Qin Zijin didn't want to talk about this topic anymore. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Although she knew that running away would not solve the problem, everyone's attitude showed that they did not want to solve the problem, they just wanted to end it.

When it comes to Qin Zijin's problem, it is natural to talk about his brother's lifelong events.

The second uncle's family, the eldest aunt's family, and the little aunt's family, which are close to the Qin family, swept over at a glance, the eldest sister and the second brother of the second uncle's family have already become married, the second brother's second child is pregnant, the cousin of the eldest aunt's family is preparing for a blind date during the Spring Festival, the eldest sister of the little aunt's family has married and had children, and the second cousin is still young, so only Qin Zijin's family is left.

Qin Zijin is still not in a hurry to get married, she is only twenty-four years old, but Qin Chuan is different, he will be twenty-seven after the New Year.

For Qin's mother, she doesn't have a girlfriend at this age when she is about to run for three, and she is so anxious that she burns her eyebrows.

"The Fu family on the other side of the river is Zijin's elementary school classmate, her parents like our family very much, otherwise let Zijin invite others to play at home, you can see for yourself."

Qin Zijin was very keen on this topic, and his face was excited: "Okay, it just so happens that we haven't seen each other for several years, why don't I go tomorrow?" ”

Qin Chuan's face was expressionless: "Don't go." ”

"Why not?" Qin's mother was very puzzled, "You have been out for so many years and you don't find one by yourself, then I can only find one for you at home, and you can just take a look at the house if you are not satisfied." ”

"What's so beautiful, isn't it just two eyes, a nose and a mouth."

"That's consent?"

Qin Chuan frowned: "I don't want to look for it now." ”

Qin's mother was also anxious: "If you don't look for it now, you are almost thirty years old, the countryside is not as good as the city, and you are not a rich and powerful person, who wants to follow you when you are older!" ”

Qin Chuan smiled: "Then find an older one, or find a divorced one." ”

Qin Zijin was stunned for a moment, and then leaned back with a smile.

Mother Qin glared: "You are really promising, you can say such things!" ”

"Huh...... Then if you don't get married, it's over. ”

"Then you move to your hometown in the mountains alone, don't get in my way here."

Qin Chuan smiled and didn't speak.

"Look at it, the most important thing now is the two of you, Zijin is a little better, you don't care about yourself, you see your former classmates nearby, the children are all there, you don't even have a partner, you are not in a hurry, I will help you die in a hurry!"

A sentence suddenly sounded in Qin Zijin's mind: Other people's children can make soy sauce, she suddenly laughed, and she spoke.

"Other people's children can make soy sauce, and you are not married yet."

Mother Qin obviously didn't understand where the joke of this sentence was, but it didn't prevent her from finding an alliance: "That's the reason, if you don't worry, you really can't find a partner." ”

"If you can't find it, you can't find it, anyway, I'm not in a hurry, what's so good about getting married so early." Qin Chuan pursed his lips and disagreed.

"Where is it early, you don't look at how old you are, it's still early! If you don't get married when you're old, others will think there's something wrong with you, and you won't be able to find it at that time! ”

In contrast, Qin Zijin was also very unimpressed.

As the saying goes, sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and gossip about others, which is completely dispensable for most rural people who have not received much education.

The greatest pleasure in their small talk is that the parents of others are short, and right and wrong.

The three of them became tigers, and the rumors were together for a long time.

Moreover, Qin Zijin found that the people in his hometown still have some habits of comparison. I didn't think it was when I was young, but now I realize that adults like to compare children from other families.

When chatting in the east of the village, he mentioned that his children were working outside and how much their monthly salary was, and the people in the west of the village said that their children sent money to themselves every month, and a lot of them, so he didn't send them and didn't agree, and the people in the south of the village talked about how many things their children had to buy a lot of things home every year when they went home......

Naturally, it also includes all kinds of gifts and pomp for marrying a wife, having children, marrying a daughter, etc., among which there are naturally which family's children are not angry, which family's children are old and still not married, which family's children are messing around outside, and so on.

Qin Zijin was speechless about this.

And every time she goes home, she is recognized, and she doesn't know to ask all kinds of private or unwilling questions, which makes her annoyed.

Therefore, Qin's mother was very anxious about Qin Chuan's marriage, afraid that he would not find a marriage partner when he was old.

Qin Zijin actually thinks that this is not a big deal, the times are advancing, and people's ideas are also changing, not everyone wants to enter the palace of marriage, and not everyone is in a hurry to enter marriage.

Around Qin Zijin, there are many older unmarried men and women, and life is still enjoyable.

However, Qin Zijin didn't have time to worry about Qin Chuan, because he was stubborn and stubborn, no one could easily sway his thoughts, and she was more worried about herself.

Sure enough, without waiting for Qin Zijin to think about it, the flames of war burned on him again.

Qin's mother crackled and said a lot, and seeing that Qin Chuan didn't react, she looked at Qin Zijin.

"The two of you will have to finish one within the next year, so that your father and I can worry a little less." Qin's mother looked at Qin Zijin again, "Although I have always said not to look for people from other places, in fact, I am fine, mainly your father, according to me, you just look at home, so many people want to say goodbye to our family, don't you have one who can be eye-catching?" ”

Qin Zijin was very calm: "If you want to see it early, you have to wait until now." ”

There is another reason, the hometown is basically acquainted, either classmates or alumni, Qin Zijin can't accept this kind of relationship from a familiar friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, she feels very embarrassed.

"I just don't understand, what's so good about people from other places, they don't talk about it, they can't understand what they say, they chirp crookedly, what's good! Look at your eldest sister, who was at home at the beginning, she had to marry so far, and finally found a local one, came back for lunch during the Chinese New Year, and then went home in the afternoon, how convenient. ”

Qin Zijin didn't know how many times he had heard his parents or the second uncle's own family talk about the eldest sister.

"Don't always talk about the eldest sister, now that she is married, you always say, she doesn't say it, is she happy to let others talk about it over and over again."

Qin's mother didn't speak.

In Qin Zijin's memory, the eldest sister who was in tears insisted on marrying the eldest brother-in-law, and in the end, the second uncle couldn't agree to it, but the eldest sister divorced two years ago and lent it to the locals last year.

She didn't think there was anything about it, since there was a union, there would inevitably be separation.

As long as you are worthy of yourself and this relationship, divorce is not a shameful thing.

And you can't overturn a boatload of people with one shot.

On the sixth day of the new year, Qin Zijin almost had to pack his luggage, but he didn't expect that on this day, the family ushered in two relatives, two relatives that Qin Zijin didn't want to see very much.

The aunt and sister-in-law who live in another county town came, and the movement of relatives was normal, and Qin Zijin was not a difficult person to get along with, but the problem was the other party's attitude towards the feelings of their children.

Qin Zijin is very sure that he will face another education today.

At the dinner table, Qin Zijin was full, and when she was about to put down the dishes and chopsticks and leave, a familiar question that could not be more familiar, and even the hair was repulsing reached her ears.

"I heard, Zijin, you talked about a boyfriend from out of town?" Auntie asked.

"What's so good about being out of town, I don't have a local know-how, and it's not convenient to come back later." The little brother-in-law took over the conversation and began to show his attitude towards this kind of thing, "Jing also talked about a foreign person before, so I told her no, she must break up, if she wants to find a local one, I want to leave her at home, even if she is not like your cousin Wen, she must be local, if she is willing to be at home, it will be better to build her a house next to her when the time comes." ”

Qin Zijin didn't speak, but he didn't agree in his heart.

The two daughters of the aunt's family, the eldest cousin worked outside and talked about a boyfriend from other places, but the younger sister-in-law resolutely objected, and took the eldest cousin home directly and rudely, not letting her associate with each other, and later it may be that the eldest cousin and the man have a deep relationship and are unwilling to separate, his only concession is that he can recruit relatives, but he resolutely disagrees to marry the eldest cousin to other places.

In the end, the other party is in trouble.

And her cousin of the same age as herself, Qin Zijin knew when she chatted with her that she had also talked about her boyfriend from other places, but in the end, she couldn't do it at the insistence of her parents.

"Really, the other places are not good, the living habits are different, Henan should be based on pasta, but we are mainly rice, if you get married, can you be either buns or steamed buns every day, and noodles, I heard your mother say, you don't like to eat noodles."

"This is mainly the elderly, the younger generation is basically working outside, the diet is more diverse, I haven't seen him eat pasta every day, we rarely eat pasta when we eat out."

"Didn't you just know this, it must be more accommodating to you, but after a long time, it may not be."

Qin Zijin secretly pouted, she didn't want to argue with everyone about this issue, but she couldn't let the development of the situation get out of control.

"It's just your speculation, it's mainly people, people are right to say anything, if the person is wrong, it's closer, he wants to treat you badly or not to you, even if it's because the distance won't be good to you, it's not interesting."

"You're young, you don't understand it yet."

Qin Zijin wanted to say, since you are young, don't force a blind date to get married!

Taking advantage of this opportunity, Qin Zijin left the dinner table and tried not to go to the kitchen.

When it was time for the aunt to leave, Qin Zijin naturally sent each other at the door with his parents, so the last round of oppression came again.

This time, although the aunt smiled, the words she said were far from her expression.

"Zijin, really don't marry so far, if you marry so far, don't invite me when you get married in the future, we won't go, don't hear it!"

Qin Zijin became angry in an instant, feeling that his chest was stuffy and panicked, and there was a cloud of depression churning in his chest, he couldn't suppress it, and there was anger between his eyebrows.

"You heard what I said today!" Auntie is still asking repeatedly.

Qin Zijin was really impatient this time, but she still tried her best to control her tone, after all, it was still the Spring Festival, and she didn't want everyone to make trouble unpleasantly.

"Got it!"

Watching his aunt's car leave, Qin Zijin frowned fiercely, shook his hand, and entered the room.

She's just in a relationship, why everyone's attitude is like she's done something unforgivable.

Qin Zijin knew that their starting point was good, but what they thought was good was just what they "thought", but it was not what she really needed.

Why is there no one who really cares about what she wants.