: "It wasn't last year when the subsistence allowance line was strict, and it was stipulated at that time: If there is a job in the family, you can't enjoy the subsistence allowance, so I asked someone to change your household registration book to be widowed, and I thought that this time there was no problem, but there was a foundation in the computer, and when I adjusted it, I found out that my spouse had a job, and it was changed in vain!" ”

The second sister is still complacent about her vast magical powers or her own bright mind! The husband roared: "Are you poor and lost? Can you even do this kind of thing? What do you think of it? None of the people in the room squeaked.

My husband is already furious, and of course I can't say anything more. After all, they didn't lose anything, at best, it was just a joke for their family. Except for my husband and me, everyone in the family knew about it, and it was a wonderful measure of secrecy, and I didn't want to think about how many times their family had done such an amazing thing.

Although I have long understood one thing, that is, my husband's family has never regarded me as family, I just get on my husband's side and take refuge in their family. Although I have known it in my heart for a long time, I have been prepared in my heart for a long time. But after this incident, I still feel so uncomfortable, as if I was being played like a monkey.

After more than 20 years in their family, I really didn't expect that I always put myself in their shoes, always I would rather suffer losses than make them feel comfortable, and I have always suffered losses and let them take advantage of all the advantages! But the result? Do they have a little bit of reciprocation or gratitude for me?

If it's my parents who write my account like this for money, I really don't mind, because they don't believe in this at all, in their eyes, as long as they can get money, if they can or for money, they can cancel their account. But the people in the in-laws' family are different, because they believe in gods and Buddhas, and they don't easily say such unlucky words.

Let them write about any member of their family as disabled, and they won't even write it as dead, let alone dead! That's something money can't buy, and for their closest relatives, money is not the most important thing when comparing life with money. Needless to say, I don't want to say anything more, it doesn't matter who I am anymore, I don't want to stick my hot face to their cold ass anymore.

I didn't say a word all night, and the next morning I sat down in the co-pilot's seat with a calm face, and I felt reluctant to even glance at them, let alone say goodbye to them. My husband was also displeased, and he got into the car after saying a word to his mother.

Comparing my heart to my heart, if I don't give my true feelings, it doesn't matter how they treat me, I won't mind, and I won't ask others how to treat me, but I am sincere, in exchange for being hurt again and again, is it my own reason?

For a whole year, I never kicked the door of my mother-in-law's house again, and my husband refused to go home alone when he saw that I was not going, and my mother-in-law wanted her son and granddaughter to come to Shenyang. In the past, I tried my best to find a way to eliminate her loneliness, and I wanted to make the old man happy, but this time I always had a big lump in my heart, and there was always something in my heart that I couldn't let go.

I didn't do the slightest bit of disrespect or unfilial behavior, but I didn't have the heart to please anyone anymore, and I didn't even bother to say a word. My mother-in-law seems to have noticed the change in me, and she has no tears in her eyes, denouncing and abusing her daughter or son-in-law. This is called each other's confidants, right?

I didn't go back to my home that year, and I can't tell if it's good or bad, it's coming to the Spring Festival, I know that my husband is filial, if I don't go home, my mother-in-law designates that I am in a hurry, and the family will have a bad New Year. But I really don't want to go back in my heart, I really don't want to face the smug smile of the second sister.

The daughter persuaded on the side: "Mom, let's go to my grandmother's house for the New Year!" For the sake of the eldest daughter, don't worry about my aunt. ”