80 Is this also considered a relative?
Listening to my husband's second sister talk about what happened between her and her eldest brother, I really can't believe that it is the truth, how can this be? Is this also a loved one?
The second sister choked up with tears in her eyes and said, "Xiao Ming, you can make the matter of this house clear when you come back this time, otherwise you will die!" ”
My husband felt that the matter was very serious, and hurriedly asked, "What's wrong?" What's going on again? ”
"Big brother is worried about this house! People say, "If you have a son, how can you have a daughter?" The surname of this house is not surnamed Zhang (the second brother-in-law of the prosecutor is surnamed Zhang), he can support our mother for the elderly, and this house should belong to him as a matter of course, he has never said that he will not support his mother. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info" The second sister said a little angry and a little aggrieved.
I was upset again, thinking that he had never made a profit for the family back then, in addition to calculating his parents and calculating his younger brothers and sisters, how could he still have the face to fight for family property? In the words of my mother-in-law: "You took your father's class, how can you inherit the house?" ”
I yelled angrily, "Why is he so shameless? ”
The second sister continued: "It's not a matter of one or two days for the eldest brother to worry about the house. No, the first few days, he ate here, drank two glasses of wine there, and then mentioned the house, your second brother-in-law casually said that he would definitely serve our mother, and the eldest brother turned his face when he heard it, and smashed a rice bowl to your second brother-in-law, and your second brother-in-law tilted his head, and the rice bowl smashed on the kang, and I was holding the child on the kang, and almost smashed the child's head. ”
The second sister still has palpitations when she thinks back to the dangerous situation at that time: "The eldest brother saw that he didn't hit your second brother-in-law, so he jumped up and wanted to beat your second brother-in-law, scolding in his mouth: I* your ancestors, * your mother, do you really treat yourself as a human being?" This is my ancestor's house, when will it be your turn to speak? It's my generosity to let you stay here, I'm going to take you out to see if you dare to fart? Thanks to the presence of the eldest sister, the eldest sister was so frightened that she cried and hugged him and didn't let him do it, and then the eldest sister was so frightened that she knelt down for him, so that she could persuade him to leave. When he left, he scolded him, saying that this matter is not over! ”
What kind of thing can a big brother do? The old lady is still alive, why doesn't she care about her mother's feelings? How sad would the old lady be to see this kind of scene? How would you feel? In addition to real estate, does he still have a mother in his heart? Is this a loved one?
"Do you say that I have slept peacefully for this family for so many years? Or have you eaten any delicacies from the mountains and seas? When it was the hardest, you didn't know, the debtor blocked the door and didn't let him out of the house, the eldest brother's former daughter-in-law brought the account to the family, where to go with you, and you had to buy good food for others, but what tricks did you have if you couldn't get the money? Now that the conditions are good, there is still a fight for such a house. When Xiao Ming went to Shenyang, he said in person: He doesn't want a house, whoever still has a famine will give it to whomever he wants, and when the famine is over, no one will admit it! The more the second sister talked, the more sad she became. I'm already crying bitterly.
To tell you the truth, my husband didn't say this to me at all, he has his own opinions on many things, probably he doesn't feel the need to talk to me? I don't want to argue with him to find the back account, anyway, I didn't think about asking for his family's things, I only believe: "foreign wealth is not rich and poor people" should be mine without fighting, then the money will naturally come to the door, it doesn't belong to me, what if I break my head to fight? Or something unexpected might happen! I just want to go with the flow!
I don't want to blame my husband for anything, although it is one thing that he disrespects me when he says that, it is more because of his evasion and his irresponsibility.
My husband was also a little annoyed: "What do you say I should do?" Why don't you find all the big brothers and sisters, let's sign an agreement, and your mother will follow you in the future, and we will bear the money if there is anything to do, if our mother has a day, this house will belong to you, right? ”
The second sister wiped her tears: "Big brother can't do it, why don't you try?" ”
My husband was angry and helpless, so he simply went to work outside, and the second sister still cried with me and said, "What do you say I want to do?" Serve my father away, and then serve my mother tomorrow, and then I don't say anything about it, saying that I am supporting my parents for the house, and when the time comes, the eldest brother will not admit it if he says death, am I not a chicken and an egg? ”
I also had nothing to do, so I thought of the best way, and finally said: "If you believe Chunming's words, why don't you change the house photo to Chunming's name first, and the house must be given to him, and no one can say anything about the eldest brother and eldest sister?" Will I transfer it to you later? If you can't trust him, let him make a statement first. ”
I really overestimated my husband's status among his brothers and sisters, and thought that I would believe that he was not the kind of person who forgot his righteousness and saw money. In fact, there are too few people who can withstand the test of money and property, and they can't complain that others dare not believe it easily. However, the sentence I said was later taken out of context by the second sister, and I was really annoyed. (This is a later dispute over property, and more on that later.) )
The second sister didn't say anything, of course he couldn't justifiably say that he couldn't trust her husband, and this matter seemed to be over for the time being.
This year's Spring Festival still has no tricks, it's nothing more than the eldest brother and sister-in-law are constantly trying to find a way for the funeral expenses for the family property, and the mother-in-law looks at this daughter-in-law more and more unpleasantly, in her eyes, this ruthless and unrighteous daughter-in-law who only recognizes money is simply useless, without a piece of pitiful meat.
The mother-in-law was so angry that her lips trembled: "That wife who raised a man, the child has a cold and fever and has to pay someone to go to see it, her mother moved a grave and let everyone follow the ceremony, don't follow your eldest brother, what's the way, who let you have such an uncompetitive son?" By the way, when she moved her mother's grave, your eldest brother advanced 300 yuan for you, and the wife of the Yang Han had to say that your parents also gave you money, saying that I would give it a secret, when did I see the money you asked me to carry? ”
I was really taken aback, my parents have always been iron roosters, how could they come all the way to give money to me, for me, I haven't spoken, you have the money and are willing to make a face for me, I don't object, let me really make this money impossible, although money is not the most important, I want to see who it is for!
I was a little angry: "Let her come and ask me, don't talk about my family, even I won't give her a piece of shit, she calculates people all day long, I don't care, it's not so easy to calculate me!" It's still the same sentence, I'm not bad for money when I should spend, and I'm about less when I shouldn't spend less! ”
Of course, my husband won't buy her account, of course he knows that I'm a person who sometimes turns his face quickly, but I never do that kind of unreasonable and embarrassing thing.
The second sister and sister-in-law have reached the level of tension, and the second sister is angry when she mentions the woman: "How shameless do you say that girl?" The child has a fever, and I have to let my eldest sister and the two aunts take a look, and the money is not enough, and I have to pay 300 yuan. Not to mention, I was bitten by a scorpion, and my eldest brother had to ask me and my eldest sister to go and see it. I'll discuss it with my eldest sister, how big do you say? Just one person gave her 300 yuan, good guy, people are too little, angry, said that it was sent to call Hanako? That face was immediately put down, and as soon as my eldest sister and I came out, I was designated and scolded to death by my eldest brother! This girl counts others to spend money on her every day, why doesn't she have a penny when our mother is sick? ”
This kind of person has only heard of it himself, what kind of people are sophisticated besides money? Where can I still take care of family affection? I really don't understand what they live for? Not to mention that they will really accumulate a lot of money, if they can really keep countless properties like Grande, the key is that they have that brain, do they have that life?
Although I am biased towards the second sister in my heart, I can always say it in the big picture. No one has provoked me, so of course I don't need to wade into this troubled water!