76 The Day of Parents
A few days after returning to Shenyang with my husband, I answered my mother's phone: "Dayan, send me 6,000 yuan, I'm in a hurry!" ”
When I heard this, I was terrified, I didn't know what was going on at home? At that time, although the conditions improved, but not to the extent that there were thousands of yuan in my hands on weekdays, I was anxious to find my husband, and the two hurriedly went to the bank to withdraw the money, and directly rode a motorcycle to send it to my mother. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
When I got home and saw my mother in the house, she smiled happily when she saw us: "Did you bring the money?" ”
"Brought, what's going on, what's the urgent need for money?" I asked my mom about the money.
Mom smiled mysteriously: "I have 4,000 yuan in my hand, I will put together 10,000 yuan to deposit in the credit union, the interest is high, I told Qiao Yumin, he has the task of depositing." ”
I can't cry or laugh, I feel that I am a mere person!
Since my brother married a girl from Inner Mongolia, my parents divided half of the family's land among them, and each of them had one. My new sister-in-law is seven or eight years younger than me, and she is the kind of person who lives very carefully, and she has many sisters, and I heard from my brother that it is easy to borrow two yuan between them. I can't imagine how siblings can get along with each other when they divide money so clearly and see it so important.
In my feeling, sisters should help each other and support each other, and whoever has better conditions will help those who are poor, although it is not an obligation, it is also a due. Probably everyone thinks differently, and the way people interact with each other is also different, right?
My sister-in-law was pregnant and married, but the bride price was not less, I was really disappointed in my brother's opinion, my parents were suffering for him all day long, but he didn't have a little understanding of the old man's filial piety, I really don't know if he has a long heart?
When my sister-in-law was a few months old, my mother accompanied her to the hospital to do B ultrasound, and the rural hospital was full of relatives, and my mother found someone to see the gender of the child in my sister-in-law's womb, and when it was determined to be a girl, my mother was full of disappointment, and she said directly to her sister-in-law: "Do this, and re-conceive a boy who is designated as a boy." ”
When the sister-in-law heard this, she was angry: "I want no matter the boy or girl, I want the child." She was so angry that she ignored her mother. Mom found her brother again: "You persuade her, what else does a girl want her to do?" I did it happily! ”
My brother was also not angry: "If you are willing to say it yourself, don't tell me!" ”
Mom touched her nose and began to talk outside, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very tense. I had to persuade my mother: "Girls are girls, and if you have the opportunity to have another one in the future!" As soon as my mother heard that she was right, she stopped worrying about it.
This sister-in-law is very capable, at first she hired a car to resell the potato plant, and many people in the square area bought her potato plant, and some of them first owed the money and said that they would pay it back, and they had to pay it on credit in order to sell it. As a result, when selling potatoes, the planting that was suitable in Inner Mongolia was not suitable at all, and the potato harvest failed, and the people who bought it naturally complained, and some of the money owed to the households on credit was gone.
Entering the winter, my sister-in-law is also a master of trading, at that time, the media here was on fire, and people transported a few truckloads of media from Inner Mongolia, because the price was surprisingly cheap, and the sales volume was good at the beginning, but when I got home, I burned it, and the medium stone did not burn. The last time I was done, no one was willing to buy the media they sold anymore.
At the end of the year, she hired a car to buy back a cart of live sheep, in Inner Mongolia, before entering the winter, there are flocks of sheep to deal with, the price is cheap, to raise a section here, and when the year is slaughtered, the fur, water, and meat can be sold at a good price. It's just that during this period of raising, it is necessary to put and feed in the field, plus various matters such as vaccinations fall on my father.
Dad doesn't want to care, but this is money, there is no way, the old man of Sanjiutian is putting a flock of sheep in an empty field, and I am afraid I can think of the taste. What's the solution? For his son to have a good life, of course the old man has no regrets.
Seeing that my father was busy all day long, shivering from the cold, and couldn't eat delicious meals, my mother tried to save money and trouble, and often ate leftovers and no oily leftovers, and my father had a bad stomach. The dark, chapped and wrinkled face was dry and thin, and it was sad to look at.
My brother and sister-in-law never said that they would add a piece of clothing to the old man, and they ate a fragrant meal by themselves, but they didn't expect the old man to eat it too! Probably in their cognition, it is natural for parents to do anything for them, and if they don't do it, they should be guilty of death and die, right?
In the countryside, there are water wells, and in the winter, the well is also used to carry the pressurized water to the house, and the brother and sister-in-law have conveniently spent money to receive tap water and install solar water heaters, but ignore the convenience of their parents in their seventies. It's just a matter of water pipes, and it's easy, so I piggyback on my parents' side, and I don't specifically ask you to do anything for the elderly.
But don't they think that they use water, and their elderly parents also use water every day? So how hard should it be to carry water at an old age? They can't see anything in their eyes? That's the parents who spent all their thoughts on him? I can't think of any other faces between the two of them? How can you do such a shameless thing?
Once when I went back to my parents' house, I was already angry at my brother's various performances, and scolded my eldest sister who went home with me: "*******! The two of them are still not human anymore? My dad worked as a cow and a horse for them all day long, tired like a king and a calf, and they were at ease every day, like an uncle, they knew how to eat, drink and have fun, is this what people do? Or is it not human? ”
The eldest sister, who was also so angry, was scolded by me like this: "Are you scolding my dad or them?" ”
It really me off!