My brother divorced Baojuan when the child was one year old, and when he was not divorced, my classmate used to come to my house alone. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 infoAt that time, my husband was selling meat at the market, and she actually found that place, and then counted my parents, mothers, and brother in front of the boss and the boss's wife.

She said in a beautiful voice: "Your brother is too una**, often playing money (gambling) not to say, and always fooling around with some shameless women, one day disrespectful to the elderly, unfilial to his parents, no love for his wife and daughter, what to do, what to eat is not enough, if it is not for your parents to be capable, he can only drink the northwest wind." I was really blind to marry him. ”

She doesn't look anywhere either? What occasion? I don't even know that I am embarrassed? My husband was embarrassed to say anything, but I heard her say with great interest: "It's okay if my son doesn't look like a person, look at his mother again, one day the east family went to the west, and the Zhang family and the Li family were short, so they didn't need it, nothing happened, and the house was like a pigsty, why didn't she stumble?" This is okay for the old man, and he knows how to work in a day. ”

She saw that her husband ignored her, and was busy packing up her things, and her husband was already very annoyed, how could those ugly things in the family be brought to people to say, especially the boss and his wife who were together all day, let them see their jokes? This Baojuan is really embarrassing. He couldn't wait to come out immediately, lest Baojuan be there without any obscurity and nonsense.

I don't know if Baojuan really can't see the level of her eyebrows or her intentions to make people unable to get off the stage, she actually said to herself: "It's impossible that you haven't known who his family is after being married for so many years?" How did you put up with it? I can't take it anymore! ”

My husband hurriedly took her out and took her home, but fortunately my husband didn't tell me at the time, and when my husband and I learned after she left, I was so angry: "She was blind, who didn't agree to separate at the beginning?" Still pretending to be pregnant, to die or live? Now know that you regret it? Deserve! ”

Later, Baojuan fought with her brother all day long, and then with her in-laws, and then she felt bored, and the two of them left directly. No one feels sorry, it seems that this marriage should not have at all, there is no true affection and they are unwilling to pay and refuse to give in, it is strange if they do not disintegrate!

But I feel in my heart that if I didn't have this marriage with her, if my brother could marry a good wife, or my brother's life wouldn't be so miserable? With this failed marriage, it was also a big blow to his brother, making his already weak-willed person even more unable to withstand setbacks.

After the elder brother's divorce, the children were taken by the parents, most of them were taken care of by the father, and the mother only looked at it when she was happy, and when she was unhappy, she even remembered her mother's hateful face, and yelled with hatred: "Look at your mother, who is not human, she cheated away all the money, and if you leave you behind, you will not be angry!" "Sometimes the child really becomes the mother's punching bag.

Although the mother is older, her attitude towards her children has not changed much, or she has never liked children, whether they are biological or granddaughters, what she has never lacked for all children is patience and love. Mom is the only one in the world who has ever used true love, except for herself, who else has really not found out?

When the child was three years old, the elder brother found a girl who worked in Shenyang City and lived in Inner Mongolia, all of which he only knew when he got married.

One Friday, my mother called me for page, I called back, and my mother's loud voice came: "Dayan, tomorrow your brother gets married, you bring me 3,000 yuan, and I need 3,000 yuan for the bride price." "Mom didn't borrow money like a few sisters whose conditions were far better than her own, probably because she favored me, right?

Since I gave my mother money to let her go to the hospital to see a doctor, my mother's attitude towards me has changed greatly, although I am not as enthusiastic as a few sisters, but it is okay, it doesn't look like a hypocrisy, in my eyes, my mother must think that I am very rich, otherwise how to be so generous all of a sudden, with my mother's person, if she has a million yuan, she can give her daughter 10,000, and I am more than 1,000 yuan, I should have more than 10,000 in my hand.

Of course my mother couldn't think of it, and she couldn't have thought of it, I was born with a lack of heart and eyes, and I couldn't think of what to do to keep my hands behind, and in that case, I would definitely be short-sighted, right? If I always stayed behind like my mother, I don't think I would be me anymore.

I was a little surprised, and I asked why it was so sudden, and I couldn't understand it on the phone, so I had to go home and talk to my husband. We have to save 3,000 yuan, and we can get it together in two months.

At that time, although our conditions were better, my husband had just changed his motorcycle, and in addition to saving my husband's seniority money for a fixed time, there was really no savings, and I really didn't want to move the money after saving it for nearly a year.

The first thing I thought of was the eldest sister, so I dialed the phone number of the eldest sister's house: "Eldest sister, borrow me 3,000 yuan when your brother gets married tomorrow, my mother said that my brother's bride price is 3,000, let me pay it first." I'll pay you back in three months. ”

The eldest sister pondered for a moment, probably thinking about whether to lend me money, my situation was not very good at that time, probably afraid that I would not be able to repay after borrowing, right? Then the eldest sister squeaked: "I don't have any money in my hand now, and tomorrow's gift money has to be revealed, why don't I go to someone else's house to move it for you first?" ”

I don't feel ordinary uncomfortable in my heart, if you want to say that others have no money and have a heart, how can the eldest sister have no money in her hands? Since he had already opened his mouth, he had to be cheeky: "Why don't you move it for me first, and designate it to be returned to you within three months." ”

The eldest sister said reluctantly: "That's okay!" ”

We rushed back to my mother's house to attend the wedding, this time I didn't inform my mother-in-law's side, with the lesson of my brother's last wedding, plus what was the matter at my mother-in-law's house, even if my mother asked, she never said to spend some money or give some money, my parents only calculated how to receive gifts, as for the things that went out with the people, they never remembered, or didn't want to think about it at all.

My husband and I also justifiably said to my mother-in-law: "If anyone has something to do here, don't give us money if I don't show up, and we won't pay it back!" I got married and had children, why didn't I see anyone give me a penny? Today she has a high fever, and tomorrow the relatives who have not been in contact for 800 lifetimes will move the grave and pay a salute, I have never even seen it, do you still expect to walk around with them? ”

In this way, I cut off the communication between the two sides, I don't expect anyone to want to slap a swollen face and become fat, advance money to my parents when there is something at his house and then advance money to his family when there is something at my house, if both sides are people who pay attention to etiquette and know how to communicate with each other, it is okay, so that they can still go more affectionately, and it also gives me and my husband enough face! The point is that our house is just a stick burning on the fire.

I feel so tired of living like this! Fortunately, the distance is far away, and under the pretext that it is far inconvenient, it is good to break off the relationship.

The only impression of my brother's wedding was that my father and aunt scolded me when the guests were full, and if they hadn't been pulled away by everyone, there was a great possibility of doing it. The reason is that the eldest aunt made a matchmaker for her brother, but she didn't tell the family that she didn't prepare the bride price until she was pregnant and held a wedding. Dad thought that his aunt had bad intentions and deliberately set a trap for him to drill in, and he was particularly opposed to taking the bride price.

My father was very unhappy and asked me, "What kind of money did you give me?" Is this a clear fraud of money? Whose money does it belong to? ”

I'm a little baffled! Anyway, this money doesn't count on my head, huh? Mom said that the bride price was missing, do I know what's going on? Am I borrowing money wrong? However, I didn't have the strength of the third sister, so I directly scolded the words back, leaving my father speechless. I can only consider myself unlucky, if I don't pay it back, I will pull it down, won't it be 3,000 yuan? What's the big deal? It is only time to honor the elderly.

I remember later, I asked the third sister the same thing, and the third sister replied dissatisfiedly: "My money is not blowing in the wind, why don't you want it?" ”

Thinking that the eldest sister must be unsure about lending me money, especially since my parents may not necessarily return the money to me, she must be afraid that I will not pay her back? I'm afraid that if my sisters and sisters turn their faces for 3,000 yuan, the gains really outweigh the losses, don't worry about this money, and it will be difficult to sleep and eat, thinking that the eldest sister is not at ease and unsteady, I am inevitably anxious.

In the second month, because my husband was desperately pulling people to make money every day, it was quickly gathered, and the two went to the eldest sister's house on a motorcycle, and the eldest sister was breaking green corn in the field to sell, and I handed the money to the eldest sister, "Do you have it?" I'm not in a hurry. Saying that, she took the money, stuffed it into her shoes, and felt much more relaxed after paying back the money, really breezy and light, the scenery along the way was beautiful, and she returned home leisurely on a motorcycle with her husband.