Chapter 9 Blind Date
"We broke up, in fact I was broken up..."
After listening to my story, Yoyo was filled with righteous indignation, and he must go to Wu Shuai to ask for clarification. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info "This bastard, how can he do this to you, I'll go to him and ask for clarification. ”
I closed my eyes weakly, "Forget it, I've figured it out in the past few days, and now I've experienced an episode where I was almost xxoo, I think it's good to be like this now, it's better to live well than anything else." ”
Yoyo leaned into my face and looked left and right.
"What do you see? It's not like I haven't seen it. ”
"Manman, I think you seem to have grown up all of a sudden."
"I can't grow up, eldest sister, this is life, okay, let's eat together, for your sake of taking care of me, I invite you to have a good meal today." By the way, did the guy who sent me back yesterday say what his name was? Or leave any information that can be contacted. ”
Yoyo smiled evilly, "I said why did you put it down so quickly, it turned out that you had a new goal, but this is not bad, mature and steady, and with one enemy and three, it is very courageous, isn't it?" If you want me to see him, he is better than that Wu Shuai. ”
"Getting to the point."
"The point is that nothing is left."
"Oh, forget it then, let's go to dinner."
In the days since, I have never seen Wu Shuai again, and I have never received any roses, I want to thank this graduation season now, because everyone is busy with their own futures, and no one will care about the small matter of falling out of love, after all, there are too many people who break up at this time, and the reasons are all kind, and I can't live without looking at anyone. Even I sometimes think about it. The graduation project is enough for me to have no extra time to think about anything else, and compared to marrying a rich man who has mysteriously disappeared, the current internship and job search are more realistic problems. And so my first love ended.
After two months of internship in an IT company, various job fairs, and various resumes, I finally found a job as a tester, which can be somewhat related to my major, all computers, although the salary is only more than 2,000 yuan, but I am also very happy. I spent 800 yuan to rent a small house outside, my mother also came****** I cleaned up the room, stayed with me for a few days, and saw that she would return to her hometown after I settled down.
This is the beginning of my career, and I am not a person who talks a lot and is not a person who likes to laugh so much, so I usually feel a little serious and have no sense of existence. But maybe the boss thinks I'm an honest person, serious and responsible. So it took me more than a year to establish an indispensable position in the company and find my place. It's nice to be needed, but at least it shows that you're valuable.
The days of working from 9 to 5 every day always pass quickly, and I thought I could live with peace of mind all the time, but the reality made me unavoidable. So this year's homecoming scene is like this.
Every year during the Chinese New Year, I would buy gifts for my parents, and my mother looked at me carrying large bags and small bags, but her face did not have the bright smile she used to have. "Mom, you see how suitable this dress is for you, I believe your daughter's vision will definitely not be wrong." I flattered the general and picked up the clothes to show her. Who knew that she was an old man and glanced at it.
"Not interested."
"What about this, this set of L'Oreal skin care products is good, my colleague's mother used it, and she said it was good."
glanced at it lightly, "Why am I so good at this age?" Every day in front of your dad, it's just like that if you don't maintain it. ”
I glanced at my father, it was obvious that he was not angry. My dad pulled me aside, "The daughter of an old sister of your mom got married the other day, and that's how your mom has been since she came back. ”
I'm 27 years old this year, my personal problems, my mother has told me many times, I have been in love twice in the past few years, and even brought one home to my father and mother for reference, but for some reason, once the relationship was confirmed, they broke up quickly. During the period, there were also blind dates introduced by friends and relatives, in order to thank them for their concern for me, I still went on a blind date, I thought that the first love that ended without a problem many years ago has long disappeared, but in fact it left me with serious sequelae, that is, it is difficult for me to look at ordinary people. Do you think that after eating the delicious taste of live mandarin fish, can you still eat frozen horse noodle fish? As a result, none of them came to pass, and my mother complained about me a lot for this.
"You said that Section Chief Wu, what's wrong with people, there is a house and a car, and your parents are also retired cadres, if you get married in the future, you won't have any burden, you will ignore others. There is also that Xiao Zhang, who is a school teacher, although he is in Wuxi, not as good as Shanghai, but it is also good, you can't look down on this. Now look at how old you are, the further back you go, the harder it is to find, and you still think you're 20..."
Every time my mother talked about it, she talked endlessly, and every time he would list and analyze all the objects of my blind date, so as to fully explain my unreliability. In fact, I don't look down on everything, there is one I like, but people don't look down on me, what should I do? I can't be blamed for this.
"Manful, you listen to my mother, hurry up and find a boyfriend, this woman's golden age is only a few years."
"Hey, I said don't force the child, if there is a suitable one, she can not find it."
"Yes, my dad still understands me."
"You old thing, this is my daughter's life's work, what do you know? I don't care, this time I asked a few friends to introduce you to the object, you must go and show me. ”
It turned out that he was waiting for me here, and I secretly complained in my heart, "Mom, you see that we have such a few days off for the New Year, and I have to go around the same school when I come back." ”
"This, don't worry, I've already arranged it for the day after tomorrow, in Shanghai, three in the morning, three in the afternoon, just one day, I can't delay your business." My mother looked at me schemingly, and she really lost to her.
One sunny morning, I went to a café in the town and met Mr. A. We greeted each other very friendly, and then fell silent, Jun A raised his eyes, "May I ask Miss Jin, how old is this year?" ”
"I'm 27, why didn't the introducer tell you?"
"Oh, I said, I just want to make sure, although she is a year older than me, Miss Jin still looks quite young."
I really can't bear to look directly at Mr. A's hairstyle, thinning hair, in this case, it seems that I can only choose a two-eight, he is still a little self-aware. Wearing meticulous eyes, it looks like 36 is not only, I want to go back and ask which sister of my mother introduced me, and after I go back, I will directly block her, and my vision is too bad. But I'm full of money and a well-cultivated person, and I still have to do face-saving things.
"Mr. A is really young and promising, I heard that he is a graduate student, and he studies archaeology, but I'm sorry, I made an appointment with my friend to go to dinner together."
"Yes, I'm majoring in archaeology, you know the Terracotta Army, right? Last time we passed by when we were in Hubei..."Who is interested in listening, damn, even the terracotta warriors don't know who they are and dare to come out to mix, hurry up."
Mr. B is talkative, so I'll introduce myself first when I see him. "Miss Jin, you're beautiful." Of course, anyone with eyes can see that the two of us are not a good match, I thought to myself. According to my mother, this Mr. B is young and promising, he is a teacher at a certain university, and he seems to teach mathematics, yes, he is a mathematics teacher.
"Miss Jin tells you that although I have made achievements in mathematics, my hobby is not mathematics, I like health. You know the Book of Changes, it's the one who wrote it, it's called Jin, it seems to be Jin Yong. "At your level, you are still young and promising, I am really afraid that he will tell me about the Yijin Sutra as he speaks.
People say that the matchmaker can't listen to what they say, and sure enough, at first I was interested in talking to them, and then I simply got straight to the point. "You know we're here on a blind date today, that's the case, let's get to know each other, if you're interested, we'll get in touch later, you see I've made an appointment here." Even the coffee was saved.
I was bored scrolling through my phone, waiting for the last F gentleman of the day.
"May I ask if it's Jin Manman?"
"Yes, I am, please take a seat." I don't lift my head.
"You haven't changed at all."
I looked up, and hey, this guy was a little familiar. "Aren't you Lin, Lin Feng?" He wore a woolen trench coat with a blue suit underneath, elegant and casual.
"That's right, you remember me, you're prettier than ever."
Lin Feng, my classmate in college, is also the president of our class, I haven't seen him for five years, he looks more mature than before, when he went to college, his family background was average, and then I heard that it was okay to go to Nanjing, this world is really small enough. Of course, old classmates have to have a meal together when they meet, so drinking coffee turns into dinner.
"Do you know, at that time, one of my cousins called my mother and said that she was introducing me to someone, and I was about to refuse, but I heard her say that this person's name is Jin Manman, so I came, but I didn't expect it to be you." The smile on his face was even bigger.
"Why, you probably just want to confirm if it's me, and then laugh at me for not getting married yet, right?"
"Don't get me wrong, I didn't mean that." He hurriedly waved his hand.
"Just kidding, look at what scares you." I giggled, and his face turned white.
When I got home in the evening, it was already more than nine o'clock, Lin Feng wanted to send me, I politely refused, we talked a lot all over the world, but we didn't talk about blind dates. "You're back, how's it going? Is there a picture? "My mother's first sentence was to ask me this. I didn't want to disappoint her when I looked at her expectation, "I don't know, even if I fall in love with someone else, I have to be in love with others, let's talk about it." "I was vague.
"So if you say that there is a match, that's good, which one, I'll inquire about what people mean."
"Mom, can you be reserved, people have my phone number, if you are interested, they will contact me, what are you anxious about?"
"Oh, yes, it's still my daughter's thoughtfulness, so wait." My mother laughed wryly.
My lost youth is really gone, I think how many girls envied me back then, and now I have fallen to the point where I can only marry by someone else's introduction, it's really timely, maybe sometimes I should make a choice. In fact, I have always known how to start over, one is to let time pass slowly, nothing can resist the healing of time; Another is to find a new relationship. Obviously, the current situation will not give me much time to heal my sequelae, so I am left with only one choice.